Geet/Gunjan - Page 2

Geet. Gunjan should know better & it has always about her and only her.

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Geet should have opted for solo singing. She should have kept a distance from Ranvi. As for Gunjan, if she keeps doubting Ranvi, then one day he will definitely leave her.

Doubting & nagging has got bad effects. One incident took place in which a businessman was always doubted by his wife. She went to the extent of disturbing his most important meetings.

One fine day, he went with another woman.

Exactly 👏

i blame Raackstar for all this mess...he and his attraction for Deepu has made Gunjan much more insecure then what she was before...

Originally posted by: anjs

i blame Raackstar for all this mess...he and his attraction for Deepu has made Gunjan much more insecure then what she was before...

Geet is getting sandwiched in-between without any reason...she never forced herself and her kid on anyone...not even on Ranvi...

and what has Ranvi done...firstly he never paid attention to gunjan and her issues post miscarriage...did he take her to doctor even once to check if the issue can be resolved or not...did he even once make her feel wanted...even after their reconciliation, he was mostly doing deepu deepu chant

.secondly he is happy playing family-family with Deepu and dragging reluctant Geet into the picture...cant he see how uncomfortable she is...then why force her...how can he be such an idiot...why didnt he realize even once that giving in to all of Deepu's whims isnt good in long term...esp when her mother is a young widow...he shouldve have atleast thought that the pp people will taunt Geet and call her characterless ...

so i blame only Ranvi for this mess...not Gunjan and definitely not Geet

And one more ridiculous thing is that Baldev told Gunjan that he will take her to a good doctor in cities like Chandigarh, Delhi or in any part of the world where her purpose is served. Yes, Baldev is her elder brother but it should be Ranvi who should be telling these words to Gunjan as her husband.

Originally posted by: anjs

i blame Raackstar for all this mess...he and his attraction for Deepu has made Gunjan much more insecure then what she was before...

Geet is getting sandwiched in-between without any reason...she never forced herself and her kid on anyone...not even on Ranvi...

and what has Ranvi done...firstly he never paid attention to gunjan and her issues post miscarriage...did he take her to doctor even once to check if the issue can be resolved or not...did he even once make her feel wanted...even after their reconciliation, he was mostly doing deepu deepu chant

.secondly he is happy playing family-family with Deepu and dragging reluctant Geet into the picture...cant he see how uncomfortable she is...then why force her...how can he be such an idiot...why didnt he realize even once that giving in to all of Deepu's whims isnt good in long term...esp when her mother is a young widow...he shouldve have atleast thought that the pp people will taunt Geet and call her characterless ...

so i blame only Ranvi for this mess...not Gunjan and definitely not Geet

I disagree with the part about Gunjan deserving no blame (Ranvi did consult with doctors bout G, but apparently no one except Veera has any clue about IVF🤪 and he assured her that he loves her no matter what..Gunju herself kept getting jelly insecure about Deepu), but Ranvi is indeed responsible for dragging Geet into this mess.

She made it clear to him that she doesn't think that he should meet Deepu so often and so on but he never heeded those warnings, he just did what he wanted.🥱

Both RG have dragged poor Geet into this fiasco, who is now getting pressured into marriage.

Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

I disagree with the part about Gunjan deserving no blame (Ranvi did consult with doctors bout G, but apparently no one except Veera has any clue about IVF🤪 and he assured her that he loves her no matter what..Gunju herself kept getting jelly insecure about Deepu), but Ranvi is indeed responsible for dragging Geet into this mess.

She made it clear to him that she doesn't think that he should meet Deepu so often and so on but he never heeded those warnings, he just did what he wanted.🥱

Both RG have dragged poor Geet into this fiasco, who is now getting pressured into marriage.

Originally posted by: anjs

ok, maybe i missed the part where he took her to the doctor...

but regarding Gunjan's insecurities bt Deepu, she has made it public quite a few times...but Ranvi never took it seriously...also Deepu treats him like she owns him...which isnt right, since she belongs to another family, plus her mother is a young widow...people are bound to taunt Geet for this...Ranvi always shows off his mature side, right ? preaching one n all bt things...so why didnt he consider that Geet might have to pay price for his attraction towards Deepu...any normal woman who feels insecure cause of her infertility will feel jealous of her husband paying more attention to another woman's child...esp when the said woman is unattached and who was called here to trap her own brother in law in marriage...so i wont blame gunjan much regarding her insecurity...

ofcourse Gunjan pressurizing for Geet's marriage is wrong...she is ready to ruin Geet's life to save her own marriage, this is highly selfish...but regarding her insecurity, i wud say major blame lies with Ranvi, as he did little to make her feel loved n secured...

I get what you are saying and I would have have had the same view when it came to some other couple...but when it comes to RG I feel differently.😆 From what we have seen Ranvi do for Gunjan, how he forgave her every single time no matter what stunt she pulled, doesn't allow me to side with her. He has earned her trust now, she should know that no matter what, he will never leave her, if he hasn't left her already for her million other sins. (This is my main argument that Ranvi would always love only Gunjan and nobody else and he has proved it to her countless times.)

Also Ranvi usually spends a lot of time with Deepu at SS house itself, where Gunjan is present, it wouldn't kill her to join with them to have fun. But she can just wallow in self-pity nothing else. I am telling you, if he was spending so much time even with VeeBa's kid, she would still feel as insecure, coz that's the way she is.🥱 I wouldn't put it past this woman to get jealous of her own kid.

Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

I get what you are saying and I would have have had the same view when it came to some other couple...but when it comes to RG I feel differently.😆 From what we have seen Ranvi do for Gunjan, how he forgave her every single time no matter what stunt she pulled, doesn't allow me to side with her. He has earned her trust now, she should know that no matter what, he will never leave her, if he hasn't left her already for her million other sins. (This is my main argument that Ranvi would always love only Gunjan and nobody else and he has proved it to her countless times.)

Also Ranvi usually spends a lot of time with Deepu at SS house itself, where Gunjan is present, it wouldn't kill her to join with them to have fun. But she can just wallow in self-pity nothing else. I am telling you, if he was spending so much time even with VeeBa's kid, she would still feel as insecure, coz that's the way she is.🥱 I wouldn't put it past this woman to get jealous of her own kid.

Over the issue of his deep attachment with Deepu, he has harmed only Geet by not caring about her warnings about what ppl will think but not Gunjan. And after Ratan's death, Deepu is the one who is helping him the most with his grief, but Gunjan doesn't get that at all..it wouldn't kill her to understand his situation just a little now.🥱

We can blame Ranvi for not understanding his wife's psycho mentality though..she is such a precious flower, that she needs special attention 24/7.😊

Lastly, let's just agree to disagree on this issue..Gunjan will continue to be the main prob in my eyes.😆

Bold: They never showed those doctor visits..just had Gunjan mention them to Ballu...that Ranvi asked a lot of doctors, but her case is hopeless.😆🤪

Originally posted by: anjs

ok, maybe i missed the part where he took her to the doctor...

but regarding Gunjan's insecurities bt Deepu, she has made it public quite a few times...but Ranvi never took it seriously...also Deepu treats him like she owns him...which isnt right, since she belongs to another family, plus her mother is a young widow...people are bound to taunt Geet for this...Ranvi always shows off his mature side, right ? preaching one n all bt things...so why didnt he consider that Geet might have to pay price for his attraction towards Deepu...any normal woman who feels insecure cause of her infertility will feel jealous of her husband paying more attention to another woman's child...esp when the said woman is unattached and who was called here to trap her own brother in law in marriage...so i wont blame gunjan much regarding her insecurity...

ofcourse Gunjan pressurizing for Geet's marriage is wrong...she is ready to ruin Geet's life to save her own marriage, this is highly selfish...but regarding her insecurity, i wud say major blame lies with Ranvi, as he did little to make her feel loved n secured...

Ranvi took Gunjan to the doctor but they are local doctors. Did he take her to the cities like Chandigarh, Delhi or Mumbai where there is an advanced technology? Had he taken Gunjan to the city, the doctor would have suggested IVR for Gunjan or maybe given her medicines in which she will conceive. But Ranvi did not take any pains. On the contrary he spent more time with Deepu at the first instance.

If anyone else would be in Gunjan's place, they too would have reacted that way.

Getting Geet remarried is ok but as Balwant said, there is no remedy for doubts as Gunjan will doubt him again when she finds some other woman with him. He is getting Geet remarried thinking about her future.