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Posted: 15 years ago
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Did ya guys feel tht?...I thought I was the only one thinking in tht way:my sis would'v told me you're being soo mean and insensitive.😆

But,anyways.I think Geet was being abit too much since the last 2-3 epis.I got highly irritated:think of the poor guy.And the way,she actually used his sympathy was wrong:I would never support such kind of behaviour.She was wrong.She wanted to make him feel guilty-tht was ok.But then,smiling to yourself all-way abt tht,any1 watching tht for the first tym would think of Geet as the wrong one.👎🏼

But,then,I won't support Maan's behaviour aswell:the arm-twisting is gettin' too much.I used to feel it's one of the most approprite ways of showing one's passionate and intense love:but,I don't find it romantic anymore,especially in this case;coz we know,he does tht for showing his anger.Plus,the hair-pulling too got too much;and then,the push.
Whatever,if we've to think in a sensible way;then,Geet's behaviour was wrong,and so was Maan's atttitude.But,if it comes to dramatized thinking:then,all was kinda pure passion.😍
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Its good to see both the leads flawed to some extent and not glorified. Geet behaviour ever since she came to the outhouse has been pretty irritating even to me at times. So I can well imagine it when Maan lost his marbles. I too feel that cunning smile of victory did Maan in and he lost his balance. His past experience with Sameera only sort to reinforce that feeling and we have always seen Maan acts before he thinks. So it was all very consistent. Ofocurse we have not seen Maan so angry that he got so violent with her and I really dont know what he would have done to Geet had Dadi not interrupted him. But then again we have always seen Maan being on the rough side. Geet manages to evoke the best and the worst in him.

Coming to Geet's behaviour, I too feel that she went too far, consciously using Maan's sympathy for her own gains but we women do such things from time to time. I've done it myself when I have exaggerated some ache or pain and got my hubby all worried. That extra attention that you get does give you a kick. I guess Geet was no different but the poor girl underestimated her Maan Sir.


When these two know each other's past, their behaviour towards each other will definitely be a lot better than what it is now. So let us forgive both for their actions which basically stems from their ignorance.
Edited by Opti - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#13

Yes wat ever u said was completely right... N i was thinking that my Maan Obsession is makin me think like that...
No doubt Geet has been acting very very irritating from past 2-3 days.. I understand her desperation to stay in the outhouse but it could have been done in a better way...
Yes both Geet n Maan have their share of flaws it makes them real n adorable too... Just love them, a little bit more love for Maan :).
Coming to Geet's behaviour, I too feel that she went too far this time, consciously using Maan's sympathy for her gains (In her innocence she doesn't really realise the impact of her words/actions).
that cunning smile of victory did Maan in and he lost his balance. His past experience with Sameera only sort to reinforce that feeling and we have always seen Maan acts before he thinks.
Geet's behaviour was wrong,and so was Maan's atttitude, Geet manages to evoke the best and the worst in him.
Ppl r saying that she should have immediately but i think she stayed back ALSO bcoz of the fact that she's not completely clueless to know that there's more to his reaction than meets the eye, At least am hoping, maybe thats y she din't leave after his outburst...

Regarding Geet clutching Maan's shirt i doubt it was due to geet's desire to be close to Maan...
Maan twisted her arm n held her tightly with a very angry (n sexy look. for MSK angre n sexy go hand in hand) look, her only was to retaliate Maan was holding his shirt, i was like ppl hold the guys collar when angry... Geet was defo hurt n angry, i was her way of showing angre on him..

Edited by swatichowdhury - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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But she still needs to say something about all the accusations.
Looks like she is not going to say or do anything. that is upsetting ,
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree that Maan's physical behavior was uncalled for but Geet too knows how angry he gets....just not the reason behind it....which she will in time though!!

Hey I think Geet bunching his shirt was her trying to push him away while he was trying to bring her closer.......It was in no way romantic!!

As to self respect.....just don't forget that Gete is still the rustic gal from Hoshiyaarpur who is brought up in a fashion where they have been hitting her....aslo that she has nowhere to go kinda makes her helpless.....she is trying really hard to live and take care of her won self which day by day is becoming difficult.,.......Cv's way of bringing the truth out abt her desperation n helplessness.

Also when Maan comes to know what happened to her in reality and she still had a smile on her face and was so happy he will respect her more and fall deeply in love with her!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I felt Maan was way too harsh on her, but I think at that moment he was no longer looking at Geet....he was seeing Sameera in Geet...which infuriated him further...but his actions were wrong regardless...and Geet certainly crossed some limits in her innocence....but in the end I must say both Gurmeet and Drashti did a fabuluos job today 👏

I think Geet's childishness from the past few episodes makes sense...becoz she is still a child...shez only 18 and pregnant with no other place to go...she knows that rite now Maan is her only option...and i think the CV's did an awesome job in showing her desperation...I think regardless of age, everyone gets tired of being mature and understanding at times...and since Geet is so young, it makes sense for her to have such inconsistency in her behaviour... 😊 I love the way the CV's keep this show so realistic 😳
Edited by monigod - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: cxw1065

Hello fellow Maanetians

so, this is likely to be an unpopular opinion, and I'd like to preface my statement by saying that I am ABSOLUTELY again violence against women, and after the first hand-twisting episode, I posted in many places including the Geet FB saying that Maan should never manhandle Geet, EVER
However, I do feel that in this instance, Geet was in the wrong and actually what Maan SAID (not what he did-- the physical intimidation was still wrong)-- what Maan said was actually CORRECT-- in that moment, Geet WAS trying to "hamdardi ka faida uthao".
She actually comes across as the typical calculating female-- realising that Maan cannot bear her pain, she makes a conscious decision to make use of that and get him on her side to let her stay in the house.
It's not an unreasonable thing to do, but I have to admit that it was calculating-- perhaps Geet is truly so innocent that she didn't realise how it might seem from the outside........but just imagine how it were to look if we didn't know them. There's the girl, just having made the man feel guilty, and then standing and smiling to herself.............OF COURSE he goes ballistic.
Now obvously, he went over the top, with the physicality of it all, but to be fair-- his words were not unexpected not were they necessarily wrong.
We've all been saying it-- she has come across slightly desperate to stay in THAT HOUSE with HIM-- he has to think to himself-- WHY?? and when you put in this past experience with Sameera (whoever she is, mother or ex-GF), and the fact that he hates Naintara, probably for a similar reason, (and if I were to really speculate, who knows why Vicky went missing, was Sameera involved, or is there another woman involved there??)-- well Geet was just aiming for a fall.
She's not perfect, is our Geet, and thats refreshing, and reassuring-- I'm sick of Tulsi and Parvati and Bandini- it's nice to see a girl who has some flaws.
Let me reiterate-- I in IN NO WAY condone and violence, and I do think that Maan went OTT.
One question for the forum-- why did Geet grasp Maan's shirt, when he had pulled her soooooo close-- the director made a real point of showing her hand FISTING into his shirt-- like she wanted to get even closer.......whats going on there???????


actually according 2 me...geet is trying 2 hold his collar n maan held her hair r head...n i hate that the most...
ek ladki ka hair pakadna...😡
but i dont think geet's trying 2 take an advantage of getting coser 2 him like someone above said...i feel she's holding his collar...!!
damn...!!
i hope ye jhagda ends soon...
unka nhok-jhok acha lagta hain..but not this serious jhagdas...😲
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Posted: 15 years ago
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they perhaps wanted to create a Raj kapoor nargis type ka angsty feel with the scene, but it so dint go down well with me as well...
and when Maan got angry with her, i totally also could see where he was coming from...
1. it has always been made apparent he hates women.
2. He tries his best to keep Geet away
3. He realises he cant keep her away after all.
4. he slowly starts to feel something for her, though his mind stops him and keeps warning him against it.
5. he perhaps see's a jhalak of what had already happened in the past, and everything comes right back and he loses his sense of judgement....

we all know, the moment he holds her hand for the second time and twists it, he remembers the last time he did it, and promptly apologises to her ...

but it is only that grin that changes it all for him...

his anger hence is justified.... his reaction to it aint...!!

lastly, even dadi tells him it was not his fault...!! which means, he holds himself responsible for whatever he allowed to happen!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i don't think geet was very much at fault here. she was just being kiddish. it's like you have a lollipop and trick someone in getting you another one 😆but maan's reaction really very blew me off. if he shouted at her, i woouldn't have mind but the way he gt violent and physical really pulled the last string. and i can't believe geet took all of thiis and didn't say anything to maan! it's about seelff respect and the way maan treated her, that was humiliating, harassing and very degrading 😒

Edited by cooldude10 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I get your point. Geet may have been wrong but the action towards her was not justified and never can be. Abuse in any form is never right!! That part still bothers me a lot and its hard to see past that.
Edited by SuhaniSonia - 15 years ago

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