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Posted: 15 years ago
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i have read so many posts.. just want to put my point in a new post.. 😊

if you have been in love with someone, then they betray you.. take your money and walk away what would you do? that was Maan.. he was in love with someone who betrayed him then took his money and left.. and what he did was, hide his pain and sadness in a black corner inside him and act tough.. who knows how long he has been acting tough before Geet came to his life and made him realize what he really is missing which is life itself..

yes, he was being a jerk holding her arm like that.. but try to understand where he is coming from.. he does not support "violence" because once he told Geet that he doesnt raise his hand over the weak.. which to him Geet is.. but when Geet in yesterdays eps USED HIM to get what she wants and actually SMILED at it, he went mental.. anyone in his position would go crazy seeing that for how long hes been TOUGH, this girl just simply USED him AGAIN! so what does he do? should he really go to her and say "why are you smiling?" or "Geet you are bad" no.. he'd do anything to let his pain out.. and that was the moment when he shouted his pain out! and when Geet was about to slap him, he held her hand roughly because to him, there is no way a girl would raise his hand at him..

just remember that eps when Geet went to him at night and he accused her of the same thing, she raised her hand but he didnt do anything why? at that time he was too letting his anger out but it wasnt Geet's fault.. this time, TO MAAN, it was her fault.. because to him she was using him! and he had to stop her!

i dont see any "violence" promotion here at all! people should think beyond the scene.. its not ok to use violence against women, and i am against it big time.. but in Maan's situation, it was totally understandable!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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totally agreed.. in his situation, he is now toattaly lost... his own mixed feelings, his attractions, his past of betrayal, his ego, his self respect, everything is making him totally what he is now.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I still think that there was no need for Maan to be so violent with Geet but yup...his pain did overtake him and he completely lost control!!

I think he has decided to paint Geet as the villian to help him fight his feelings for her but slowly and surely am sure Geet's tenderness and innocence will win him over......afetr he finds out abt her child and what she went thru but still remained smiling!! That will be the new lease of life for both these heart broken souls.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I totally agree.
I did find his behaviour violent-but tht's wht I expected from him.Ofocurse,no1 would eva lyk to be used.When Maan accused Geet,she raised her hand;and when Maan had the feeling of being used,he showed his strength.Obviously,you can't expect a girl to show tht kind of behaviour.I did think that both of them were being wrong somewhere-but then even,I felt tht Geet was at more fault.She had been quite irritating since the past days,and you cant expect from someone lyk Maan to resist that.He had been the complete angry young man,since the very starting.How could you expect him to change overnight,and tht too,when he hasn't even accepted his true feelings for her.I neva felt he was at wrong;though,his behaviour was violent-which,one can't really help.😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: hapinezz13

I still think that there was no need for Maan to be so violent with Geet but yup...his pain did overtake him and he completely lost control!!

I think he has decided to paint Geet as the villian to help him fight his feelings for her but slowly and surely am sure Geet's tenderness and innocence will win him over......afetr he finds out abt her child and what she went thru but still remained smiling!! That will be the new lease of life for both these heart broken souls.


true! she sure will win him over, and all this arm twisting will never happen again.. cause this time he is in a war within himself.. it was showing when she grabbed his shirt and he pulled her closer.. i think at that point, he was slowly losing his anger and was about to get passionate but he pushed her away, something he always does when she gets straight to his heart
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree, he felt used so he reacted like anyone would. without trying to hear some1 out and just accusing them for stuff they didn't do.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: billu-rani

In a way i think that your right, but i also feel that there is no reason for someone to express there anger to someone in a phisical way....Yes it was Geets fault for trying to use him but the fact that he was accusing her 4 things such as money, betrayal,running way with the property was going too far...He just put all his rage on Geet....He punished her for someone elses wrong doing. So tecnically it is violence...but i see where your coming from...it was geets fault but maan took the situation way to far....A women can never tolerate people raising fingers and commenting on her character...any women would get pissed and try to slap the person.....maan knows geet is not like that but he just took his pain out on her in the form of anger...Geet was wrong but she didn't deserve what she got from maan


i agree that she didnt deserve it, but now that we know about his past.. im sure he thought he was shouting at this Sameera.. im sure when he shouted Geet and walked angerily towards her.. he stopped looking at Geet.. cause like you said, why would he accuse her of betrayal, stealing his money when she wasnt? he went too far cause of his pain, not cause of his personality
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Amina-

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I did find his behaviour violent-but tht's wht I expected from him.Ofocurse,no1 would eva lyk to be used.When Maan accused Geet,she raised her hand;and when Maan had the feeling of being used,he showed his strength.Obviously,you can't expect a girl to show tht kind of behaviour.I did think that both of them were being wrong somewhere-but then even,I felt tht Geet was at more fault.She had been quite irritating since the past days,and you cant expect from someone lyk Maan to resist that.He had been the complete angry young man,since the very starting.How could you expect him to change overnight,and tht too,when he hasn't even accepted his true feelings for her.I neva felt he was at wrong;though,his behaviour was violent-which,one can't really help.😆</font>


EXACTLY!
no one can change overnight, especially those who lost contact with their emotions!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes maan was hurt from the past and he jumped to conclusions when geet smiled when he though she was taking advantage of him so he lost control i get that BUT if this was the situation in real life, or even far worst i'm just a Believer that even if the woman does something wrong a man should NOT manhandle her, push her down and grab her hair ESPECIALLY if he does not have proof against her. but so far in the show, maan is known to jump to conclusions never thinks before reacting

honestly i tried to understand where your coming from but from my solid beliefs i am never able to think of woman abuse justifiable

hope nobody gets offended with my views :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think whatever Maan said was Ok becoz he has been helping Geet and she tried to use his (as he make out from her smile) so he could accuse and blame her for using him for money or whtever

...but when it came to pulling her hand, holfing her hairs and pushing her hard is not at all acceptable.....no matter what but he has no right to do it with her ....

This is physical abuse and this is very common in India society ...weather its daughter , sister , wife or a unknows women ,,,,physical hurt is not at all acceptable..

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