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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: nividances

Aur rahi baat II ke rone ki? I can FULLY relate to her with that. I have been told before that I cry at the drop of a hat...chahe khushi ke aansoo ho ya dukh ke. Par kya karein? Hum to bhai aise hi hain, aur aise hi rahenge. 😊


If she cried like a TV soap bahu to get her way or to prove her mahaanta I would tear her to shreds using Akka's character. Most characters in fiction cry with an "End goal" in mind... she doesnt want jewelry or expensive clothes or a bigger car or a fancy vacation or another flat or "gift unreasonable amounts of money to her mayka" NOT ONE THING

She cries out of helplessness and fear
She could have been bold and stronger emotionally, but I thought the vulnerability will be accentuated if she cries.

I bet somebody else or many others would do a better job in crafting her... she is all done NOW i cant change her😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: nividances


Sounds just like my childhood! Bhai ko maar padti, phir usko dekh kar mujhe bura lagta aur main hi ro deti. 😆
But I have definitely learned to control the water works now so they don't show up as frequently. And if I feel like the dam is about to burst I will quickly make a run for the bathroom. 😛

My sister is a darling...we love each other..will be the first one to protect each other from OTHERS... But between the two of us...we'd kill each other😆
Humare yaha toh my sister would hit me, she would cry n I wouldnt... Mom or dad would come... Mom ne dekha meri behen ro rahi hai n fir meri class...dad would only scold, mom would hand me occassional "prasad" for the fight...all coz my sister was the "good girl" of the family... N me the badmash bachcha😲
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl



hershey jo bhi kaha theek kaha all i am saying is II's behavior is more normal than you think..
regarding aunts aur grandparents hoten hai bigadne ke liye my inlaws are visiting i can scream at my kids only to later hear u know kids are like that , pavam what do they know from them 😡 they dont interupt nor remember what they did as parents
ek example doon my daughter is spoilt rotten by my friend and so one day at 5 when she asked and i said no she packed her bag and started walking all alone to my friends house who lives 3 miles way .. u have no idea how scary that is .. if a cop had caught her hum toh gaye we could have lost her that day , do i blame my friend no ..mere haal bura luckily she came back i was watching her , she came back because he forgot her teddy..😆
kithna drama kids will always say i will get this uncle to buy it or ask grandpa to buy it then middle school happens and we tell them nobody buys ,u want to leave great actually stay in foster care in dirty houses and they then get it 😆😆


Oh my gosh Anu! Your daughter is absolutely adorable! She came back for the teddy! 🤣 Although I'm sure you must have been worried sick when the incident actually occurred, it sounds so funny looking back at it now.

Something similar happened with my brother when he was younger (I think he must have been 2 or 3). My dad used to travel a lot for business when we were younger and he would be gone for a few months at a time. So during the summer when we would be off from school, the entire family would go with him. One time we were spending the summer in Malaysia and my dad's company had rented an entire floor of apartments in a high rise for its employees. We would usually spend the afternoon at the pool since there wasn't much else to do. Our apartment was on the 10th floor and the pool was on the roof. It was cloudy one day so mom said no pool. That was enough to cause a huge meltdown for my brother. After crying and screaming for a bit, he actually changed into his swimshorts by himself, got on a stool to open the front door, and then proceeded to let himself out of the house. My mom and I watched with amusement at first, but that quickly turned into panic as he ran into an open elevator. Thankfully it was one of our neighbors who was in the elevator with him so they brought him back upstairs immediately. My mom made sure to keep both his swimshorts and the stool out of reach after that incident. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: harshita27

My sister is a darling...we love each other..will be the first one to protect each other from OTHERS... But between the two of us...we'd kill each other😆
Humare yaha toh my sister would hit me, she would cry n I wouldnt... Mom or dad would come... Mom ne dekha meri behen ro rahi hai n fir meri class...dad would only scold, mom would hand me occassional "prasad" for the fight...all coz my sister was the "good girl" of the family... N me the badmash bachcha😲


You still are 😛😉
Just came back I always go the last page, so I havent read the whole thing.
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Posted: 10 years ago
I just read about your allergies, take Allegra. My husband takes it that and it helps. Also this season is being called pollen tsunami. Feel better soon. Pray for rain.

My friend has bad allergies, she was on the conference call, she thought she had put the phone on mute, while she was wiping her eyes and blowing her nose. Then she realized that no one was talking, so she checked her phone, she had put the call on hold (she was the main speaker) so she said hello. The other three went, thanks we were almost ready to refinance our homes (as our bank had very annoying habit of advertising its loans) she was super embarrassed. And it was her second day at work.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: nividances


Oh my gosh Anu! Your daughter is absolutely adorable! She came back for the teddy! 🤣 Although I'm sure you must have been worried sick when the incident actually occurred, it sounds so funny looking back at it now.

Something similar happened with my brother when he was younger (I think he must have been 2 or 3). My dad used to travel a lot for business when we were younger and he would be gone for a few months at a time. So during the summer when we would be off from school, the entire family would go with him. One time we were spending the summer in Malaysia and my dad's company had rented an entire floor of apartments in a high rise for its employees. We would usually spend the afternoon at the pool since there wasn't much else to do. Our apartment was on the 10th floor and the pool was on the roof. It was cloudy one day so mom said no pool. That was enough to cause a huge meltdown for my brother. After crying and screaming for a bit, he actually changed into his swimshorts by himself, got on a stool to open the front door, and then proceeded to let himself out of the house. My mom and I watched with amusement at first, but that quickly turned into panic as he ran into an open elevator. Thankfully it was one of our neighbors who was in the elevator with him so they brought him back upstairs immediately. My mom made sure to keep both his swimshorts and the stool out of reach after that incident. 😆

My sister n I once didnt return from school, coz we wanted to see some cultural event practice...ofcourse I was the mastermind... Told her -chal didi aaj ye wala dance practice dekhte hain ruk kar... I remember I must have been in first grade n my sister in 3rd... It was summers... Dad had got us kids' aviator glasses for fun... My nani's maid went to pick us from school... It was walking distance from nani's place...N came back saying she couldnt find us ... My mom used to work n her school timings were different so we'd stay at our nani's until mom would pick us after work.. There was panic at my nani's place... My mama went to school to enquire... But as he got near the school, he saw us walking hand in hand on the road with those aviators on... My mama was sooo angry that day 😆... Ofcourse we got grounded!!
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


Monkey see, Monkey do?

THATS EXACTLY HOW MY LIFE IS
I saw my Dad not give enough importance to money, I am exactly that way😭, In a way Ranjan is like my Dad, he saw his siblings rob him and didnt utter a word. Ofcourse the amount of money we are talking about in my case is less than 1% of what Bhallas have.
I am not a CPA if I lived in India I dont think I would not make as much as II but yes, I do spend recklessy😃 I am neither ashamed of it nor proud of it... this is who I am

Most people in my story are someone I KNOW in flesh and blood, even Minion and Selvi and Mrs Sagar and Bally...

I feel for your parents Nivi. Jitna padh lo kahin chaley jao par Indian bride ke parents ki wat lagti hai shaadi mein😭 Us maamle mein KUCH nahi badla

I AM ALL FOR TRADITIONAL RITUALISTIC WEDDINGS
I DETEST weddings that look and feel like they are from Tollywood. I have even lil respect for the bride and grooms that dont protest and let their families go into debt. Borrow money yourself of make the dude or bride borrow, parents ki wat mat lagvao



Weddings nowadays are looking more and more like orchestrated musicals or Bollywood movies to me. I just want a simple event without the Bollywood stars and singers showing up at the sangeet to perform. I see enough of them in newspapers and magazines, I don't need to be seeing them in my wedding pictures now too. 😡 I just want something simple...the hazaaron rupees ke flower arrangements and laakhon ka designer lehnga is not going to make or break the wedding. But mom and dad going into debt to arrange all those unnecessary things will leave a very bad taste and a huge burden on my heart.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Nisha aditha update eppo?
Kaarthale waiting with here with morning chai.

❤️
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


If she cried like a TV soap bahu to get her way or to prove her mahaanta I would tear her to shreds using Akka's character. Most characters in fiction cry with an "End goal" in mind... she doesnt want jewelry or expensive clothes or a bigger car or a fancy vacation or another flat or "gift unreasonable amounts of money to her mayka" NOT ONE THING

She cries out of helplessness and fear
She could have been bold and stronger emotionally, but I thought the vulnerability will be accentuated if she cries.

I bet somebody else or many others would do a better job in crafting her... she is all done NOW i cant change her😆


Yeah, I totally get her on that front. My first reaction to stress is usually tears. Once the salt water is out of the system, I will move on and try to think logically. Mujhe koi sharmindagi nahi hoti ye kehne mein ki I am emotionally sensitive and vulnerable. Ab hoon to hoon...har kisi ka kuch na kuch weak point to hota hi hai na? 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

I just read about your allergies, take Allegra. My husband takes it that and it helps. Also this season is being called pollen tsunami. Feel better soon. Pray for rain.

My friend has bad allergies, she was on the conference call, she thought she had put the phone on mute, while she was wiping her eyes and blowing her nose. Then she realized that no one was talking, so she checked her phone, she had put the call on hold (she was the main speaker) so she said hello. The other three went, thanks we were almost ready to refinance our homes (as our bank had very annoying habit of advertising its loans) she was super embarrassed. And it was her second day at work.

Allegra n uske bhai bandhu do no good to me Shev!! My sneezes only listen to Cetrizine n xyzal... These are prescription drugs n each month I have to begging to the urgent care n then my physician to write the prescription/refill... N they charge a bomb each bloody time😡I hare doctors here... No offence to anyone practicing medicine, but you guys charge a bomb for a disease I have very well diagnosed... You charge us bloody 200 dollars for a piece of paper that orders the refill!! Useless!
I work like that... On mute ... N unfortunately... Most days are filled with meetings... I sleep on reclined position coz I cant lay flat due to clogged nose😭 Imagine!! Sharamnaak baat for desi that summer is killing me!!😭

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