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Posted: 7 years ago
Lovely back to back updates Nisha!!!! Thank you🤗
I loved the fact that they are sort off at a standoff-is there something worthwhile pursuing that has developed in these 3 months or isn't there? The issues remain the same-Chandu, Teeku's job, and Bareilly. A solution is there that resolves all 3 but are they willing to take the next steps to get there or are they going to sit on the sidelines until the other party makes the first move.

The other really good piece is that the parents on both sides do want the relationship to succeed. Both the Vaidyas and the Guptas are happy with each other and trust each other. That gives this couple a boost in trying to work things out.

2 things that were of interest-Harit's own growing frustrations with Bareilly-the heat, the old style, his own job/position and Harit's growing awareness that this lifestyle is not sufficient to keep someone like Teeku engaged in the long run. By Teeku saying her job is open for 6 months, we now have a deadline of which half the time is already lost. Harit has to figure out if something can be changed/sacrificed on his side to get Teeku closer to committing to him permanently. So far, Teeku has been the one making the adjustments and accommodating to new circumstances. What Will Harit do??
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: kalavathi5

Lovely back to back updates Nisha!!!! Thank you🤗

I loved the fact that they are sort off at a standoff-is there something worthwhile pursuing that has developed in these 3 months or isn't there? The issues remain the same-Chandu, Teeku's job, and Bareilly. A solution is there that resolves all 3 but are they willing to take the next steps to get there or are they going to sit on the sidelines until the other party makes the first move.

The other really good piece is that the parents on both sides do want the relationship to succeed. Both the Vaidyas and the Guptas are happy with each other and trust each other. That gives this couple a boost in trying to work things out.

2 things that were of interest-Harit's own growing frustrations with Bareilly-the heat, the old style, his own job/position and Harit's growing awareness that this lifestyle is not sufficient to keep someone like Teeku engaged in the long run. By Teeku saying her job is open for 6 months, we now have a deadline of which half the time is already lost. Harit has to figure out if something can be changed/sacrificed on his side to get Teeku closer to committing to him permanently. So far, Teeku has been the one making the adjustments and accommodating to new circumstances. What Will Harit do??



Good one Kala. Food for thought. It's a huge huge call
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: kalavathi5

Lovely back to back updates Nisha!!!! Thank you🤗

I loved the fact that they are sort off at a standoff-is there something worthwhile pursuing that has developed in these 3 months or isn't there? The issues remain the same-Chandu, Teeku's job, and Bareilly. A solution is there that resolves all 3 but are they willing to take the next steps to get there or are they going to sit on the sidelines until the other party makes the first move.

The other really good piece is that the parents on both sides do want the relationship to succeed. Both the Vaidyas and the Guptas are happy with each other and trust each other. That gives this couple a boost in trying to work things out.

2 things that were of interest-Harit's own growing frustrations with Bareilly-the heat, the old style, his own job/position and Harit's growing awareness that this lifestyle is not sufficient to keep someone like Teeku engaged in the long run. By Teeku saying her job is open for 6 months, we now have a deadline of which half the time is already lost. Harit has to figure out if something can be changed/sacrificed on his side to get Teeku closer to committing to him permanently. So far, Teeku has been the one making the adjustments and accommodating to new circumstances. What Will Harit do??



Kala - Good take on Harit's mind graph! May be their trip to Delhi apartment will trigger some change for him. Or Dr. Maheswari's advise for Chandu to refresh his old memories (I dont know if that really makes sense)
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Posted: 7 years ago
Is this going to be another Long distance relationship ?
Him in bareilly and Her in Delhi ?

May be..

Chandu will be happy to be in Delhi again.
He'll be the happiest 😊
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: kalavathi5

Lovely back to back updates Nisha!!!! Thank you🤗

I loved the fact that they are sort off at a standoff-is there something worthwhile pursuing that has developed in these 3 months or isn't there? The issues remain the same-Chandu, Teeku's job, and Bareilly. A solution is there that resolves all 3 but are they willing to take the next steps to get there or are they going to sit on the sidelines until the other party makes the first move.

The other really good piece is that the parents on both sides do want the relationship to succeed. Both the Vaidyas and the Guptas are happy with each other and trust each other. That gives this couple a boost in trying to work things out.

2 things that were of interest-Harit's own growing frustrations with Bareilly-the heat, the old style, his own job/position and Harit's growing awareness that this lifestyle is not sufficient to keep someone like Teeku engaged in the long run. By Teeku saying her job is open for 6 months, we now have a deadline of which half the time is already lost. Harit has to figure out if something can be changed/sacrificed on his side to get Teeku closer to committing to him permanently. So far, Teeku has been the one making the adjustments and accommodating to new circumstances. What Will Harit do??



That's a good one Kala! Didn't think of Harit's view or Teeku's adjustments so far.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: jaschick



Kala - Good take on Harit's mind graph! May be their trip to Delhi apartment will trigger some change for him. Or Dr. Maheswari's advise for Chandu to refresh his old memories (I dont know if that really makes sense)


Don't know taking Chandu back to Delhi is a good thing, it can go either way.
And moving the fledgling family to Delhi also wouldn't be a good option. Waiting for your magic, Nisha!
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Posted: 7 years ago
I don't think they will be able to part ways now. Harit when she returned a couple of days later from Roorkee you were agitated with her so how can you think that you would be ok if she decides to go back to Delhi.
And madam you want to live every second with him so how can you go back to Delhi.
Chalo tum donno ki baat naa bhi karen. Is it fair for Chandu?
Jaab jiski jo marzee ayi kar liya!
You are taking him to Dr. Maheshwari but not ready to addresss the actual issue.
Jaab woh bacha yahan settle ho jayega you are planning to displace him again. If not displace him then you are atleast thinking of separating him from only mother figure he has.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: PriteeMisra

I don't think they will be able to part ways now. Harit when she returned a couple of days later from Roorkee you were agitated with her so how can you think that you would be ok if she decides to go back to Delhi.
And madam you want to live every second with him so how can you go back to Delhi.
Chalo tum donno ki baat naa bhi karen. Is it fair for Chandu?
Jaab jiski jo marzee ayi kar liya!
You are taking him to Dr. Maheshwari but not ready to addresss the actual issue.
Jaab woh bacha yahan settle ho jayega you are planning to displace him again. If not displace him then you are atleast thinking of separating him from only mother figure he has.



Pritee , yes Your Honor 👍🏼 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago

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Pritee , yes Your Honor 👍🏼 😆



Just thought of it, if Alka insists Harit and Avantika for their part better go for couple counseling you know, Lakshmi is going to have 4 cows one go 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
Alright people ... Here is a game ! Fill the top 10 reasons why she shouldn't go back to Delhi/Roorkee

Top 10 Reasons why Teeku shouldnt go back to Delhi
10. She is a sweet DIL. Very detailed oriented in her doctor visit. Not only Lakshmi, Harit loves it too.
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