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Posted: 14 years ago

I can't stand to see you sad Geet. I don't ever want you to be sad.

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Posted: 14 years ago
Muniza di-thank u di!!! i meant each and every word.....from the heart....
hopefully everyone reads it....
Maan.....kuch bolo na....bolo!!
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Pari76

I can't stand to see you sad Geet. I don't ever want you to be sad.

even i don't want me to be sad.....or u....or anyone!!!
i want us all to smile.....get a long....laugh......and just have fun!!
and maan.....even if i am sad....with you here by my side.....i know i can't sad for too long!!😳☺️
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Posted: 14 years ago
ok chalo....me off to bed!!!
love u all!!! Please read page 31......everyone....a message for u all!!!!
gn...sweetdreams!
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427

Hi all.....today we are all here due to our three original idiot founders.....Rev di...vrush Di, and Nargis di/mommy ect etc...

we r here because of maaneet......not because of just maan or geet....but because of maaneet....
every where i look in this thread i just see tension tension....but no fun!!! Look back in the other threads....in september.....see the difference from then and now.....
this thread was a place where when i came from college......i could just chill...release stress....smile....laugh.....think.....
when i came from class every day at 4 or 5.....this thread would have reached 40-50 pages....and i would laugh and say.....u guys are torture....wanting me to read all of these pages.....
idiots came....they watched the episode....they symbolized....ripped.....and analyzed every single thing......even if the episode was not good....they looked for the positive parts of the episode.....
we all read each others takes....opinions.....yea we didn't agree with everything....but neither did we jump on each other for not agreeing with anyone......it is OK to not agree with someone...but it is not okay to tell the person flat out that YOU ARE WRONG.....and also it is not good....to try to prove the other wrong!!!
everyone has their own POVs....they should be able to express them....and sure you can disagree with another's POV.....but you shouldn't force ur opinion on that person....respect their POV.../take....and if u don't agree.....then simply state "i respect ur POV, but i disagree...and state ur points.....and so on....
of course debates are fun.....but you should keep it calm...and civilized....so that is fun....and u would not be uncomfortable to do it again
we are all different....we all think differently...which is why we all bring fresh ideas....takes....symbolisms...to our idiot family table....
we come here....so that we all find a reason to smile....find a reason to chill...and free ourselves from other tensions....not come here and leave with new tensions....no??
I love each and every idiot on this thread......but these days....i feel the thread has changed....i feel uneasy in this atmosphere.....
aisa to nahin tha hamara thread kabhi bhi!! We always disagreed with one another.....but we also listened and tried to understand the other's POV....even if we didn't agree with them still...but we still respected it and listened......
also...if you have a problem with someone.....because of what they said....just politely pm them and tell them what you felt....and clear out the issue.....no need to take tension...we are all friends here.....
also don't ever take anything to heart....because sometimes people may not be able to express well in their writings....you may misread what they have wrote....fail to understand...and if so...then pm them and ask them....maybe you will agree with what they wrote....and it will prevent other friction....
everyone is welcomed in the idiots thread.....we all love to hear and read everyone's different views....but it is only fun when the environment is kept comfortable....where people are not scared to voice their opinions
tension tension every where.....we all just need to loosen up....and just CHILL.....breathe.....relax.....
watch our show with an open heart and mind,...let the episode flow....don't try to look for mistakes...because when you do....u will end up finding them......don't sit to critisize....sit to laugh....to smile......to enjoy..feel those butterflies in your stomach when maaneet come close
....yes sometimes u have to critisize......because it was just something that had to be done.....but when you do...just chill......karo....np.....but chill.....refrain bashing
chill,....deep breathes....come here to enjoy......to laugh....to discuss our favorite show......to see Maaneet....our maaneet....
i am sorry if i have offended anyone....this post was not made to point anyone out...i just felt this way strongly....and so as a friend....and shishter....i thought i can share this with u all....
i respect and love you all...and so i expect the same from you all...not that anyone has ever disrespected me......you all are wonderful people......lets keep it that way!! Now one favor and request to all of u....can we all chill...relax...and just have fun...and discuss our show??
Can we bring the old environment back??
I sincerely...with the bottom of my heart thank Vrush Di, Rev Di, and Nargis Di for this beautiful Idiots Thread...had it not been for them...i would not have found such beautiful friends who have become my shisters for life😳



Well Said Shivani! I am going to add a link for it in the index page so that everyone will get a chance to read it.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: --Revv--

Hello to all...

I saw multiple posts which kept stating that Maan is Great and Geet is dirt and she does not deserve Maan: 🤢🤢
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I understand all think that she is selfish and being forgiven is what Geet craves the most because it will give her peace...😕😕
Why wouldn't Geet or any woman who has a partner like Maan not crave his forgiveness? What is so wrong that I want the man, the love of my life's forgiveness? Do you understand why I called her selfish? In every situation she wants an answer now regardless and he didn't leave because he wanted to, he left because he got called for a meeting.
That's another thing, creatives should stop usimg work place for Manneet to settle their issues.
Its true.. Geet is so selfish that she is ready to give up on justice for Maan's sake.
I never said she wouldn't as a matter of fact on "horror Friday" she indicated this indirectly.
She is so selfish that she reacted after coming to know the person who said would support her just bore a knife behind a back (ACCORDING TO HER).. She should not shatter as her God can never make any mistakes...😕😕
Geet said to Maan on "horror Friday" that "I heard what you said to Dadi". If someone said this to me, it means the heard the entire convo. In my POV Maan did not make a mistake on "horror Friday" not because I think he is God, but because he was obeying his grandmother who just suffered from a heart attack. And as I remember you quoting the Mahabarata, it was Maan's duty to obey his grandmother and especially so under the circumstances.
From takes that I have read people have indicate that Maan is God to them and they have also indicated that he has flaws. I have also indicated that he has flaws.
I think people loves the way he handles himself and situations.
She is so selfish that even after Maan told her not to come to ofc, she comes because she knows he is upset..😕😕
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She is so selfish that she plays the fool in front of him because she knows her smile is most important for him. 😕😕

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She is so selfish because she knows that bringing a smile on his face by asking for forgiveness in her typical childish behavior will not only reduce her guilt but also alleviate Maan's pain... Because he would have to forgive himself 1st to forgive her...
As I mentioned in my take from yesterday, she didn't just bumped into him. What Geet did on "horror Friday" is exactly as she mentions in her apology today a "big mistake". He didn't need to forgive himself first he needed Geet to forgive him for being apart of the family of the culprits who runied her life.
The "typical childish behavior" does not compensate for the magnitude of a disaster created on "horror Friday". Considering she is gonna have a baby, she should learn how to address situations as an adult. And after she isn't a kid, she is a young lady.

She is so selfish that she wants him to give her punishment to atone her mistake- Why does she say this??? Because this is how she has been reprimanded for her mistakes in her home..So she meant no hurt when she told Maan to punish her for her faults..

I actually liked that she asked for punishment because it gave me the idea that she realized how big of a mistake she made. She meant to hur to Maan when she asked for punishment, but Maan can't bear Geet to be hurt. It is a relfection of how much he loves her.
She is soo selfish that even after the way he behaved to her during the party... she told him yesterday that he makes no mistakes.. Its she who is at fault always... 😕
I am not going to get into the party issue much except to say that Geet is the one who broke up with Maan. And the dance sequence were used in previous dance tracks and no one complained even though Geet resist in two of the three I recall now...
My takes up to "horror Friday" have been impartial to both Maan and Geet. Geet's action on "horror Friday" made me choose and I chose to side with truth and it happened to be Maan in my POV.

And in love - No matter who hurts whom... ultimately both suffer and the person who has started it all gets hurt the most... 🤢🤢

They both get hurt endlessly.

And when we are hurt.. Reason is as far away from us as the Sun is from Neptune 😆😆

Geet is such a shallow creature that at the age of 18 instead of listening to her elders.. she decided to follow a stranger's words which gave her the courage and take a course of action that alienated her from her kin...

I am not really sure where this is coming from, but the takes I read including my own has to do with her "horror Friday" blunder and not her leaving her family in HP.
Maan has always been Geet's savior... But its mostly Physically... Geet has been Maan's savior - Emotionally... He who had become a hard shell of man and had hidden all his emotions and goodness under the rug of his heart... His true nature came out cos of her.. because of what she was..😍.. Dadi too acknowledges the same!!
I disagree. They have both been each others savior mentally and Geet will be there for Maan when his past comes up and Maan with be there when society points a finger at Geet. Unfortunately and sad, but that is society for you today with few exceptions. You are right in that Maan has also physically saved Geet.

There is a diag in HP - in the wedding house... He says its the paradoxial nature of hers that draws him to her... She is strong but cries like a child when adversity is thrown at her... She is a confused soul - Why.. Because her heart and mind are constantly at war' She has loads of insecurities.. But she is not without her Self Respect.. That was brought out courtesy Maan's nasty remarks.. He has always had the power to make her sit up and not just listen to him.. but follow his words to make her stronger..😳😳😳

This is true he has always been her foundation of strength since before they had a relationship and he always will be.

Though she was wrong when it came to MU, she thought she was standing up for her Self Respect.. Later Ego and pride came to help her fight her battle with Maan. The min she realized that she was wrong.. she abandoned all pretense and is back to clearing the air'

Firstly, self respect had nothing to do with anything. Secondly, I don't believe it was pride and ego either. But won't comment any further.

We all wanted her to apologize, I didn't doubt that she would. But it was dragged on too long. I felt that the creatives tried to fulfill the whole concept of what Yash was supposed to put Geet through and it back fired.
He is her world.. She will shatter if he is no longer in her life.. Just like the pieces of a broken mirror' She may laugh, eat, cry.. But she would be existing.. not living..

Behind my smile is a hurting heart. Behind my laugh, I'm falling apart. Look closely at me and you will see, the girl I am...isn't me.😭😭😭

And ultimately these lines simply describes Geet for me - I think I'm afraid of being happy because everytime I'm happy, something bad always happens. I don't deserve you...I never did.

Wow- This describes Geet's jealousy for me - I'm jealous of every girl that has ever hugged you, cause for one moment, they hugged my entire world

This is for Maan - I'll always be beside you until the very end, wiping all of your tears away, being your best friend. I'll smile when you smile and feel all the pain you do, and if you cry a single tear, I promise I'll cry too.

It's YOU. You mean everything to me...you are the first thought in the morning when I wake up, my last thought before I go to bed, you smile at me in my dreams, when you are sad, I feel sad, and when I see your true smile, I feel incredible, like there is no other thing around and all I can see is you.

I've learned it takes years to build up trust, but only seconds to destroy it.

And finally after this long boring Post' I have to say this to myself -No matter what I do, somebody hates me.

And I would like to explain just one thing about Maan...

Maan reacted the way he did because - he is a person who beleived Truth was ultimate in any relationship!! And here is the love of his life calling him false- He did not care she insulted him in front of the whole world.. Here she said his character was false.. thats what hurt Maan the most.. That he had opened up himself to her (ACC to him, she heard the entire conversation), and yet she disbeleived him...So I understand what he went through and I understand his reaction to the pain... He fell back to his safety net - Namely the angry Facade...

However, I wrote this post only to reiterate that even though we do not agree to someone's way of behaving, it would be nice if an attempt is made to understand or atleast accept the person's faults.. The way we readily accept Maan's faults , why dont we accept Geet's??

"Horror Friday" is unacceptable. No one's past justifies them destroying another human being nor the age of a person who is that of 18 years of age. Geet isn't a child, she is a young woman who is going to have a baby. She did not think after she was Dev, she allowed her hatred for Dev to cloud her judgment and she forsake her love and didn't trust Maan. For that moment he didn't matter to her. Maan isn't Geet's babysitter, he is her partner in life I won't keep going...

Revv 🤗,
I answered your post because I called Geet selfish and I stand by it. My comments are in purkle. Please take no offence as this is my POV.
Edited by Pari76 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
Good nite everyone. Geet, Sri, Muniza
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: pooja83

sorry but couldnt resist
viji its all time maan's duty dat he should work on dere relation?
geet has no responsibilities
i m not against geet lemme tell u clearly
take any of my post till date for evidence
but wat geet did was wrong may b due to circumstances but u cany hold maan responsible 4 dat if u dont hold geet responsible...................



Hey Pooji...Wow you have quoted me...Hayeee My heart is Garden Garden.....and whats this sorry all about.....Idiot You can quote me any time.......and you know this na

Nahi Pooja all the time its Not Maan's Duty that he should work on their relation, Geet too has show her responsibility....Like if you see yesterday it was Geet who worked for their relation......had she not assured him and made him Guilt free then and there itself....we would have to see a face of Maan we have never seen 😊

Look Dear Geet did this according to circumstances and her previous fear etc....BUT Maan too had his share in this MU....and that is a fact.....If Maan, had not taken into rage that day, things would not be the way it was for the past 1-2weeks.....

Geet was blinded by anger and hurt that she could not distinguish b/w right and wrong.....her thought Process was clouded....same goes for Maan.....He tries to talk but look at the way he does....Its in anger and Hurt...
I am sure you have read the Yin-Yang Theory which 2 of our FAV Idiots have posted.....here both were Yang instead of One being yin and Yang..leading to friction and then finally separation....

Now Take the yesterday and today's episode......What Geet wanted to say Maan could understand in a better way because he was in a Calmer state of Mind.....Similarly Maan could talk about his fears to Geet too.....

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Posted: 14 years ago
Hello phamilyyyyy
who all are here ?
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: --Revv--

Viji -

I have a feeling that NT is back for a reason and that is to harm Geet and indirectly the baby... Could she be the sutradhar for the baby being killed (NAAAAAAAAAAHI)...
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Nupsie... I liked all the options that you have put up....
We also have Dev-Meera Romance... Tasha - Romeo Romance 😆😆😆
And the reason phindi queen track.. They never bring cameos without reason... But this time I feel its somehow has a deeper connection ????
What about the fact how NT and Dev got out of jail without Geet or Maan knowing??
How Maan would tackle NT would form the crux of the track for the next 2-3 weeks!!!
After a long time, I love this week's epi... Thank you soo much for taking in our concerns and suggestions...
Please take a care with bloopers and execution- If laymen like us can see it , then they are really huge and not minute...
Request you to up the oomph factor in Maaneet's relationship... I love the way you guys bring the atmosphere for their romance.... I am waiting for sizzling sequel of Kurbaan hua...
That sequence.. for me .. is one of the most beautiful Maaneet moments!! So please do bring in something dhamekedhar
Many viewers are also complaining about Geet's character - she always taking Maan for granted and doing nothing for their relationship 😕
Request you to utilize the NT track where Geet helps Maan save his company and his position in such a way that Maan himself falls in love all over again with her 😉😉
And I would love to have her tackle Sasha and she be the person who brings out the dirty politics out...



Wow Revs.......And Guess what even i feel Pindi Queen Cameo this time does have a Purpose...(I wouldn't be surprised if it turns out to be the other way, Kyuki CV's hamesha hamari predictions ki Waat laga dethe hai)

And agree to the NT track too....Geet should prove that she is his strength, contrary to what NT has said of Geet being his weakness😊

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