GHSP-Geet's story or Maan's story?

Oh dear...first of all a tight 🤗 for your turmoil. I really hope it helps😊

Coming to the topic, I think the show still revolves around Geet. It is about her self-respect, her feelings, her dilemma, her strength, her courage to fight things. And that's what she was doing today as well.

She is merely 18 or 19 years old carrying the fate of a soul who hasn't yet had a chance to breathe. Yet, she does not lose courage and decides to make a secure future for both of them. She bears insults and nagging from people around for her unborn child because she cannot afford to lose the job. She cannot afford to let go of the few people she knows in this unknown city, even though they may not like her that much. And so she takes everything in her stride and learns from her mistakes and manages to make amends.

And then Maan happens! She falls in love with the man who always abused her - verbally and physically. How, when, where, why - she does not know. What she now knows is that she cannot let this man suffer because of her past. By all means she tries to stay away from him. And every time she makes a resolve, he takes a step closer trying to bridge the gap. She knows he too has feelings for her, but she feels she has lost all rights to confess. She is helpless. With what authority will she confess her feelings? Isn't it better to reject him than to gain sympathy by talking about her horrid past. He's done enough for her, more than enough. And she'll always be thankful to him. But why cause him more pain by telling him that she does love him and then walking away? Why give the hope that something can be worked out when she is not ready to make him suffer at all? She's sure he'll jump off his feet to help her even now now - that he'll support her with her child. But why should he suffer for someone else's sin? Is it not better that she faces rejection and then settles with someone who suits him better? At this point she doesn't know of his past so she cannot judge what her rejection means to him.

I agree she may be giving him mixed signals and confusing him even more, but she is human after all and that too just a young girl. He is hell bent on making her confess when he himself hasn't. Yes, he tried and she stopped him. But how can she confess her love for the person who once thought she was a thug and wanted to lure him for his money?

The show still revolves around her and not Maan. Just my thought. 😊

agree niha. am disappointed too.

Totally agree with you..

Just to delay the confession they are doing this...every episode is like hyped by spoilers and then nothing happens...

For once i want Geet to understand that one day when her bump shows Maan will know anyways ...so why not now?

One day she is hurting him..other day she is giving him signals (letting him touch her , twist her arm, catch her pallu, let him draw her so close Etc..i mean she would not let these things happen if it was not Maan but someone else right?) ..and then next she is fighting her feelings..

Just as Maan said "i am tired of this chupa chupi ka khel" So we are...

I am also disappointed today..............

See..I am willing to be understanding about the show..

The CVs work in a society..which is patriarchal..
The inherent feminist strains ARE the ways women do fight in their lives

Geet stands up for her rights..but they come at personal sacrifices

She loves Maan.
Not to be sentimental..but even practical..

She loves Maan. And she cannot tell him the truth because she knows it will hurt him.
What will she say anyways? How will he react.

When there is the person you love on the other line..someone as unpredictable as Maan..you can't just confess...

It's within the context of the so called job that she's doing this.
He can conveniently revert back..but she cannot..

She might get a job..but none as safe as that with Maan

She has faced abuse before..

Now..this is different..

Plus he's emotionally blackmailing her.

She is 18..It's not easy.

Its now that..being 19 even I am understanding how oppression..even gentle oppression works..

It's not easy to be all radically feminist

I think Geet is usually a pretty well-rounded individual who is aware of what she is doing.

God..I have no idea if I got any of my points across..
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but really good post Niha!

They can make it realistic even now..but the problem is r we viewers going to accept fultoo reality show without any romance ??...if one episode they don't show a romantic Maneet scene whole forum goes ballistic demanding for a romantic scene😆...so do we hv any right to complain when they r actually giving what we want ??😳