Originally posted by: Viji79
Its a very purani soch that a man should get only a virgin as his wife. We all talk a lot about forward thinking but dont have the heart to accept it. I can understand if darji and the likes think that way. But not this generation people. How long are we going to take to stop such discrepencies berween men and women. Coming back to GHSP, what did Dev do Geet except marrying her and giving her a child. Her present plight is because of him and it was only Maan, whether willingly or unwillingly, who has come to her rescue all the time. And can anybody match geet in terms of innocence, self-respectfulness and of course attitude!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well said! 👏
I'm so sick of finding comments like these of youtube videos and now even in our very own Geet forums, No offence to you Sana this is just how I feel hun.
I always get gobsmacked seeing such comments around because I thought being in the 21st century peoeple would be more open to such stuff happening but no I'm wrong. 😳 I'm not saying that I'm perfect and very open-minded because that's not true, I'm still young and learning to be more open to new things but that doesn't mean that I should start throwing such statements about. This topic did touch a nerve with me because I really hate it when Women are labelled and treated as second class citizens! I mean does a women not have the right to be happy with someone even if she is pregnant with someone else's child? I really do hate it when people say stuff like this, especially when it comes from females themselves. It's bad enough being a women because we have to face so much in life, we are labelled at every point in our lives and this is the reason why people still stay in their old thinking.
Regarding Geet, she too has a right to be happy, if it weren't for her family's old thinking she never would've been in this situation in the first place, they should've been more careful as to who she gets married to, I mean even her brother Brij said being a girl was the worst thing, which I think makes him look like a total 🤬! And as Viji said Geet was married, like men, women too have the right to marry again and be happy. The first thing we need to do is kill the thinking which labels women and holds them back in life, making them unhappy!
@Sana: I'm really sorry if you get offended but I do not agree with what you said, I think that is very old fashioned!
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