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Originally posted by: goldenball
Till the time discussions are healthy its fine...but when the tone changes to bashing, it upsets me.I will try to give my POV on few questions u asked.Rape victims trauma-Normally, 4 categories they fall in-1)hey go in depression, not able to overcome or-2)they adjust to the fact and with their life ahead carrying the trauma within-3)they don't accept the fact that because of few people, her life is destroyed...She fights back to live4)They become revengefulI see Geet between 2nd and 3rd category, and my story is built around that. She is not ready to accept that some goons did something to her and her life is destroyed. She will not let her life go into trashes because of some people...I always believe in great human spirit of survival...to save ourselves we will goto extreme...u saw same in Maan in dew...Here Geet also, to bring her out of trauma...she tried all to make her happy...About Geet..her opening her heart again is not coz she was victimized...it was more from the fact that man with whom she agreed for engagement did this to her...she was attached to that person...so she is not letting anyone come near to her heart...and now about her character..I will not say sleeping around...I will say she started going out.,..that's the way she tells Maan...and I find it absolutely healthy...We also have to look at going out means different for different people. if its Geet from HP...it will be more like what we see in GHSP...if its some from UK...whose mind is conditioned not be against such things...then she will be fine with relations without committment.the impression that she built her career thru this...or she is random...is all percerption built...that was built to create Maan's hate for her...but only one instance of Raj was there...Did u see any other instance...?Now, u still may not agree...but that's how the story was built.
Hi
Firstly , I would like to say sorry if any of my comments has make you upset or hurt you.
Secondly, few things in your FF were not letting me accept Geet's character. those things were:
When she tricked Maan to buy the company and made him agree to do her dream project. - This proved that she is capable enough to do things or get what she wanted without being sleeping around with men.
When she agreed to be Maan's GF - That proved that she has ability to understand other persons feelings and pain.
When she introduced her as a Mother - As a mother I would put my child's wish, his future first than my urges. and do not want my child to think bad about me. that's what she said to Maan. This proved that she is good mother will not let her child suffer.
When her past was revealed. I felt extremely bad for her. Being a gang rape victim I did not expected any woman to be sleeping around with men and relive that horrible moment. here she betrayed by the person who she was engaged to be married. that would make much difficult for her to trust anyone forget about being intimate with men. and that's what you have showed. she was reluctant to show her feelings, to open her heart for love. If she can say no to Neil who was her friends for 10 years than to accept her like that was very difficult for me.
Yes She's been to UK, but even in UK not all women do not sleep around with random men just to fulfill their physical needs. Very few women who does this they are also called by few ''names'' like we called them by few names in India. if people are thinking that all the women in UK or USA are like that I would say that they are highly mistaken.
Well this your story so I do not want to say anything further.
But I will still disagree with the fact that - for woman to get successful, she has to sleep with men in this male dominated world. we women are much more stronger than men. this is my POV.
Lastly, thank you for taking time to reply to my comments.
Love
Yosh
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