Humsafar - Khirad&Ashar CLOSED Indefinitely - Page 11

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Originally posted by: -nirvana-

True he has not kept his promises made to his father, but again isn't she as stubborn to not attempt to touch base with him in all those years... If it only took one visit to his office and file full on papers to convince that he is her daughter's father why did she wait this long ...

How long? the question is for how long does she keep trying? the last straw was before hareem's birth, i think at that point she was just broke but before she could break in full terms she put herself together for her daughter. And sometimes i think its just even your own self-respect, how can she go back to the same place where she was disgraced and thrown out without being heard? Which is why she waited for him - but that phone call erased any doubts she had about asher coming to get her.

But this time around she came back for her daughter, the strength and courage to face him came because this wasn't for her, rather her daughter. And when it comes to children for a mother, she is willing to go to any lengths.

Originally posted by: -nirvana-

Shiz, I do not doubt the love and the strength a mother has for a child, but then there are two extremes mothers shown in the show, where Ashar's mother vs Khirad as a mother!!!

The real question is why did khirad wait so long to approach Ashar, don't you think 4 1/2 years is a long time to not inform him that he even has a daughter? If she is capable of proving to him that he is her father, she could have done the same a year later Hareem was born? If she had no plan to ever come back to Ashar why not apply for divorce, what was holding her decision on a trial?

I believe I can take this too...Shiza, add your views as well.

The intention of showing up after 4.5 years is not to let Ashar know that he has a daughter, but to seek help for Hareem.
Even if she had let him know about Hareem earlier, then what?
And if he had come back to her after that, the complex that he never sought her out as his wife, but only as the mother of his child, will forever be an imprinted in her mind.

Why she never applied for a divorce, is something even I would like to know. Not sure if the book talks about this.

Originally posted by: rahmona_pakswe

It's in the middle of the night, couldn't sleep and thought of reading your FF from the beginnging and now I'm thinking why I didn't start reading earlier because already it's a great FF. I really like your writing style and how you emote the different character's feelings. It's going to be interesting to see what will happen next. Please ad me in your PM list. Thanks!

Thank you Gurl!

Originally posted by: -nirvana-

Even now that she has returned to Ashar (to help Hareem); how will she ever know that he has accepted her as a wife and not just a mother to his child? The situation still remains the same, even before or after 4 years, don't you think?

Letting him know of her pregnancy might have saved Hareem from becoming a preme-baby and giving there marriage a second chance... but again these are just my views ready to be dissected! 😆

There is no knowing now. He has let that period pass. And now she has not come to him for acceptance. Isn't that what you are missing?

Well, she did reach out even during her pregnancy. But the only way she has gotten an audience is by tricking him in person...to expect her to be doing the same, when she was facing problems in her pregnancy: I think she rather stay put in one place than have to go through that trauma, when her hormones are all over.

Dissection or not, these are just views again. And I could say the same about you :)