Sudha's pooja, Chander-Binti convo

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Posted: 9 years ago
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My eyes welled up with tears when Sudha does the pooja of Chander. Her heart was at his feet. She worshipped him and with all the hungama what Dr Shukla couldn't do was remove her heart from Chander's feet.
The way Sudha gathers the flowers after doing the pooja is the testimony that she will keep those flowers with her to do pooja and her heart will always be with those flowers which she had kept at Chander's feet.
Kailash will be able to have her body, but not her soul. The soul which will always remain at Chander's feet and Chander knew it.
And if Sudha's heart was at Chander's feet, Chander's heart was obviously with Sudha. That's why in everything he sees only Sudha.
And Binti I am loving this girl. Though she appears traditional, quiet the wisdom of her words is beyond her age. The way she speaks to Chander. Telling at his face, his own unspoken fears. The fact that he made a mistake and he himself knows it. I loved her when she told Chander that he himself allowed Sudha to go and he sent Ganga in reverse order. It is not every time a male lead is forced to face the accountability of his actions in Indian soap. Usually they gloss over that mistake by female lead's sacrifice.
But here through Binti I would say Dharmvir Bharti had given a great character which pointed out the mistake to a man. A grave mistake which he has done to the woman who had always trusted him and has abided by his decisions.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I seriously feel like giving salutations to the author Dharamveer Bharti.
He has created characters which are so different from each other without making them complete black or white.
The definitions of luv for sudha, binti n pammi are so different.
For sudha its totally luv, pammi its lust wid luv n for binti its practical luv.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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To be frank it is the girl like Binti who will survive. Because Binti has in her to stand up for herself, but the right way.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

To be frank it is the girl like Binti who will survive. Because Binti has in her to stand up for herself, but the right way.


+1 a gal like sudha always gets heart broken. sacrificing everything for d sake of luv is not always right. if she would av persuaded chander a bit chander might av changed his mind. bt den we wouldn't av got such a pure luv story.
gals like pammi might get wat they want. dey feel that they r above all emotions n claim to know d harsh realities of life bt inside their heart they r more vulnerable than sudha type gals. dey turn bitter wen dey they face d facts of life n thus d hatred n greed.

bt being practical is wat we need in d real world. binti's luv for chander was as pure as sudha bt d nly difference was binti knew she can't ever be sudha for chander so she never tried.
she always stood for way she believed n never went out of her way to prove her love n concern to ppl. she was in equal pain as sudha n pammi bt she knew that crying over a relation is nt wat life is abt. luv her so much.
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@sneha a girl like Binti is a transforming power and I would call her the most beautiful and realistic character of the story. With each passing episode I am in love with this girl. And I love the way she is presented also. Binti is not beautiful, she is not bubbly, she at first look does not have anything special about her. She is quiet and no one notices type of the girl. But when she starts speaking everything changes. And she is being herself. I had loved the way she shows her displeasure for the marriage, unlike Sudha who doesn't like the marriage but decides to go for it for the so called adarsh.
Sudha for me should have spoken to her father. She should have told clearly what she wants and if Sudha had taken a stand at the right time she would have not only saved herself, but Chander too.
Coming to Pammi, their emotional vulnerability is such that they only end up destroying things. They will never have any constructive power as they are always about going for what they want and they don't care how they get it.
Binti knows what to destroy and what to preserve. She has no qualms in projecting out Chander's guilt. But at the same time she tries to be a balm to his soul in her own way. That knowledge of what to destroy and what to preserve is what we need in real life.
You cant preserve everything which Sudha does , you cant destroy everything which Pammi does. Only difference between Pammi and Sudha is that , Pammi knowingly destroys, and Sudha's over zealousness for preserving ends up in destruction too.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shruthi u explained it so beautifully. Binti i feel was d most neglected character of d book. She never saw her father. Her mother treated her like litter throughout her life. She had no chander to take care of her.
Bt d beauty of d character is she never cribbed abt this to.nyone. she was happy in her own space. She did reply to her mother bt nly after it became too much to handle.
I luved this line of urs.
You cant preserve everything which Sudha does , you cant destroy everything which Pammi does.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi


My eyes welled up with tears when Sudha does the pooja of Chander. Her heart was at his feet. She worshipped him and with all the hungama what Dr Shukla couldn't do was remove her heart from Chander's feet.

The way Sudha gathers the flowers after doing the pooja is the testimony that she will keep those flowers with her to do pooja and her heart will always be with those flowers which she had kept at Chander's feet.
Kailash will be able to have her body, but not her soul. The soul which will always remain at Chander's feet and Chander knew it.
And if Sudha's heart was at Chander's feet, Chander's heart was obviously with Sudha. That's why in everything he sees only Sudha.
And Binti I am loving this girl. Though she appears traditional, quiet the wisdom of her words is beyond her age. The way she speaks to Chander. Telling at his face, his own unspoken fears. The fact that he made a mistake and he himself knows it. I loved her when she told Chander that he himself allowed Sudha to go and he sent Ganga in reverse order. It is not every time a male lead is forced to face the accountability of his actions in Indian soap. Usually they gloss over that mistake by female lead's sacrifice.
But here through Binti I would say Dharmvir Bharti had given a great character which pointed out the mistake to a man. A grave mistake which he has done to the woman who had always trusted him and has abided by his decisions.

once again Welldone for your post.Your post made me cry.

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