why dont these men exist for real? - Page 12

@honeydew

lol....he isn't exactly like Maan...I meant to say was tat he can give that pep talk like Maan gives Geet to be brave....plus this guys works wid me...strict policy about dating ppl w/ certain position....he is my best friend don't want to loose him...plus my dupatta won't fly anywhere cuz I never wear one to work or school...I can just hope for a jacket....lol....but u did put a thought in my mind

Originally posted by: Miss.Colorfull

after reading nehaahmad story. i just remembered my story so this guy liked me in 8th grade both of us were in 8th grade and he pointed at me infront of the whole class when his friends asked him and i was so embrassed me. he tried talking to me and tried to get closer to me n all but i always thought of him as annoying n he did drugs as well. so i guess these kind of men do exist in real life like with love n all. he told me he wanted to marry me n all n kept asking me if i had any sis or something. idk if he was flirting or not but i kinda experienced wat they shows in the show but in shows it looks romantic but in real life it's not really or we don't look at it romantic way or anything just like leave me alone.

i agree yaar, in real life its annoying - and embarrassing to say the least. you cant get away fast enough when somebody is singling you out like that. or is aggressive in the way they approach it. because honestly speaking girls are quite cruel. If a guy singles you out they will make god knows what stories and stuff and 'its always your fault that the guy fell for you, never the other way around' and at that point our reflex is avoidance and running away. thats why we get attracted to nice guys eventually because they respect their boundaries and ours too.

When Maan held her hand and she said let go and he says back i dont care if the world comes i wont let go (said somethign like that) i will be so pissed and kick the shit outta the guy for putting me in that situation in real life. in my dreams he can do whatever :)

so i agree with your analysis\ completely.

Neha

Originally posted by: jamoshi2507

@honeydew (Niha) I do wish from the bottom of my heart that u will also get one .... btw I am also a hopeless romantic... zara sa romance dekha ki bas I start drooling ...😍
yes all the N's are going to rock the forum👍🏼

@geet261 thank u dear ... I really hope u also get ur Maan/Armaan

@tanya_vi its so good to know that Nehas are not alone

@virgo_gurl I totally agree with u ... these kinds of situations are too embarassing to handle in real life... ur instinct is to just get away as fast as u can

@nehaahmad you did make new friends and one of them u can't forget at all and u know why 😉


sorry for so many posts one after the other .... kya karen I don't get time in the day ... so I have to read and post at night only... its like a daily dosage ... nahin toh neend nahin aati 😉

Thanks Yaar :) i know😉

btw have you guys read this qoute

"don't look for Prince Charming, Cinderella already got him :)"

Thank you all for your wonderful comments.

Love,
Neha

Originally posted by: -honeydew-

so you know someone who is like maan huh? what are you waitin for 😉 ... everyone around me is either like Adi, or Dev.. and you are saying, you have someone like Maan around you.. and when you know ... these dupatta and other sequences wont happen for real.. what other signals are you waiting for ? or did i just put a new idea into your head 😉 sorry for taking that liberty... have sort of been feeling very connected to the forum and its member since yesterday... hope you didnt mind that...

Lol Niha!!! rofl@ everybody around me is like a adi or a dev. Girly, we really do need to get you outta the adi dev mess and find you a Maan :)

Rajik21 - Yaar i dont wear a duppata either except at desi gatherings, suits for me at work!!! which are so unromantic to say the least. And in drama's these people show exaggerated feelings. obviously a mountain wont fall on u when he touches you, or holds ur hand. but i am so excited that you have a really good friend. and if its meant to be it will happen. IDEA: get a taveez man and give it to him. yeh drama kaab kaam aiga hamaray. there you go.

sorry i am full of crap ideas today, waiting for the episode and especially today's episode will do that to me :)


Neha

hahah! sure, i am waiting... get me one...!!

Originally posted by: nehaahmad

Lol Niha!!! rofl@ everybody around me is like a adi or a dev. Girly, we really do need to get you outta the adi dev mess and find you a Maan :)

Rajik21 - Yaar i dont wear a duppata either except at desi gatherings, suits for me at work!!! which are so unromantic to say the least. And in drama's these people show exaggerated feelings. obviously a mountain wont fall on u when he touches you, or holds ur hand. but i am so excited that you have a really good friend. and if its meant to be it will happen. IDEA: get a taveez man and give it to him. yeh drama kaab kaam aiga hamaray. there you go.

sorry i am full of crap ideas today, waiting for the episode and especially today's episode will do that to me :)


Neha

m quiet sure such guys do exist---buh the sad part is--that we never came across one!!😆

if i come across someone like that... i wont tell you what i will do... yahan bacche bhi hai ! 😆 😆 ... lekin uske baad woh kisi ko mooh dikhane laayak nahi bachega!! 🤣

Originally posted by: uzmakhan

m quiet sure such guys do exist---buh the sad part is--that we never came across one!!😆

TE=nehaahmad]

Originally posted by: Miss.Colorfull

after reading nehaahmad story. i just remembered my story so this guy liked me in 8th grade both of us were in 8th grade and he pointed at me infront of the whole class when his friends asked him and i was so embrassed me. he tried talking to me and tried to get closer to me n all but i always thought of him as annoying n he did drugs as well. so i guess these kind of men do exist in real life like with love n all. he told me he wanted to marry me n all n kept asking me if i had any sis or something. idk if he was flirting or not but i kinda experienced wat they shows in the show but in shows it looks romantic but in real life it's not really or we don't look at it romantic way or anything just like leave me alone.

i agree yaar, in real life its annoying - and embarrassing to say the least. you cant get away fast enough when somebody is singling you out like that. or is aggressive in the way they approach it. because honestly speaking girls are quite cruel. If a guy singles you out they will make god knows what stories and stuff and 'its always your fault that the guy fell for you, never the other way around' and at that point our reflex is avoidance and running away. thats why we get attracted to nice guys eventually because they respect their boundaries and ours too.

When Maan held her hand and she said let go and he says back i dont care if the world comes i wont let go (said somethign like that) i will be so pissed and kick the shit outta the guy for putting me in that situation in real life. in my dreams he can do whatever :)

so i agree with your analysis\ completely.

Neha
true n the funny part for me as when in 9th grade he made a big scene about it n he had a gf n i was just feeling like disappearing from there because his gf came up to me n she knew me as friends like not gud riends but just friends n she knew it was all er bf too. it was sooo embrassing like he kept saying i want to marry u n have kids blah blah. one of his friends even told me that he wants to marry me so u like him n all n i was like no n the guy kept saying dont tell her. the badpart was he was sitting behind me in 9th grade n when i looked behind i was likee noooooo plz save me god not again. i tried lying to him too but he caught me so yeah. he embrassed me couple of times n sometimes he didn't succeded cuz no one really cared. right now he is not in my skool no more thank god.i told my best friend she told me he was flirting but he was so not flirting like one time he was so close talking to me that i could hear his breath. that scared me n i tried to move away from him n finally he got it that i am uncomfortable so he stopped. from my experience all the stuff they show in tv/movies is only gud when u actually like the guy like they show onsceen other than that it's embrassing,stupid and feel like having a stalker. i have other stories related to that but i should just stop now 😆

lol i wondered the same thing too! Every time i was these Star one dramas, the men are so romantic! These eye-locking moments, clothes getting stuck on the buttons and all these times the men save us....hmmmm dreaming on....

Originally posted by: tara1978

lol i wondered the same thing too! Every time i was these Star one dramas, the men are so romantic! These eye-locking moments, clothes getting stuck on the buttons and all these times the men save us....hmmmm dreaming on....

I don't think i have ever found such a man like that in real life. What I've experience in real life with men is that after 6 months of dating or marriage, they give up romance! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr while women crave for attention, love and romance the men just give up!

These tv series really makes us dream on isn't it?

yup if the button gets stuck like they show in the tv in reality the guy would be mad even as a husband rather than staring in the eyes of his wife or take the dupatta out or something cuz in reality i guess ppl don't have time or theyjust think of it as show off or something or just plain shy about it. one of my uncles was so romantic with his wife that in parties thy would eat off the same plate idk if they showed that to get attention of the video guy or it was love lol😆