Originally posted by: swathi1990
Iam not sure what will happen...Ranjan/Sam would say that she shud have taken a leave...I donno what appa will say...will he still say "My daughter is career oriented so she wont attend her sister's function"...oh god!! Its funny to think appa's position now...
Vandu will be upset...Dude wouldnt care...he would just say that she has work..
From amma's perspective, i can totally understand...Amma thinks that 'Bala etho sollitaru nu she is now not coming to the ceremony'...if u think this at this high level it sounds absolutely immature which II is...I remember my amma alway saying 'If u take all these words seriously, I would have never spent even 26 days with ur father's family let alone 26 years'...these things happen in relations and words do appear...u just have to understand the boundary and behave...ipdi unless u give me all rights to help u out, I will not attend the function nu solrathu ammaku seriya padala...
Swathi
The whole work situation is not a fabricated one by any means. She just doesnt feel warm and fuzzy about Ritu, Secondly, like Bala's Mom, Paatti asked her, she did not apply for time off for the week of August 9th, that was entirely II's fault
The fact that her "mind" allowed her to forget the ceremony, we dont know. Sometimes when we dont like someone, we genuinely forget things related to them, when we should be paranoid about things related to them.
Its like if you dont like a friend, instead of taking a stand and not invting her anymore, we end up inviting her FIRST, or if we have a friend that takes offence to everything you do, instead of inviting them first to a family event, we ALTOGETHER FORGET😭
II knows her equation with Ritu, she should have been more aware, but she wasnt.
The heartbreak with Bala presented a ready made opportunity for her to make amends with Ritu and she took it. She is not known as the most careful, mature, thoughtful, reasonable, poster child of "How to behave like a married woman" anyway, so this is in character with what she would do
I know Nouf also suggested its uncharacteristic of II to be gone, I dont think so
She is the queen of randomness, she got an MBA after CPA and then three years later a MS in Comp Sc. She is a CPA that is always broke.😳Rational people are SO overrated II is IT😆
Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago
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