Muskan,
I loved the update. But m so emotional reading the last few updates....
I want to cry but m sitting in library in skool working on an assignment.
I am so confused with Geet.
I agree with what she said in the last update..........
"tang aa gayi hoon main sab ki baat sunte sunte, pehle veerji kehte hain
he will set every thing right, will give away the child for adoption & will
get me married to my dream guy....then u come from no where & drive me
into ur life. I told u to stay away from me, but u kept on coming closer &
closer. she held his collar maine kaha tha mujhe yeh job do?, maine kaha tha mujhse shaadi karo? then you just force me to marry u, things looked so good & promising then u decide to stay away from me, then mama says try to understand him he is a nice guy, I try tried to do that too...lekin woh bhi aap ke liye
kaafi nahi tha..u decided to give me divorce now veerji says to forget every thing & u say to move on....aap logon ne mujhe samjh kya rakha hain
nahi suni aapki koi baat, main wohi karongi jo mera mann karega"
But yaar what is she doing to herself.....I am lost now........
In my last comment I talked about Geet's unconditional love for Maan and she is doing whatever...everything...anything....possible to bring his health back...no matter how hard it is for her emotionally......
AND ON THE OTHER HAND....
What about her self-respect, self-worth, self-love....
If I was in Geet's place...I might have not been able to forgive Maan....after the divorce papers...
I do not know if she has forgiven Maan now and is taking revenge....
OR
she wants him to get better because she loves him so much and then move away from his life forever...because this is where self-worth, self-respect and self-love comes in....
Does Maan deserve her after all that he has done....I understand he has his own reasons for doing what he is doing...but does that justify...the fact that he has hurt her immensely in the process of being apart from him......all the 'TAUT/TAANA' Geet is giving him....are so true...she is facing all those issues in the society/family and they look down upon her.....they mite not say it in front of her...but knowing indian culture and its norms....has she not suffered so much..........
Urggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh I am so frustrated...Muski.....
I do not know what is right n what is wrong anymore in terms of Geet's behaviour...
Unconditional love VS. Self-Respect/Self-Worth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And what about the baby? Are there not going to be complications...I mean she is ignoring her health now......it is like she is on a journey to WHAT? Revenge or unconditional love? without stopping...without caring.....
Love
Rachana
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