SAVING and LOVING are DIFFERENT THINGS: GETTITT!

This will be a hard hitting piece, so spare me any delicate sentiments.

Those who want to keep on rotating on the drill of "Maan Saved Her" so she should be indebted to him and not utter anything are NOT growing out of the place they have been.

This is LOVE for PETE's sakes not a barter system nor is it about trade offs, no matter how engaging the trade offs are.

When you love passionately and with the deepest of emotion and intensity, all sense of right/wrong, trade offs go out of the window.

You are good to me so I am good to you
You saved me so I am going to be meek
You are my savior so I will not fight with you
You are my life so I will not say anything nasty to you

Hola, folks, get out of that stupid drain pipe and get real

I will do whatever it takes, whatever is SPONTANEOUS and NATURAL
I will not FAKE
I will not be UNREAL
I will be TRUE
If I am angry, I am angry
If I am peaceful, I am peaceful
If I want to hug you, I will hug you
If I want to slap you, I will do so

Any emotion and every emotion is something that is manifest in a relationship
That does not mean one is going to kill the other

BUT IT HAPPENS!!!

So stop saying, GEET should not fight with Maan or say anything to MAAN just because he is her savior.

GET REAL!!!

Thanks for the reality check for some delusional and sickeningly romantic minds... really cant fathom which world they are living...

Why is it soo difficult to accept that Geet can desire to have an identity other than Mrs MSK!! Is it greed for designation and a financial security.. NO!! Its every man/woman's right!! Its granted by our constitution... Why is this soo difficult to enter the thick brain of Maan and some of his worshipers !!

If saving is loving, except fire fighters NO man would have ever been loved!!!

Love is setting free still coming back...
Love is holding to ur individuality still content to feel complete with the other half...
Love is mutual respect...

Thanks for the post 👏

One last point:

Geet says she can live without him, she doesnt want him save her all time...It hurts him deeply... but that is NOT Geet's fault... That's Maan's thinking problem... Why cant he accept that and give her the due respect??

Maan was supposed to be Geet's guide and mentor... when did he turn into this possessive lover??

Rolzz: Absolutely brilliant example of firefighters; you know that is what some people do, have this HERO complex and fall for that HERO complex

I love these words of yours:

"Love is setting free still coming back...
Love is holding to ur individuality still content to feel complete with the other half...
Love is mutual respect..."

Excellent posts , above and the opening one ! bDgT , thanks for tthis thread. We needed something along these lines when Geet was getting bashed left right and center for being insensitive towards her 'savior' .

In a hurry right now , will try and come back later and contribute.

PS- My 'like' button not working for some reason . But just to let you and Rolzz know , I loved your posts !

very well written,,thanks for this post,,,very well needed,,,,👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

I am a very silent reader and watch all eposides maybe 10 times everyday...and let me tell u this: I LOVE YOUR POST!!! 🤗

Originally posted by: PrithviSanyo1

excellent post bDgT👏.
u said right saving and loving not a similar thing.
maan understand this yesterday. he mis judged geet's word.
geet has self respect and want to be independent .we r woman and want to create our own identity (It's my personal opinion , not want to hurts anyone feeling).

just like geet want to create her own identity. yes in future she will become maan singh khurana but it's her not only identity.
maan don't understand this thing first and now he understand it.
maan is lover, protector, mentor of geet. he will help her , suggest her to choose path but it'll be decide by geet to which path she will choose.

now another thing love is not binding some one forcefully, if u love someones then let her/ him to fly and if he/ she also loves u then he /she will come back to u.
just like maan will do it to geet.
and by this time maan also know the importance of geet more and geet also know it.
she will win, she create her own identity but she need to maan share her happiness with him.,
after this maan will respect more geet.
both have to realize their importance to their life, they need each other equally.
and another important thing we know married couple called better half,
in my pov it's mean (better half mean) both are equal .no one superior than others.
if we need to continue a relationship then it'll need to be equality.
hope cvs show us, geet will create their own identity but want to share her happiness, success with maan/ ,
maan also understand it and respect geet more.
both loves each other and need each other but before that they have to understand the meaning of love, the importance of love and most important have to respect each other,.

well said , we all know that they love eachother it is just they don't realise that they are different individual . they can be friends and communicate with eachother . as he has promised geet that he will be by her side always . as far as geet goes she did not want him to boss her as in her whole life she had to listen to everybody . she had to do what others said to her which she doesn't like . that 's way she does thing s in opposite way what maan says . so she must be let free and when she will need him he can always help her .

Good reality check! Liked and agree with all your points. They seem to capture the spirit of what honesty in true love really means.

loved ur post Bri 👏👏👏

if love was a trade off than even Maan shouldnt be a jerk .. considering what his family put Geet thru .... if he can have expectations and desires related to this relationship than why not grant Geet the same courtesy?? Maan is realizing this ... I m more worried about those who have been blind in his support