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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Brenda00

Agreed that gunjan has done wrong in the past,but u cant force her to do household chores just because shes a BAHU of the family,. ihve ever seen veera doing any household chores,i like how ratan doesnt differentiate in beti and bahu,.but the whole idea of women having to serve men is shown in a wrong way,.i just wish veera left gunjan to run away with jagjit so she'll realise her mistake herself,.more veera tries to teach her lessons more she will develop hatred towards her family,instead veera should teach some english to her veerji


See thats a sensible suggestion she should give her gyaan to someone that will take it and you know Ranvi will and seriously for his own wellbeing needs to learn english.Yep I have never seen Veera do any housework ,I see Ranvi doing it constantly so why shouldnt he do it after marriage.
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Posted: 11 years ago
wow taani lovely post...
well i have 2 ways of looking at it..
1. first is as serial and pure entrertainment basis.. well this is surely giving full on entertainment and all those who dislike gunjan and her antics till now will surely love it a lot... well its like u sow as u reap for gunjan...

2. the second is seeing it from a person pov... i totally agree that veera should get in between ranvi and gunjan.. firstly ranvi is not a kid and he knows how to handle situations.. he has brought up veera from her childhood and he can handle his wifee very well..
he has taken the approach of live and let live for the moment.. he has no expectations from this marriage or from gunjan even a bit.. and if tomo gunjan wants to go with jagjit or anyone else.. ranvi will be the one to make arrangements and send her.if i have undersatood him right.. i fail to see why he has to show any angst to her.. if she wanted to sleep with someone for her benifit, its her life and her body and she isnt answerable to anyone for that.. the marriage was a wrong decision of balwant.. if the marriage wouldnt have happened.. gunjan might have been thankful to ranvi after a while and she might have even shown some change.. even if she dint, it was still her problem..

now that they are married, its better to just let her fight with her insecurities and after a while shewould have started feeling comfortable around everyone including ranvi when he would have shown care towards her.. now instead with veeras pranks, its going to irk her more and more and that frustration and angst will burst out only on ranvi and his efforts of being nice to her and trying to comfort and change her will go in vain.. and thats gonna hurt ranvi more...
and veera needs to understand that ranvi loves gunjan is not gunjans problem.. asking gunjan to asap adjust into a marriage and take ranvi as her husband is not going to be possible.. veera could hold the gun on gunjans head but instead of asking her to dance, she could rather try to soften down and talk to her and cousel her in the right way.. she was her friend for a longest time and she probably understands her mental state doesnt she?? eye for an eye will make both blind thats it.. and in this the person who will be hurt is ranvi and noone else..

well now gunjan will surely want to run away... i have the least doubt that she will do anything otherwise..

well the whole thing is surely interesting now.. lets see what happens next
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Posted: 11 years ago
Sure. Its all wrong. Veera should stay out of it. After all, who is she? Just a step sister, right?
She has no business interfering in their business. Of course.

Please remember to extend the same courtesy when the situation is reversed. I hope you'll be fair and get your anger out against Gunjan when she meddles with Veera's life. Oh wait.. she already did!😲
But yeah, that's excusable, ain't it? After all, she's a poor lil delusional girl whose dreams are broken.
She can harm people emotionally but Veera is absolutely wrong to taunt her about gold jhumke. So true, Have you seen the price of gold these days? I agree. And Gunjan did nothing by taking her silver payal coz silver is anyways cheap. Who cares?

Yes. Ranvi irritates Gunjan. Irritates her by being chivalrous( Feminism FTW!), irritates her by helping her when her hand gets burnt (How dare he!)
And yes, Ranvi is hurt because his love isn't being returned not because a person doesn't seem to be able to extend common courtesy to him and thinks he's trying to bed her. No. Its his own unrequited love. Absolutely.


I completely agree! How dare anyone expect Gunjan to do stuff. She has no responsibility at all. She doesn't need to accept them as her family now. She should just leave which she is gonna do after taking 4 lakhs from Ranvi's family. Duh! She can. She is the bahu of the house. She can do anything she likes just not work. That's all.
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Posted: 11 years ago


Hahhaahahaha its not an opinion, its called advice and a suggestion .i think you need to look it up.Its good your enjoying gunjan scenes .So much praise for a character

*Where are the tissues*

(If you didnt know thats sarcasm now dont think thats an opinion aswel)



-Carry on- 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: lizaries


OMg🤣 I meant the Gunjan 'fans' in this forum cannot stand others opposing their view points with sensible arguments😆😆 Thanks for enlightening me hat I should write G 'fans' when I make a general reference to 'some people'😳

Gunjan is the spice of the show🤣 For me she is the most irritating and boring character of the show. I prefer watching her the least. Ranvi follows suite.
Who said spineless Ranvi is lovable ??😆😆 Majority of us can't stand such mahaan boring and spineless characters who have no self respect.🥱
Veera is nowhere a mahaan. Otherwise she would also have accepted Gunjan with open arms like Ranvi and Ratan. Hence veera is watchable.
Gunjan's actions are nowhere close to a slap🤔 Back stabbing your friends, revealing the truth which is the basis of somebody's life, humiliating both the families multiple times, doing robbery and that is going to be repeated again🥱 and selling yourselves to a creep to achieve your dreams👏
Gunjan has the right to take revenge for saving her from a wife beater but Veera has no right to save her family's reputation??😲
You said Veera is mahaan. Now she is a vamp😆😆
There is a difference between being a sadist and an out right irritable girl who can't see anybody happy in life and always hurts others for her so called' broken dreams' and a girl who is only trying to save her family and brother's reputation.



Looking at the hostile side of Veeba fans and their constant anti gunjan post you cant really make that point because their is much evidence against it.Thanks

Without Gunjan you would have no tracks in this show ,literally everything revolves around her .Havent you noticed.Even Veera has nothing better to do but constantly follow Gunjan around and now Baldev is constantly coming over .Ranvi comes to see his wife thats legit behaviour.
You should be thankful without Gunjan being the grey-shaded character she is .Your baldev would have to become one.
Gunjan being the irritating character .Well honey thats your own opinion ...In my opinion I cant stand Veera her personality and voice is irritating and overbearing.
Ranvi is simple and a pushover always has been ,i mean i have seen him with Veera giving into everything of hers.Then why wouldnt he Gunjans.
The next points you ahve written all about Veera so im not even going to bother replying shes not worth it


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: lizaries


OMG🤣 I meant the Gunjan 'fans' in this forum cannot stand others opposing their view points with sensible arguments😆😆 Thanks for enlightening me that I should write G 'fans' when I make a general reference to 'some people'😳

Gunjan is the spice of the show🤣 For me she is the most irritating and boring character of the show. I prefer watching her the least. Ranvi follows suite.
Who said spineless Ranvi is lovable ??😆😆 Majority of us can't stand such mahaan boring and spineless characters who have no self respect.🥱
Veera is nowhere a mahaan. Otherwise she would also have accepted Gunjan with open arms like Ranvi and Ratan. Hence veera is watchable.
Gunjan's actions are nowhere close to a slap🤔 Back stabbing your friends, revealing the truth which is the basis of somebody's life, humiliating both the families multiple times, doing robbery and that is going to be repeated again🥱 and selling yourselves to a creep to achieve your dreams👏
Gunjan has the right to take revenge for saving her from a wife beater but Veera has no right to save her family's reputation??😲
You said Veera is mahaan. Now you say she is a vamp😆😆 Please decide on one first😳
Gunjan is a sadist and an out right irritable girl who can't see anybody happy in life and always hurts others for her so called' broken dreams' . Veera is a girl who is only trying to save her family and brother's reputation.




@Bold Red : Exactly , How can people justify these actions ? 😕 She hurt her best friends , Usko toh appni izzat ki bhi padi nahi .. She doesnot care ever for her dad ! Her dad was dying in one room and i the other room she was busy cursing Ranvi for breaking her dream 🤢 Yuck !
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ST0207



It would be awesome if you could try to come with some logical reasoning to defend Gunjan than being a grammar nazi ! 😛 I am not here to fight with you because at the end of the day its just a character 😆.. I donot like a character and I have given my reasons. I am sure you can come with better replies than the ones you are coming up with ! 😳


This is a show ...that is made for entertainment purposes not a political battle that i should take points so seriously."If you cant take the heat get out of the kitchen"...You didnt want to fight with me .I dint even know we were fighting hehehe
I dont see any point of giving you any reason because you LOVE VEERA and I dont so whatever I r you say we are never going to agree
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: lizaries


OMG🤣 I meant the Gunjan 'fans' in this forum cannot stand others opposing their view points with sensible arguments😆😆 Thanks for enlightening me hat I should write G 'fans' when I make a general reference to 'some people'😳

Gunjan is the spice of the show🤣 For me she is the most irritating and boring character of the show. I prefer watching her the least. Ranvi follows suite.
Who said spineless Ranvi is lovable ??😆😆 Majority of us can't stand such mahaan boring and spineless characters who have no self respect.🥱
Veera is nowhere a mahaan. Otherwise she would also have accepted Gunjan with open arms like Ranvi and Ratan. Hence veera is watchable.
Gunjan's actions are nowhere close to a slap🤔 Back stabbing your friends, revealing the truth which is the basis of somebody's life, humiliating both the families multiple times, doing robbery and that is going to be repeated again🥱 and selling yourselves to a creep to achieve your dreams👏
Gunjan has the right to take revenge for saving her from a wife beater but Veera has no right to save her family's reputation??😲
You said Veera is mahaan. Now you say she is a vamp😆😆 Please decide on one first😳
Gunjan is a sadist and an out right irritable girl who can't see anybody happy in life and always hurts others for her so called' broken dreams' . Veera is a girl who is only trying to save her family and brother's reputation.



u know in the whole wrong doings of gunjan.. the only thing i probably hate her for is revealing veeras truth to her... thats the worst thing she has done...

rest whatever she has done is for her own needs and that was her choice...
in the marriage proposal drama.. such a haste from ratans family was just not needed .. well gunjan might have turned him down in person which ended up in public humilitation.. gunjan was undergoing humiliation herself with her marriage breaking with no fault of hers at that time..

casting couch was her choice.. her body her life.. why should she be answrable to veera or ranvi here.. he went to save her, she dint ask him to come.. he saved her from humiliation and trust me if not for balwants stupid wedding decision, she might have felt thankful to ranvi...

and jewellery theft.. trust me i dint feel bad for bansuri .. she dint let gunjan have the gifts from her brother and father.. remember.. so be it this way..

gunjan jas become a stubborn and rebelious child now... like my daughter does when she needs a choclate.. and no matter how much i explain her that her tooth will spoil.. she wont ever listen to me.. she needs the chocolate thats it.. she will get it by crying, hitting me, breaking the fridge or even hurting herself... the only way to deal is be calm and handle her and not shout and punsih her.. probably let her have the chocolate and bear the toothache and understand .. or leave her to rant and calm down herself after a while.. so well it surely applies to gunjan too..
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Posted: 11 years ago


Looking at the hostile side of Veeba fans and their constant anti gunjan post you cant really make that point because their is much evidence against it.Thanks

Without Gunjan you would have no tracks in this show ,literally everything revolves around her .Havent you noticed.Even Veera has nothing better to do but constantly follow Gunjan around and now Baldev is constantly coming over .Ranvi comes to see his wife thats legit behaviour.
You should be thankful without Gunjan being the grey-shaded character she is .Your baldev would have to become one.
Gunjan being the irritating character .Well honey thats your own opinion ...In my opinion I cant stand Veera her personality and voice is irritating and overbearing.
Ranvi is simple and a pushover always has been ,i mean i have seen him with Veera giving into everything of hers.Then why wouldnt he Gunjans.
The next points you ahve written all about Veera so im not even going to bother replying shes not worth it




@Bold : Why do you have to bring in an ACTOR's voice in a discussion ? We are discussing abt characters .. Not Farnaz and Digangana !

And for the the first para : Yup , you are right .. Everything revolves around Gunjan .. Her dreams .. her shaadi .. her sasuraal .. her nanad.. her husband .. isliye hum makers se maang kar rahe to change the name of the show to ' Gunjan ki ardaas - Kanneda ' 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Diya_Taarey


This is a show ...that is made for entertainment purposes not a political battle that i should take points so seriously."If you cant take the heat get out of the kitchen"...You didnt want to fight with me .I dint even know we were fighting hehehe
I dont see any point of giving you any reason because you LOVE VEERA and I dont so whatever I r you say we are never going to agree



I love the show - EVKA - Veera .and no, my fav character is not Veera , its Baldev .. 😛 Also, unless you come with proper reasons to like Gunjan, how can I like her ? 😕 Common , I am not child .. I am sure if you come up with few valid points I will agree with you 😳 Because , ab tak CVs jo dikha rahe usse toh Gunjan ke liye sirf hate ki hi feeling aati hai .. Nothing else ! 😛

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