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For the first time ever in their intense relationship She accepted something She couldn't hide. Something She wouldn't have let him know otherwise.

Originally posted by: monalisa123

Prejudice:

As I mentioned earlier, everybody has their own experiences.

I have always been accepted with open arms by all americas I know. All of my bosses have been goras. My previous boss supported me from the day one of my career with my company. My current boss was fighting with HR. Director to make sure I get fair salary based in my grade.

May be because I have been lucky or may be because I am married to an American.

prejudice is something I or me and my husband experience from our fellow Indians. I have a South Indian couple, older, staying across from my home. As soon as they see me or my hubs or both us, they close their garage door. We wave to them, they turn around and leave.

We go to invite them to festivities, they never answer their door.

We go to indian grocery store, the owner would leave the cash register and sends a Mexican worker to check us out. We ask them a question, they act like they don't understand English.

I give a hoot for their behavior. I still be like kaise ho uncle from across the store. I still wave to the neighbors across.

My family adores my husband and that's all matters to me.

So nazariye nazariye ka fark hai.

THAT IS PLAIN AWFUL
You should not give a damn for the POSs that treat you differently. I am so shockingly apalled at such explicit juvenile behavior by Desis
They will either hide behind their Gods or their "customs"
There is no excuse for abhorrent behavior. I dont think any of them know the choices you have had to make in life
Dont let ANYONE tell you how you should live your life. More often than not they dont have a f**king clue😡 I would stop shopping there or confront them. I am a Leo I cannot take shit lying down unfortunately

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Thanks for the honesty and sharing your thoughts Monalisa, I miss your hand holding picture, you and your husband? I suspected he was Caucasian😃
As I grow older I am hopefully becoming wiser too, and trying to shed some of my prejudices
Its hard... but I hope it happens😭

I think we can all never agree or disagree on this topic. I have heard children saying to their parents hy didn't you encourage me to study, scold or beat me when i was not studying. There are all kinds of people. Kids may say we have not abandoned you, we are sending you money, there are so many kids there who have sent their parents to old age home, who are not taking care of them, hire a nurse if u r ill, we will give you money, hire a cook, maid...for some money talks others will give more importance to family, relations, love and affection. And for me among money and personal attention, the latter is the best and that will be the value I would like to impart to the kids.😃

SHILPA

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

THAT IS PLAIN AWFUL
You should not give a damn for the POSs that treat you differently. I am so shockingly apalled at such explicit juvenile behavior by Desis
They will either hide behind their Gods or their "customs"
There is no excuse for abhorrent behavior. I dont think any of them know the choices you have had to make in life
Dont let ANYONE tell you how you should live your life. More often than not they dont have a f**king clue😡 I would stop shopping there or confront them. I am a Leo I cannot take shit lying down unfortunately

Nirali : Lots of love to you! You're a brave heart!!! genuine and straight forward! 🤗
I thought Desi's who live nearby in abroad would always be pleasant to visit and talk!.. never knew they are worst than Mohalle ki gossip queens..at least they don't bitch about you on your face!

So cheap !!!

You're enjoying your life thats enough!
usually I don't wish for revenge but for them I must pray for a lesson!

Nirali

Originally posted by: putti77

Envee n SR

Slept already?