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Posted: 8 years ago
#31
Appa notices the "glint" in R&B's eyes. Or lets say he imagines it. He didnt approve of the rishta, but he has to endure the dude nahi?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What to say it's the time they all should be there with each other and just don't blame anyone
No one wants this to happen even to the enemy
I so can relate to the pain coz have been through it. U tend to overcome but u never forget
I had two miscarriages first one was of around three months and the memory is still just so fresh that whenever I m alone or sad I think that day and start analysing things like wht I did that day or wht I should hav not done to avoid it but it's fate
Wht is to happen HAPPENS
I had both my miscarriage in 2006 and then my Arishka was born in 2012 august
It took me six years

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Appa notices the "glint" in R&B's eyes. Or lets say he imagines it. He didnt approve of the rishta, but he has to endure the dude nahi?



Bloods thicker than water. Sad, he's enduring his kozhandai who stuck to her guns or her choice but he will never be able to come to terms with the 'chosen' one.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonalgupta2004

What to say it's the time they all should be there with each other and just don't blame anyone
No one wants this to happen even to the enemy
I so can relate to the pain coz have been through it. U tend to overcome but u never forget
I had two miscarriages first one was of around three months and the memory is still just so fresh that whenever I m alone or sad I think that day and start analysing things like wht I did that day or wht I should hav not done to avoid it but it's fate
Wht is to happen HAPPENS
I had both my miscarriage in 2006 and then my Arishka was born in 2012 august
It took me six years



I'm so sorry sonal.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#35
Ayyooo
What aall is happening!!
II...its too early to even react...I totally get her point
The others also...
Appa should literally fly to Paris I say🤣
Amma n akka will put out their lives to fight appa
He is sooo undenyingly hateful of RB's existence!
God also cant change this man!

What next nisha???
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Posted: 8 years ago
#36
I beg to differ here I agree the mother goes through the pain emotionally and physically too but the loss hurts the father's as well it's more tough for him because he should act like it's all ok in front of the wife so that she doesn't break down and that definitely requires courage .
If II lost the baby and peri appa the man who lived and saw life for 70 years it's RB'S loss too after his mom it's his baby now
II has her parents and sis whom she can always gon back too (am ignoring the sam and ranjan part here bcoz very rarely I see such nice ppl exist at the In laws side😲)

RB has only II with whom the guy opens up or reveals his true self
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonalgupta2004

What to say it's the time they all should be there with each other and just don't blame anyone
No one wants this to happen even to the enemy
I so can relate to the pain coz have been through it. U tend to overcome but u never forget
I had two miscarriages first one was of around three months and the memory is still just so fresh that whenever I m alone or sad I think that day and start analysing things like wht I did that day or wht I should hav not done to avoid it but it's fate
Wht is to happen HAPPENS
I had both my miscarriage in 2006 and then my Arishka was born in 2012 august
It took me six years


That's so sad 😕 so sorry to hear u went through so much of pain sonal..
One of my best frenz went through the same she first had miscarriage some 2 times finally got pregnant then she had a premature baby and after 11 months the baby died😭
It's been a year and she and the guy are so lost and dead
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Posted: 8 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: sarsyed



That's so sad😕so sorry to hear u went through so much of pain sonal..
One of my best frenz went through the same she first had miscarriage some 2 times finally got pregnant then she had a premature baby and after 11 months the baby died😭
It's been a year and she and the guy are so lost and dead



What trauma these ppl must be going thru when the longing for a child becomes elusive!! Hope they find joy in their lives soon in whatever form!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sonal
It must be incredibly heart breaking, I know it never "goes away"
Grief is strange that way, it NEVER "goes away"
People that love you and are around you "wish" it would

But it doesnt


I have known people that have lost kids, 2 year old 30 year old
The amount of grief is exactly the same

Life is a b----
Some are lucky ...others... not quite as so much
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Posted: 8 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: Errantnomad



What trauma these ppl must be going thru when the longing for a child becomes elusive!! Hope they find joy in their lives soon in whatever form!!



It's the worst feeling anyone can have
And on the top of it you can't do anything just try to be normal and forget it
Time heels the body but heart can never forget
And it is true a child binds the whole lot of family see here only be it Ranjan or Sam or appa Amma or even vandu and everyone
It's the loss for the whole family as everyone feels connected to the news itself

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