Its Maan's LOVE & not his EGO!!!!

Hi guys!!!!.....i'm making dis post as an attempt 2 try n understand n also explain da amazing n unique n our very own...Maan Singh Khurana!!!!!.....these r purely my views here as to how i am lookin at his present behaviour...my aim is not to bash geet, CVs or anyone for dat matter...i'm just tryin to get into the psyche on my fav man ..Maan!!!!

So here goes....

B4 i proceed let me just ask you all 1 ques...had u been in maan's palce how wud u hav reacted to geet's horrendous n baseless accusations????.....i can answer 4 myself.....i wud hav been deeply n terribly hurt to da core of my being!!!!!

And my friends dats EXACTLY how n why maan is behaving da way he is rt now!!!!..

u know i think dat here its not so much abt maan's ego....but his extreme hurt dat is making him behave dis way!!!!....come one how many of us....(forget whether man or woman)....wud take kindly to da way geet insulted n demeaned maan in front of da whole wide world!!!!

Wat wud be our reacns as normal ppl if we had got da same insulting words n untrue accusations(dat geet threw at maan) of da worst kind thrown to us on our face...wen whatever we r doin is 4 dat very 1 person who is breaking our very world with her baseless accusations!!!.....

I mean maan here is behaving da way he is....coz he is just big time hurt!!!!..its not abt ego!!!...any normal guy or girl wud be hurt at geet's behaviour!!!!!!......whether in love or not...so where does da ego cum in all dis????

Maan is just tryin 2 prove to himself dat geet needs him in totality(his love, his strength, his support)...coz he just simply loves her beyond reason.....n cannot accept dat she doesn't need him in any capacity at all!!!!...but he doesn't want to again bare his soul 2 her....so instead of telling her dat she needs his love...he is using da word support!!!!...dats all....n most of da ppl end up reading LOVEas SUPPORT....

coz see even after all dis...his concern 4 her is intact!!!!...is dat ego or love???....n even after all dis he cant see her tears...is dat love or ego???...even after all dis he cant let her out of his sight...is dis love or ego????...if i wud be in maan's place....honestly i don't know how much love i wud be capable of feeling after being hurt da way he was by geet!!!!

So i know dat maan has an ego...but here its not his ego but his undying n extremely dep love for geet...which is making him react in dis way...coz dis is da only way he can prove to himself....dat geet needs( read LOVES) him beyond everything n any sitn!!!!....maan's anger i feel is completely justified!!!!

Ok guys....here are my views on da present maaneet track...esp abt yes'day's epi n wat seems to be da track dat wil continue 4 sum more time i gues....

--- Maan... i really n truly support him....not coz i love him too much but coz i truly admire his undying n deep love 4 dis 1 child-woman called geet!!!!....2day it actually gave me a lot of satisfaction 2 see maan behaving da way he did wid geet!!!!!...if u guys notice....geet has told him da worst possible things dat u can tell ur beloved....but maan has till now not spoken abt how much she has hurt him...but hee keeps thinkin abt dat hurt all da time!!!(tai-chi scene)...quite a painful scene to see maan getting sooo tormented!!!!...so obvs he is da stronger n more mature of the 2 of dem!!!.....again maa'ns actions r conveying to geet how much n to wat a deep extent she has hurt him....

----Geet.....if she had truly understood maan...she wud hav known dat he is a man of actions n not words!!!....even now i think she is failing to read his actions 4 wat dey truly mean....i mean dat maan obvs still loves her a lot.....yes'day he scolded her 4 being careless abt her preg condtn!!!!...prevented her 4m falling!!...2day again he softens wen he sees her tears n almost wipes dem...but tells her dat hs has stopped dirtying his handkerchief!!!!...meaning..he has stopped being vulnerable again!!!...also da smile on maan's face wen he hears dat geet is here to stay is to watch out for...reason????/...he jsut cant n will not stay away 4m her!!!

da most painful scene of 2day...wen maan realizes dat she is not wearing his ring!!!!...again since he believes a lot in actions....it hurts him like hell!!!!...n he again changes his stance n becums taunting n rude!!!!...but i don't blame him....coz obvs maan is not a saint...he is a normal man...n guys which normal man wud be all polite n sweet after he was blasted wid da worst possi kind of accusations n dat too by da person whome he loves more dan life itself????.....maan's obvious hurt was sooo palpable...i cud actually feel his pain on not seeing his ring on her finger!!!!

---u know i cant help feeling dat geet is actually quite selfish...sorry 4 saying dis here......but 1week bak n even now...she is only n only thinking of her pain, her suffering, her dreams being broken, her life n her future!!!!!...wat abt da man who has given u dis very life n was always there to support u thru thick n thin????...has she even for 1 sec tht wat maan must hav felt at her words????....even after 1 week her brain hasn't tht abt da sitn dat......maybe...just maybe she may hav misunderstood maan....

now i feel dat an intelligent girl wud definitely see dat...b'coz n after she has uttered her harsh words she has almost made maan d away he was b4!!!...i mean just dis observation will tell a girl da extent n impact dat her last words had on da man himself!!!!.....i mean if u hav taught sumone 2 laugh n smile n be polite...n den after u hav behaved in a particular way or said sumthing to him...n he has again reverted to almost his original self......dis itself must tell u wat impact u had on him his life!!!!

Ok guys dat was a long one!!!!...n i hope dat i hav not bored u all wid my long analysis!!!....n also these were just my views on maaneet ...n i don't intend hurting anybody's feelings or emotions...just put down wat i feel abt these 2 characters n their present sitn!!!!

Love,

imu

Love u all loads,

imu

nicely writte, but even after this, yes there is love but also ego

Hey Imrana..Very well-written..Actually few people can understand MSK as some of you in IF ( Imrana , Kashish , Aditi , Niha , Dol - few names ) understand this character . MSK is doing everything for his love and to help Geet not fall infront of the ruthless world. ..I have seen lovers kick dirt at each other when they split , move on with other people or plain and simple take revenge by degrading the lovers.....In this story have we seen MSK do anything of this..He in the one week of introspection decided to win his love back once more.....I hate to say this but an egoist in such a situation would react GTH for the person ( could be his love, parents , siblings anybody) .......Wouldnt go out of the way to take the person under his wings.. .Nobody sympathises with MSK .....MSK is totally lonely....No friends , hardly any relatives ( doesnt open up with Dadi ) ..nobody to share his happiness or sorrow with him..almost living an isolated life....Geet walked into his life and he started feeling alive and needed....She was the only one who gave him a reason to start living life...Everybody needs that ego boost when someone says that I love you or I need you in my life...MSK has been doing so many things for everybody in the past ( read Dev , Dadi , Geet )...All that one needs is reciprocation that "I value what you are doing for me"....In his instance he didnt get that back ever ...the temporary period when Geet reciprocated ...we almost found him wagging like a puppy behind her ...Is he wrong in feeling that he loves Geet to bits and she is now just showing him that there was no importance of him in her life....Geet is wearing a coloured goggle....CVs pls get Geet the lover back as well..This story is not only about Geet the sherni , the independant women.

imu dear could i agree more.............loved each and every word..........🤗

very well written...........👏
and must say dat i agree to u not coz i love maan madly bt coz he is right...............

Originally posted by: vij10

Hey Imrana..Very well-written..Actually few people can understand MSK as some of you in IF ( Imrana , Kashish , Aditi , Niha , Dol - few names ) understand this character . MSK is doing everything for his love and to help Geet not fall infront of the ruthless world. ..I have seen lovers kick dirt at each other when they split , move on with other people or plain and simple take revenge by degrading the lovers.....In this story have we seen MSK do anything of this..He in the one week of introspection decided to win his love back once more.....I hate to say this but an egoist in such a situation would react GTH for the person ( could be his love, parents , siblings anybody) .......Wouldnt go out of the way to take the person under his wings.. .Nobody sympathises with MSK .....MSK is totally lonely....No friends , hardly any relatives ( doesnt open up with Dadi ) ..nobody to share his happiness or sorrow with him..almost living an isolated life....Geet walked into his life and he started feeling alive and needed....She was the only one who gave him a reason to start living life...Everybody needs that ego boost when someone says that I love you or I need you in my life...MSK has been doing so many things for everybody in the past ( read Dev , Dadi , Geet )...All that one needs is reciprocation that "I value what you are doing for me"....In his instance he didnt get that back ever ...the temporary period when Geet reciprocated ...we almost found him wagging like a puppy behind her ...Is he wrong in feeling that he loves Geet to bits and she is now just showing him that there was no importance of him in her life....Geet is wearing a coloured goggle....CVs pls get Geet the lover back as well..This story is not only about Geet the sherni , the independant women.

Very well-written ..!!! yeas dar is a lov n tiz stupid ego is nt lettin him 2 shw his lov 😉

Veryyy well written.