Originally posted by: mans76us
Guys and Gals and all other pals
how you all are doing ?
Please no negative comments in this topic ..This post is for those who care about India Forum members .. who has big hreat to forget and forgive our own members and friends ..
Sometimes people gets carried away and unitentionally they do some mistakes but it doesnt mean they are bad .. first thing is I am not sure whether supriyab did mistake or she was wrong .. I mean officially no one said here ....I dont wannna go into that anway
There may be few members who may not like few others butits not entire forum's view right ? As such I like you all and hope you guys dont have problem with meanyway this post I am writing because someone wants to come back in forum .. someone needs your support so if you guys dont mind spare two lines to call one of our member back ..
supriyab .. I dont know about others but just relax and start writing in forum .. I know you want to be here and some of your friends want you back ..If possible solve your differences with some of the members who got hurt ... so forget whatever happened and start fresh
cheers
mans
First of all Mans, this is a lovely post and I completely agree with you. We all need to move on.
Originally posted by: mans76us
Ok what you guys want ? I honestly started this thread bcoz supriyab wanted write here but she was afraid .. I though she will come forward and it will get solved ..
now you want me to delete this post? ...I dont understand whats wrong in forgiving someone ...I am not taking anybody's side ..
As I said before also ignore my posts if you dont like and I will do the same
No, there is no need to delete this post as you are not wrong in trying to sort this out. This is an excellent gesture and we need more people like you here who want the forum to be lively and have all the members discuss things passionately, but at the same time, respecting that thin line between disagreement and fight, banter and sneer, repartee and redicule.
Sad part is, there are very few who understand this.
Perhaps you did not know that what Supriya did was wrong and from your post it is clear that you just want bygones be bygones and want everyone to start afresh.
I am sure that once Supriya says sorry to Sunsha and clears things up, everything will be fine. The only reason you got the harsh reaction from a few was because the plea of support came for the member who had wronged, not the one who was wronged.
Nevertheless, your conscience is clear so don't feel bad about it. What you did was right and I support you.
As the old saying goes, As you sow, so you reap. You have sowed good, so reap will be good as well.
Supriya, welcome back. To err is human and we all mistakes and owning up to our mistakes will not make you small. I am sure once you come clean, no one will hold any grudge against you.
i really did not understand why a particular person who is trying to bring peace in the forum is asked not to involve in this matter..why?
Sosweet, there are some people here in the forum who got badly hurt by the action of one member. We can give them some margin of dissatisfaction, can't we? It might have been somewhat misplaced in this particular thread and speciallly to Mans, but the anger is justified.
Folks, please lets all chill out and let bygones be bygones. Supriya ,this has gone long enough and we all want you to come back and start posting again. So please sort out your differences with Sunsha, apologise and come back. You are an important member to this forum and only you can finish what you had started. I repeat, we all make mistakes, but nothing is beyond repair.
It's time to get the water under the bridge.
Happy posting to all of you,
Minnie.