FF: New York times with Maan and Geet Thread 2 - Page 72

Thanks hasini for encouraging me to write 😛

When I was reading the last part of "Event Horizon" only one word struck my mind. Trust - The glue that holds all relationships together. Geet trusted Maan to share her very personal secret. I want to emphasize "personal secret". Not everything can be shared with everyone. Geet never told Dev about her childhood incident. It could be her inner fear that would have held her back from telling Dev the incident. But again, it may be not her inner fear alone that prevented her from disclosing the truth. As far as I understand, Dev never tried to understand the reason for her refusal towards intimacy. For him his carnal instinct came first before any actual understanding or reasoning. [She slaps him when he crosses the limits]. So, even if she had told him the reason, he won't be able to take it in the right sense.

[Reality - Majority of women are innocent and very vulnerable in relationships. Most of the women have this principle that they need to disclose everything about their past to their husbands even before they get to know them properly, even before the actual trust is built. (some men want to know everything about their woman's past - that's another attitude I have seen) The biggest mistake a woman makes - she trusts a man very soon. I am just thinking practically and based on a few experiences, I am giving my inputs. There are very few men who can understand the real reason for a woman who refuses to be intimate. Others would start distrusting the woman. A typical scenario that happens in most families in India when the woman abstains from s****l relations with husbands - the woman is called unfaithful, an adulterous etc, abused both mentally and physically. Nobody tries to find out the real reason. Just like Geet, the women might have seen a bad act in childhood or would even have been a prey to S.harassment. Few women take the courage to tell the truth to their husbands and even if they tell, how many men would be like Maan. This is reality.

To trust someone strongly, it takes time. And in Geet's scenario she has started trusting Maan because he has proved to be worthy of her trust. "A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly who knows the best and worst of us and who loves us in spite of all our faults." - Maan is a true blessing for Geet.

The relationship of Maan and Geet is growing slowly and at the right pace. Maan has seen and is getting to see new aspects of Geet's life. This is love. True Love.

The best thing to build trust is to let everything about the past unfurl at the right time.

I would like to quote a favorite dialogue from the movie SATC ' "Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they just need to run free til they find someone just as wild to run with them." Geet is lucky to find one such man in Maan .

Wishing all women out there to have a man like Maan in their lives . [I hope I am not sounding like a feminist . 😆 ]

Ps: I believe in a relationship like Geet and Maan, the passion of love will be stronger both physically and mentally as years grow 😳

Originally posted by: 6thElement

Enjoy this until I post the full update later. This is for Pixie...Of course this is unedited so...don't be surprised if some of this doesnt make it to the final update.

Hai Babaji...Jaldi mein towel bhool gayi!...Ab main kaise bahar javoon? The door creaked as I opened to peek and the room sounded silent as my grave. I held out my hear to listen in more cautiously and now I was certain, he was not there. A few steps and I would be inside the changing room, but what if he were to enter at the same time? Main tho sharam se mar jaavongi babaji...

I inched the door away to let myself out when I heard him come in and call out to me.

Maan:"Mishti...meeta kam pad raha hain"

Inhe bhi abhi chai banana tha? I cursed my ill luck.

I had to hint him at my wretched situation and so I answered back his call.

Geet:"Ji...main bathroom main hoon...Aap pilijiye ...aur..mera towel bhi dijiye na...wahan table pe raka hain..."

<Maan's monologue>

Did I just hear that? I had never handed a towel to a naked women...How wimpy? Does every man stop to savor this Aha! moment? I wondered for my love for her had turned me into a schmaltzy fur ball and my masculinity edged to the lower end of the scale. Ah! that punctured my ego

I raced to grab the towel and moved towards the bathroom in a good pace. Standing close to the hinged side of the door I extended the towel to her and even schemed to toy with her.

Unable to see where it was, her hand moved back and forth to grab the same and I pulled her by her arm. She bellowed for she knew what was coming.

Geet:"Maan...please mazak mat kijiye...towel"

She tried to grab once again, but realizing it was going to be a vain attempt..she pleaded now.

Geet:"Please Maan...towel dedijye na..."

I gave in for now she wore a beseeching tone. I took her hand by the wrist and placed the towel on her hand to placate her annoyed self.

I haven't written after this...Hope you liked it...

hey just kidding .... take your time and dont stress so much buddy.

Originally posted by: manu_123

hi hasini,

today i really felt the need to discuss with you somethings.

On reading the last part,

i would like to say that may be geet is complete;y responsible for her divorce.

5 years of marraige.still no physical rlationship.how long can dev wait?

dev even do not know the reason for her denial for sex.he is not a god to know everything by himself

dev had always been a good friend.he encouraged her to pursue her dreams ,study,marraige.when she cannot open herself to him,how can she expect him to warmup towards her.5 years is agood time.even its not his fault that marraige happened unexpectedly.

he had given good time for pursuing the marraige.

may be u will say geet had no feeling for him.she was just in arelationship as it should go that way.but then she cannot blame dev at all.her share of mistake in not maintaining a relationship was even more than dev's.she should take it as it has come.her initial response to divrce is not justified

what do u feel.please reply