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rulama

@rulama

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 10 years ago

#361

Khushi's insecurities are drowning her...

She is unable to see what exactly is happening...

But the question is why is she insecure??? It does not stem just from Alisha's entry in their life...

What has made her brain say 'You are not enough' when her heart says, 'You are the one' to Arnav?

When an outsider enters what does she watch???

Alisha's action or Arnav's reaction???

Looks like she has observed mostly Alisha's actions and Arnav's reaction only once in a while and misunderstood the cues...

What exactly has pushed him to make him sleep away from her??? Her accusation knowing his distaste to infidelity... She should have followed the Sufi saying...

Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates...

At the first gate, ask yourself,

'Is it true?'

At the second ask,

'Is it necessary?'

At the third gate ask

'Is it kind?'

Words are free... Its how we use them that may cost us... Khushi to her consternation has found out her accusation at the heat of the moment has driven a wedge in their relationship... Like everyone, she too fears rejection, wants attention, craves for affection and dreams of perfection... For these to happen one needs to communicate... If not, as lack of communication breeds assumptions of what the other is thinking or feeling; and assumptions are, more often than not, incorrect... Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life... without which it dies...

Without communication there is no relationship...

Without respect there is no love...

Without trust there is no reason to continue...

Arnav has felt this... and that's why he has asked Aman whether he knows a good divorce lawyer...

What I am looking forward to is... Knowing love is weakest when there is more doubt than trust as is the case with Khushi... How will Arnav convert Khushi's outlook into believing love is strongest when we learn to trust inspite of the doubts...

Once again you have come up with a super update Jigs...👏👏👏

Edited by rulama - 10 years ago

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UV_Arshi

@UV_Arshi

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

#362

Unres!

I had tears in my eyes by the time I read the last line...

This chapter gave a little more insight in their lives. I was dreading it a bit actually... wondering what was in hold for these two.

This story, the marriage...it's kind of a glimpse of real life, I suppose. Cause this is how real life relationships are... There are times of struggle, doubts and problems when you just want to give up. Time is a very important factor...I've seen issues like this crop up so many times. Here, the lack of time and communication, insecurity, too much space; a combination of things could be causing the crisis. But, to think it has created such a huge rift between them... I wonder if there's more to this...

It usually happens... the troubles in a relationship/marriage may seem trivial or not-so-grave' to outsiders. I suppose that's what's happening here... 🤔 [outsider being me] But only the people in the relationship know the truth, the reality of it. Though sometimes that truth may become blurry to them owing to the pain and hurt...

There were a few moments wedged between these bigger issues, remnants or rather reminders of their real relationship... The teasing, the coffee and samosas, the underlying attraction, the love, the memories... It's somewhat reassuring to see some normalcy.

Arnav asking Aman for a divorce lawyer...things getting serious-er... 😕 What are the chances that La may be his attorney... she could be Khushi's too, if she doesn't want to represent herself.

Waiting for next Tuesday eagerly now... Great going, Jigs!! Loving the story... :)

Edited by UV_Arshi - 10 years ago

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Anjali

@crazylovey

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#363

Unres..

Fabulous update...

Heart went out on their pain... Especially arnav's...

But how come do this to themselves..

Continue soon

Edited by anjyy - 10 years ago

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kiwikali

@kiwikali

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

#364

Ai that last line. "Do you know a good lawyer?"

He can't be giving up this early, can he?!

This emotional roller coaster is almost too much for this NZ cricket fan. Today has not been good for my BP!!!

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divya_divs

@divya_divs

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

#365

Interesting update 😛 by the last sentence of the update, u mean arnav has left hopes on his marriage??😭😭😭 I can't believe this 😭😭😭 he knows that khushi still loves him, so he should fight for her.. I am eagerly waiting for the story to unfold 😊 thanku soo much for the pm 😃

Edited by divya_divs - 10 years ago

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Surya.Ravi

@Surya.Ravi

Trailblazer

+ 10

Posted: 10 years ago

#366

interesting and intriguing update...nice..👍🏼

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apekshash

@apekshash

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#367

arnav is feeling bad - but khushi is so demanding

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rk2127

@rk2127

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#368

Edited.

Khushi doesn't trust Arnav because of Alisha's entry in there relation and the fact that they couldn't able to give each other enough time to keep the growing distance at bay.

That's what hurt Arnav and to an extent that he moved to a different room, he realized it now that what he thought was giving Khushi as space was a wrong move on his part. Kind of stamping her doubts on him to be true.

Khushi to loves him and is fighting and resisting her own hearts desire to be with Arnav and give there marriage another chance coz she lost that trust and together with all the fights and arguments they lost respect for other too. And so she want to move on.

Arnav realized that there is no trust from Khushi and so with a heavy heart and all the pain he asked a divorce lawyer from Aman.

But than how will they fight to keep there marriage, what will bring them on same page to think of giving another chance to there love?

Edited by rk2127 - 10 years ago