Originally posted by: jasminechick
Kalpana - I don't know about checks and balances. Just do it. Will others chip in, will they help when u need one ? Probably time will answer. I believe u are here in the situation in this frame of life based on your karma.
Arasan endru kolvan; deivam nendru kolum
If u help out, u are passing that to kids. If u avoid like ambala Anna, u end up with a mukund. I think that's a kind of check and balance.
Excuse my psychotic blabbering mind.
Yes we have a saying that while kings pass their judgements immediately destiny holds out
Let me tell you i have seen the officials who thrive on bribes within months face circumstances and health set backs that prevent them from enjoying the bliss of life. When people give them the money they curse them in their heart and they draw towards themselves great negativity. They lose their health and peace. There are others who do what is right by the dictates of their heart may face difficulty and problems but there is goodwill towards them which acts as a shield.
Seidha Dharmam Thalai Kaakum...the positivity and blessings manifests in some form or other. How Mukund turns out to be , time will tell.
Amma is blessed with two gems in Vandhu and II and the dude and his family.
Bala is ok so also are his parents who openly admit on the wedding day to Sam what lovely lasses the iyer girls are. For Amma that might be more rewarding than a tiara placed on her crown.
Akka is lovely nodoubt but II and her dude have certain amazing qualities in reaching out unconditionally unmindful of others response which redeems them.
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