Originally posted by: bDgT
This will be a hard hitting piece, so spare me any delicate sentiments.
Those who want to keep on rotating on the drill of "Maan Saved Her" so she should be indebted to him and not utter anything are NOT growing out of the place they have been.
This is LOVE for PETE's sakes not a barter system nor is it about trade offs, no matter how engaging the trade offs are.
When you love passionately and with the deepest of emotion and intensity, all sense of right/wrong, trade offs go out of the window.
You are good to me so I am good to you
You saved me so I am going to be meek
You are my savior so I will not fight with you
You are my life so I will not say anything nasty to you
Hola, folks, get out of that stupid drain pipe and get real
I will do whatever it takes, whatever is SPONTANEOUS and NATURAL
I will not FAKE
I will not be UNREAL
I will be TRUE
If I am angry, I am angry
If I am peaceful, I am peaceful
If I want to hug you, I will hug you
If I want to slap you, I will do so
Any emotion and every emotion is something that is manifest in a relationship
That does not mean one is going to kill the other
BUT IT HAPPENS!!!
So stop saying, GEET should not fight with Maan or say anything to MAAN just because he is her savior.
GET REAL!!!
Sometimes saving is loving.
When he saved her from water in hoshiarpur and her brother, those he did because of humanity. But when he saved her life second time in hoshiarpur and then in the swimminh pool that was his love. If he had not gone after her the second time in hoshiarpur they would have killed her.
I give geet the credit for being brave to help him out in rasika's matter. but again that was ahsty decision. Why did she think that a business man like maan will not be able to handle a court case like that. Very unrealistic of her and put both her life and his life in danger.
A;so I am not saying that geet should take his savings and feel indebted to him. Bt I do expect her to trust him unconditionally. Accepting her with respect after knowing her pregnancy is not a small thing by any standards. When geet told her story about how she got pregnant, maan could have doen 3 things -
1) i do not believe your story and i will not support you
2) I believe your story and i do think this is bad what happened to you, But i cannot accept this.
3) I wholeheartedly accept you because i love you.
the first two things are probably what happen in real life. He chose option 3 and if i remember his dialogues he said, let me be part of your life and not i accept you.
This clearly shows his love. He did not doubt her with the engagement leaving issue. When she did told him about dev, his reaction was that he could accept that his brother could do that. For one second i do not think that he did not believe the truth. His putting his brother in jail was another proof of his love.
So my point is that after all this , she could not trust him when she saw dev at home. We are all willing to excuse her saying she felt deceived, but is that reasonable to accept. we should accept anything because she is a woman and she can do no wrog.
People have used words like manhandleing and rape for maan. However, what geet did to him last friday in the office and in the media, it is like manhandleinh his reputation and raping him off his dignity and self-respect. Sorry i do not like to use these words, but do not for an instant thimk that what she did was samll and inexcusable.
He has kept his promises. she promised to herself that wether he supports her or his broter, she will accept his decision and also promised him that his happiness will be his priority. Then she doubts him, even when he called the police and signed as a witness. i cannot understand her thought process of doubting him.
After that, she has time and again gone all out to him to say and show to him that she does not need him or his help. Is that how you show your independence to the person you claim to love. No one becomes successful or independent without someone's help. I will rather if she had said to him, that I want to make something of myself and I will appreciate your guidance. That is what two people do in a relationship. I am sure if she had said that to him, he would have been quite pleased with that.
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