Gunjan is really bringing Baldev down

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Tbh when i first read today's written update, I thought I'd be annoyed by the VeeBa scenes today and the tying up scene but I wasn't really because it had a funny undertone to it and it seemed Baldev only tied her up because she called him mad and questioned his ability to win Rahul's heart and not because he necessarily wanted her out of the way. Basically he tied her up and was like I'm doing what mad people do and flirted with her a bit and it seemed he was challenging her that he will prove her wrong and will win Rahul's heart. I actually liked that scene tbh because they both want the same thing and want Geet and Rahul to get married but they want to go about it in a different way and think they both know best. Veera wants to take it slow whereas Baldev wants to rush it.

But the precap scene and Bansuri instigating Baldev against Veera like Gunjan did before annoyed me. Why does everyone have to try to manipulate Baldev? Like literally everyone does it and what's worse is Baldev lets them. Now because of that Baldev will no doubt think they're right hence the precap.

Seriously Baldev, you think Veera wants bad for Gunjan? The same Veera who practically worships Gunjan? And now Veera apparently can't even leave the house without Baldev's permission and talk to Geet (who's her friend) or Rahul who was her friend/professor first before he became Baldev's paaji or the next victim for Geet's wedding. Honestly it's annoying me how Baldev's being controlling and if Veera so much as talks to Geet or Rahul, he thinks wrong. I get it though because before to him it did look like Veera's trying to change Geet's mind about marriage but it's still annoying.

You know it's funny because once upon a time this same Baldev trusted Veera so much and thought she could never do any wrong but I guess Veera's lack of trust or support made the trust he had on her go away. Like now he thinks she's meddling and stirring and always telling her to butt out and what to do. I guess it's all down to Veera and what she's done and how much she hurt him. How can you blindly trust someone if they've hurt you so much? Though it does make me sad that they're lowering Baldev to the same level as Veera by making him not trust her and also being wedding crazy and sticking up for psycho Gunjan no matter what she does and basically siding with Bansuri and Gunjan because he too thinks Veera is up to no good. Also imo Veera should just stop now and let them handle it. I know pressuring someone into marriage is wrong but there's nothing she can do. Queen Gunjan wants it therefore it has to happen.

Baldev too should just stop threatening and ruining his relationship with Veera for someone like Gunjan tbh. Baldev needs to stop with with this "I'm Gunjan's cheerleader" behaviour. It's getting almost as annoying as Veera's veerji jaap. I get caring about your sibling but willing to forcefully get someone married because they're jealous of them is so OTT and also ruining your relationship with your husband/wife just because your sister and brother in law are having problems is so OTT too. Why do they make sibling relationships so OTT and obsessive in this show? Now it seems like we've got two people who are obsessed with their siblings together. And what's worse is their siblings don't care about them half as much especially Gunjan.

And this is coming from someone who previously wanted more GunDev scenes but the way they're writing them and the way they've made Gunjan a psycho again makes me feel like all her character is really doing is bringing Baldev down.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is the reason why in at least our family we have a rule not to marry the brother and sister pair with another brother and sister pair
like VeeBa n RanJan have been

Ek ki shaadi affects the other
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Already we r done with one obsessive bro sis.. Alas here is one more now
Pls I would never like gundev to turn another ranveera type obsessive bro sis...
Anyways I still think baldev needs to use his own brain and take decisions rather impulsively.. But saying that ballu is not wrong in asking veera to stay away from poking nose into rg fight and let them sort it out themselves... And gunju more than geet wedding she wants ranvi to stay away from her.. Which he should I guess oblige if ur wife doesn't like..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chahanya

This is the reason why in at least our family we have a rule not to marry the brother and sister pair with another brother and sister pair

like VeeBa n RanJan have been

Ek ki shaadi affects the other


I know right. It's daft but now that they've made the mistake of getting both siblings married in the same family then they should at least be adult about it. They should stop letting a problem between one couple influence them all. In fact they should vow to totally stay out of each others problems and sort it out themselves.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: NV-ranjanholic

Already we r done with one obsessive bro sis.. Alas here is one more now

Pls I would never like gundev to turn another ranveera type obsessive bro sis...
Anyways I still think baldev needs to use his own brain and take decisions rather impulsively.. But saying that ballu is not wrong in asking veera to stay away from poking nose into rg fight and let them sort it out themselves... And gunju more than geet wedding she wants ranvi to stay away from her.. Which he should I guess oblige if ur wife doesn't like..


I know right. I liked GunDev but they seem to be going down the obsessive route with them too which I didn't want at all. I don't want another RanVeera. One's already more than enough. I wanted a real brother sister relationship but it seems this show can only do obsessive one's.
I agree with Baldev telling Veera to stop butting her nose in between Ranjan and let them solve their problems on their own. This needed to be said but at the same time what's Baldev doing? He's pushing Geet's marriage. Who for? Gunjan. Does this not count as butting in or getting involved? And I don't think Veera particularly has to stay away from her brother in order for them to sort their problems. Yes she should stop butting in and leave them to it but her having to stay away from her brother just so they can sort their problems out is a bit extreme and makes it seem like she's the problem and is always in Ranjan's face and that's the reason why they can't sort their problems out when actually lately that is Deepu and her mother.

Also I feel like if Veera has to stay away from her brother and quit meddling then Baldev should to. He should not see Gunjan or try to offer comfort like he's told Veera not to and he should stop meddling in the wedding thing because that too is only happening because of Ranjan.

Exactly. That's what I don't get. All Gunjan needs to be assured of is that Ranvi will stay away from Geet and they've also already reunited so why is everyone still pushing for the wedding? Why is everyone still acting like Geet is a big problem in Gunjan's life? This could all be easily solved if Ranvi decides to stay away from Geet because Gunjan wants him to but no everyone is turning this into a drama and thinks Geet has to get forcefully married in order for Gunjan to be happy and that Veera has to stay away from her brother otherwise Ranjan won't be able to solve their problems. Like wth why are they complicating things so much? Everyone's turned wedding crazy and it's annoying. Like leave Ranjan to it and concentrate on your own lives.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chahanya

This is the reason why in at least our family we have a rule not to marry the brother and sister pair with another brother and sister pair

like VeeBa n RanJan have been

Ek ki shaadi affects the other


That is true but most of the marriages in India takes place like this. However, no relationship can last without compromise and trust.

Yes, Geet has to make her career to earn her living and support her daughter. If Gunjan doesn't like this, Ranvi & Geet should have gone for solo singing instead of duet singing.

Gunjan might have not minded Ranvi and Geet singing together if he had spent time with her as well.

But Ranvi chose to spend time with Deepu & that made Gunjan to behave like this. From Geet's side, she always allowed her daughter to go to Ranvi's house whenever she wanted.

Deepu is an annoying kid. She was talking about her sabu even to Rahul which is very much irritating. She cannot have Ranvi as her dad unless Geet or Gunjan dies.

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