DMG 3(Sid FF) - Destiny Wins Part 14 Pg 67 Cmpltd - Page 18

you will make me so happy if the hormaan dies🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: miss_cullen

woahhh! everyone wants to see Riddhima dead!
hmm if that happens it will forever remain a grief in Sid's life.
And whatever i have seen in DMG SR has shared a way lot of moments for Riddhima to name it all farz! A part of her always knew Sid is the one but that part was subdued forcefully by a certain someone's constant interference! Riddhima re-married Sid because that's what she wanted and ahead knew it!
However a grave MISTAKE by her in the tent shook her altogether. Riddhima who knew Sid was the one started doubting her own beliefs because SOMEONE else was controlling her own beliefs. That guy took advantage of Riddhima's most vulnerable state to revive his forgotten love within her. I dont think he even succeeded in doing it. But what he managed to do is make her believe whatever happened in the tent happened because she still loved him!
her farz dialogue was to make that guy happy! it was more like a damage control!
and if that guy n everyone around her hadn't pushed her towards him, Riddhima wd ve never done what she did in the bb court in last episode!

What SR shared was so deep and intense neither of them will ever be able to share the same kind of bond with anyone else in their lifetime.

now only read the updates,

Right now I am speechless and the worst memories r refreshed...Will be back later.

Originally posted by: sidsk

Hey guys ...hope no one gets offended with my post. Just putting forth my opinion. ...liked reading all your posts but I differ with you guys on one point here...hope you dont mind me saying this.

It is true that when Sid fell in love with Riddhima he changed...he changed as a person, he became more mature and more sensitive towards others and their feelings, he started taking life seriously.
Even In the beginning, he had hated Riddhima and had not even given her a second glance. But when he saw her pain,her agony, when he saw how troubled she was, that is when his perception towards her and towards life in general changed.
He realized that there is more seriousness to life that he doesnt know about...
That is when he realized that even though he hated Riddhima lot, she was still a person who had feelings, she was still a person who was going through pain...
His opinion of her changed when he saw love in her eyes for Armaan... he realized that as cold and heartless as she seemed, she could love a person that much too.
He saw how she gradually accepted her fact and tried to move on in life.
And after all that, he fell in love with her.

His first love was Tammana who had never reciprocated his feelings...but who he truly fell in love with was Riddhima. Now lets reverse the situation...

Imagine this scenario... if it had been some else in Riddhima's place...for example lets assume AR had been together and had not got separated due to that terrorist attack, and then imagine Sid come to Sanjeevani,meeting Riddhima and falling in love with her.(as had happened with Tamanna initially) Obviously it would be one sided as she would never reciprocate it (as Tammana had initially)...and then imagine him meeting Tamanna in a different avatar...not like the innocent happy girl that she really was, but as a bitter person who had gone through a lot of pain and betrayal in her life(like Riddhima had), imagine them hating each other and all (like SR had)...and then somehow Sid gets to see how much pain Tamanna has bottled up inside her...and that changes him and his thinking.(like it happened with Riddhima)
And imagine the whole SR story repeating with Sid and Tamanna - from hatred to tolerance to friends to love...and the marriage too.

If we see imagine such a scenario with Tamanna or say other girl, I can still Sid changing ...yes Riddhima was a catalyst for him to change but even if it would have been someone else in her place, he would have still changed...why?

Because he always had it in him...yes he was a carefree brat but somewhere inside him the mature Sid existed too. He just needed to be brought out ...and in the show Riddhima brought him out but I firmly believe that anybody else could have also done that...even if Riddhima hadnt come along in his life, someone else or some life altering event would have changed him into that wonderful man that he had matured into.
That was something Riddhima never had in her...the ability to change and become responsible and a big heart to put others feelings and happiness before her own.

Sid changed because he had that sensitivity in him...and no I dont believe that Riddhima completes him.
It is Sid who completes Riddhima because the peace that she felt with Sid never existed in her relationship with Armaan.
Sid can happily live alone all his life knowing his loves ones are happy but Riddhima cant...

It is true that what SR shared was simply too deep and intense to be overlooked...that is exactly why I will always hate Riddhima for terming it as "farz". She said it so easily to Armaan that day in the locker room not even aware that Sid's world was being ripped apart into pieces at hearing those words.I so wanted to bang her head on the lockers when I watched the scene.
So really in my eyes a woman like that doesnt deserve a man like Sid.

I am really sorry guys if I offended anyone..I didnt mean to. I am not speaking as a SidShi fan or anything...I was a SR fan too once...I am just seeing things neutrally from Sid's perspective.😊

On a completely different note, Sid really makes me want to cry my eyes out sometimes. I hate KW for doing such a fine and brilliant job with this fictional character and making him so real.