Back to you all and my VeeBa after a long time.

Hey everyone,
I want to start off with apologising for two main things. Firstly, I am sorry because I have not been posting for a long time. Actually my grandmother passed away and therefore I had the responsibility or should I say Zimmedari (in Baldev's words) of looking after my family. Now that life is back to normal and progressing the way it was before, I am back to you guys and especially back to my VeeBa. Please do not think that I have stopped loving VeeBa because that can never happen, to tell you guys the truth they are the element within my life that has kept me happy amongst all the sad and hard times.

Secondly, I have seen the recent posts of anger and negative comments towards Veera. I want to start off with apologising to everyone because many may not agree with what I think or have to say. So therefore I am apologising before even before starting off my post. I truly have no intention of offending anyone; we are all VeeBa fans and should consider everyone's views even if we do not agree with them.

I am actually not against Veera or Baldev, they both have their positives and negatives as individuals. Recently within the forum, it seems like Veera is very hated or disliked. But I think people have forgotten to take her side into account or consideration. I really felt bad after Baldev found out that Veera was deceiving him with the 5 day challenge. In my opinion, there were other ways to make Baldev understand that marriage is not a joke. I have no doubt at all the Baldev truly loves Veera, I think in many ways it has been shown that he not only cares about Veera but he is also very protective about her. But after saying all this, does Baldev truly understand the meaning of marriage and togetherness? Baldev always says that Veera loves me but he actually never admitted to saying that I love Veera. Although I know that he does, the only girl he has ever set eyes on is Veera.

The statements Veera is making to Baldev being immature, I can't really disagree with her because he has no set ideals or goals. But that does not mean that Baldev is completely wrong. He just needs the guidance to come on to the right path but no one is helping him and I really think that Veera should have taken that role. I think the way Veera is currently behaving with Baldev is not right. As we all know that Baldev is not a bad person, dil ke bara acha hai Baldev. Bansuri is the main reason for all his drawbacks. I honestly think that Baldev never directly wants to hurt anyone, when his friends attacked Ranvi, I can still remember his reaction. He was not happy at all and he actually mentioned to his Beeji that Ranvi is a good person that he did not mention his name for what happened. But then guess what, as usual; Bansuri manipulated him to believe the total opposite. Since Baldev was young I have realised that he tends to get manipulated very easily, but overall he does have a true and golden heart. After saying all this Veera indirectly always tries to bring Baldev on the right path. Some examples are stealing money from parents, smoking ciggerates etc. I believe that Veera does love Baldev but still has not realised, she is also concerned about him. The way she handles certain situations is not always the right way and therefore everyone misunderstands her intentions to the fact that she becomes the so called miss know it all. But actually if we all think about it, she is not that bad either, she never wants to hurt anyone either.

Guys, I think I should rest my case here that VeeBa both have their good and bad but it is wrong to put the blame completely on one individual. I apologise again if anyone disagrees with my opinions and I am really sorry because the post is so long.

Poroma.

Originally posted by: ElireEli

Both have their positive and negative points. Though I completely don't blame Veera behind the mess that has been created but unknowingly she has has added fuel to fire. Baldev needs guidance to be put in the right direction and Veera needs to realize that her taunts are not going to help the scenario but may aggravate it making Baldev more hell bent on getting back his post at any cost. I agree with all your points in favor of Baldev and yes he is like this because he has been misguided since his childhood by his mother. I know Veera also does not have any wrong intentions but she needs to tone down her attitude and let go of her preconceived notions about him that he is always at fault. Maybe I am a bit biased against her😊 and I love Baldev more than her.

Originally posted by: Poroma92

Thank you so much for your response. I was so happy to receive a comment on this topic and after such a long time. I really like your response, I agree with the fact that Veera needs to act differently towards Baldev and not taunt him negatively. Rather she should direct him as to what is right. I love them both and therefore I try to see what is right and wrong in both characters.

Thank you once again for your response.

Poroma.

Love VeeBa to the core!!!

Originally posted by: ..IshqShava..

nice post Poroma...😊 and welcome back...
you are right...the situation currently is as such that both are partly right and partly wrong at the same time...
Veera had absolutely no rights to play with Baldev's feelings but at the same time, Baldev should have taken her seriously before when she said she does not want to marry him at any cost...
this is what sets VeeBa apart from numerous other couples on tv where one is as pure as milk and other is a black coal...
neither of them is pristine here and that's why they make the perfect match for each other...