Originally posted by: living.doll
[quote=dan16]
Dear coolbie livindoll and the moderators
Just a question…please bother to answer[/quote]
Im not the coolbie of FG section. Im one of the viewbies of this section. I would prefer u to call me mumu instead of coolbie. Im here to help each n every member. Being a viewbie i can not ignore/avoid any of my forum member's complain/request. I hope u understand.
sure mumu, and u can call me denya.
[quote=dan16]
Is creatin more than one id, against the rules?
Or is creatin another id and usin it to insult somebody, against the rules?[/quote]
As ur not a newbie so want to ask u.. " Dont u know our forum's COC?" if u don then lemme clear one more time. YES.. creating multiple ids for whatever reason is definitely breaking forum's decorum. Some people make it for fun.. some people creat for insulting others. If ur talking about supriyab's multiple ids then im sorry to inform that she made more than 3 multiple ids which has deactivated. I have seen one of her posts " my memories" where she brought up our another member's personal stuffs including his family/kids/wife which was completely weird. How would u feel if someone did the same thing with u? u wont feel urself in the cloud number 9.
well mumu, the topic is closed now, i can't read it....but mumu, i was told the id was banned. the whole thread was closed. and did anybody bother to know what made the person fake an id to insult another. was a benefit of doubt given. as a viewbie mumu, i guess u know that its a forum, and people here agree or disagree...sometimes the thread becomes a war ground. i'm not tellin u mumu that what supriyab did was wrong or right, what iam askin you was is multiple id against the rule? which u did answer as yes against the rule. thank you for that. please also help me understand, if there is a technical way to find this out. (i mean how can anybody know if one has multiple id's...is it through his/her writin or is there a technical way)
[quote=dan16]In either of these cases, if a person has made clean comments with one of the id's, would that single id not be considered as a member of the forum?[/quote]
Clean comments? what did u mean by that? do all the members post dirty comments? we all here to make clear comments. If anone is abusive/offensive we do our job by increasing their meter.Those who have waring at their profile they must know it. However, for making clean comments we don need to make several ids. U can use ur own username.
mumu, by clean comments, i meant comments that had no abusive or offensive remarks or insults against another member or person or anybody for that matter. and like u mentioned for clean comments just use your own member id...and thats what i meant by the "id with clean comments" so u agree with me about using the id, which in your words is user id.
[quote=dan16]And if the id is considered as a member of the forum, then is it necessary that the person owe an explanation and an apology for his or her act on a different id?[/quote]
No.. multiple ids wont be considered as forum's member.sorry being straight forward but i don have any other way to explain it. Im afraid, most of the multiple ids r made to attack someone and we have strict rules for taking action against personal attacks.
this again...leads to my first question, how will the moderator know if anybody has multiple ids. this question was more to increase my own knowledge about how the forum works.
[quote=dan16]
So why make a big issue if somebody just wants to join the forum back.
Is welcoming somebody also against the rules?[/quote]
who has stopped whom? welcoming someone is definitely an exciting matter. atleast for me. I love to welcome people on the forum. However, think about the person whose family and kids were exposed on the forum which was absolutely disgusting and many people were making fun/ has shown sympathy. Think about that person who is innocent in this issue. don u think he deserves an apology? OK.. for a sec forget about forum... if u do any mistake unwantedly.. what would go if u apologise? its not the question of ego i tell u.. to be in a forum.. to be in a group.. sometimes u have to be cooperate..
well mumu......u did, u asked the author of this post mans and koenigbobo to keep out of this matter. plese look it up.
[quote=dan16]
(eg bobbyrocks, qazi-bobby, rakesh, ramu dhobi gadha, etc etc also heard about mera naam, tera naam who made racist comments...i would call it blasphemy) what have the moderators done with these people? Have they stopped these people from making many id's and entering the forum again?[/quote]
why r u asking it? don u have trust on our dev team? we do what we r supposed to do. they have got what they deserved. do not mix up all the issues together.
i'm asking this coz the id's i have mentioned above have made things really ugly in this forum, and i have also mentioned that the mods closed teh topic....and i never made a statement that i don't trust teh mods at work. my question was very simple...if the moderators can figure out that people can make multiple id's then they should also know that these people (the id's i mentioned above) have created many id's and were back on the forum. why were they not taken care of.
[quote=dan16]
This member wants to comeback with her otriginal id, where she has not hurt anybody(I'm assuming)[/quote]
Im not getting this thing.. supriya must have got my PM.. i have explained her each and everything. i also tried to make her understand like my own sister.ur assumptions wont work dear.
i know mumu, my asumption does not help....i need to know the truth. but i made it very clear in my writin that i did not know the member involved personally and was only questioning on moral grounds.
[quote=dan16]
Dear mods and coolbie, please do not accuse me of takin sides. My questions were on moral grounds[/quote]
Feel free to ask questions. Im sorry but i can not take anyone side's either. I have think about both.
im not takin sides either.
[quote=dan16] i don't know the member personally, but looked up some of her posts, noticed she's a qazi fan and has written some good stuff, which i appreciate, coz iam a huge qazi fan myself , and could'nt stop myself from writin this.[/quote]
Its not the question of qazi fans or qazi haters. Its the question of our member. Do not bring qazi over here. None of we r related to qazi and qazi is a star whom we see on television. we must stick to our forum in this issue.
well the issue is not about qazi fan or hater....and I am not bringin qazi into this matter at all. mumu, the reason i had mentioned qazi was only justify my involvement in this whole issue. its a forum, and this particular section is about fame gurukul, so anydisscussion i suppose would be on fame gurukul unless ofcource people are chattin. so it makes sense that we talk about our favourites and it makes sense that we bond with people who are likeminded, im not tellin you that we form groups of haters or otherwise. its just a link that bonds people who are likeminded. its a virtula world, and moreover its a forum, we meet people with different interests...we make friends with all of them, adn when somebody shares our point of view....we appreciated. and thats exactly what i did when i mentioned qazi.
[quote=dan16]
I would appreaciate if u bother to answer objectively.
Denya.[/quote]
I think im done.
thank you for your effort. i appreciate it.😊