Gurmeet Choudhary played Lord Ram in Ramayana and followed it up with a stint on the popular reality show Pati Patni Aur Woh, alongside fianc Debina Bonnerjee, who he has been seeing for the past six years. Right now, he's busy winning hearts with his portrayal of the angry young man, Maan in Geet. When I interact with Gurmeet, I understand why he was an apt choice for his role in Ramayana. Down to earth, humble and a simple person by heart, Gurmeet's sober personality reflects in his replies and though he does get a little scandalised by our bold questions, he sportingly answers them all. So to know his views on love, society and life, read on.
Tell us about your first attraction.
It was way back in school and it was a really childish attraction. I had a crush on this South Indian girl. I found her very attractive. I remember she used to live near my house. Unfortunately, I never knew how to begin a conversation with her.
What was your first date like? How far would you go on a first date?
My first date was with my then girlfriend and now fiance Debina (Bonnerjee). It was amazing. That was the time I realised that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. How far would I go on a first date? Well, I can't reveal that!
What would you wear on a hot date?
I would dress up casually and wear a jeans and shirt, with a few buttons open.
Would you call yourself a flirt?
Not at all. I don't think I flirt.
What is your take on one-night stands?
To each his own. If you ask me, I don't agree on having one-night stands. I am a little too conservative on that. But if people are indulging in it, it is their prerogative.
Have you ever been attracted to someone of the same sex?
No way. I am not attracted to the same sex. When there are so many beautiful women around, why will I get attracted to men?
Has a guy ever hit on you?
Yes. But I did not reciprocate. I made it clear that I don't swing that way. Such things happen and it's okay as far as one doesn't go overboard.
What is your take on homosexuality and bisexuality?
I do not want to enforce my opinions and thoughts on somebody else. If you ask me, I am okay with somebody being a homosexual or bisexual. It is their life and their sexual preference. As long as that somebody doesn't mess with me, I am fine with their homosexuality or bisexuality.
What turns you on in a woman?
The most important thing that turns me on in a woman is her intelligence. It always helps if she looks good and is attractive!
How would you react, if a girl made a pass at you?
I would feel extremely shy. But I would definitely feel flattered.
What are you views on pre-marital sex?
Again, I think it is subjective. To each his own. I guess pre-marital sex is okay, as long as you marry that person. If you are not serious about your partner or are in a frivolous relationship, then it should
be avoided.
Do you think men always have sex on their minds?
No, I don't think so. I think that is a very stereotyped opinion. Men do have sex on their minds, but not always. We have other things on our minds too, like work and money.
How much importance would you give to sex in a relationship?
I give my 100 per cent to everything I do. I believe in a relationship, all aspects are equally important. So I would say that sex is very important, if you want to have a healthy, happy relationship.
Do you see yourself in a purely physical relationship?
No. I can't be in a purely physical relationship. I need to be emotionally and mentally involved with my partner.
Do you think nice guys have a tough time getting the right girl?
I don't think that assumption is true. I had it rather easy and I was only 20. I started seeing Debina, when both of us were 20-years-old. That was a pretty early age to get a girlfriend. So if I can get the right girl, I don't see why the other nice guys can't. They will just have to wait for the right moment.
Why do men love bitches?
Some men love a spanking after being scraped of all the money and honey from their life! So maybe that's why they love bitches.
Have you experienced the casting couch?
Yes, actually, I have seen it, but never experienced it. But I can vouch for the fact that it exists in this industry.
Showbiz entities are assumed to be loose. How would you react to such assumptions?
I do not mind or care about such kind of assumptions. People will talk whatever they want. I just hold on tightly to what I have and I am happy as far as the people who matter to me know how I am. I won't change myself, no matter what people think.
Would you take back your partner who has strayed in a relationship if she regretted it later?
I may take back my partner. Actually it depends on the situation.
What is your opinion on open marriages/open relationships?
Again, I don't believe in such concepts. Why be in a relationship or marriage if you do not want to be loyal? It doesn't make any sense.
Tell us about your wildest fantasy.
I wouldn't want to share my wildest fantasy in the open. It is too wild to talk about.
*By Purvaja Sawant
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