This FF has a lot on impact on me.After you started updating this FF again it invaded my thoughts. I was a supporter of Live-in relationship , I thought that it was better than arranged marriages. Majority of the arranged marriages survives because of the sacrifices of the woman. I was of the impression that live-in relationship demands less sacrifice from woman, and it is a relationship based on comfort and understanding rather than compromises. I was aware of the negative side of it, but still I supported it.This FF acted like an enlightening experience, and now I think whether in marriage or live-in relationship if compromise is not from both the party it can turn to hell.
So 34-year-old Arnav became aware of the negative side of abortion only after hearing the lecture of doctor. Thank god at least she could make him understand.
His reaction after the information of khushi's pregnancy made me to criticize him. Until then, I was okay with his stubbornness. It is his life, and he can plan it accordingly. But who is he to order her to kill another life. Secondly, the way he handled Khushi's parents made me angry. He was not aware of society's reaction to this unconventional relationship until the encounter with khushi's parents. I didn't expect him to agree the marriage proposal instantly, but he could at least rethink about his decision. Sadly, I don't remember a single moment in which he sacrificed something for Khushi.
Chapter 38 A
I don't want Khushi to abort, and I don't think she will abort the child.Abortion may help a woman to hide the matter from society, but it is not easy to overcome her own guilt feeling. But I want Khushi to be strong to deal with the situation alone. Perhaps this may be first time I wish Khushi to lead an independent , separate life from Arnav,not because of his rude senseless behavior but the lack of compatibility in their relationship. In long term relationship emotional compatibility is more important than physical compatibility.
Chapter B
You are an unpredictable writer . I never expected this, sometimes destiny is like this ,it use weird strategies to change the situation worst or better.
When they accepted the pregnancy after experiencing the confusion, restlessness, guilt feeling they realized that there is no baby. For a change now even Arnav is emotionally affected with the news.
Now what ?
Edited by ramyarn - 11 years ago
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