From Hearth to Home - RagNa: Meant to be together
"Love shows up in all forms, even in very small and cheeky form, it has never been a model, it could be the dullest, boring or downright controlling"
Kalpana Jadhav...an epitome of simplicity, beauty and goodness; Raghav Singhania a self made arrogant, intimidating man who lives life on his own terms. Raghav & Kalpana's relationship is a peculiar unfathomable combination of understanding and misunderstanding. They shared hatred, bitterness, uncanny attraction, empathy, softness, emotional bonding & love, complementing and completing each other in all ways. She taught him to express emotions, to accept and reciprocate affections while he made her feel special, desired, wanted & loved.
RagNa love story started the day Raghav saw the little girl and pulled towards her; they are always meant to be together sharing a karmic connection. she always haunted him, her pain, agony & tears burnt his heart. Over the years everything has changed except uncanny attraction, insane pull Raghav felt for Kalpi...he is always drawn to her unknowingly !!
Man who landed out from chopper oozing oodles of arrogance always had a soft spot for Kalpana Jadhav. He played the game very well knowing his Kalpi will trace him on time. Behind his arrogance lies a young boy who helped Kalpi in her studies. He read the workings of her mind like an open book and so is she...!!
The more he tried to go away from Kalpi he found himself drowning deep into her mesmerizing orbits. Still he was adamant to give up and continued fighting for the lost battle till universe conspired against him and ripped his soul letting out those magical words on fateful masquerade party, which marked the marvelous journey of magical couple RagNa and the rest is history.
Attitude of Lioness Vs Lion: Game or Plan??
Magical journey started with verbal tiffs, misunderstandings(??) arrogance, attitude and challenges. Kalpi has the attitude to deal with Raghav's arrogance ripping him into shape. Raghav has brains to complement her dumbness yet times and unconditional love to heal her hidden insecurities & deep rooted emotional emptiness
RagNa confession is one of the simple yet beautiful confessions I have seen on TV. Her simplicity matched his intensity. There is no pretense...its pure, magical and ethereal. In his eyes she saw, how special and precious she is and in her warmth he understood he always belonged to her. Love over shadowed every pain, every emotional holocaust life has seen before they met each other...
And the mighty Singhania for a moment forgot health, hygiene to relish and return the kiss to his lady love by stealing bite from hawkers ice cream☺️ I cant help but blush watching the hunk turned lover boy with awe
Engagement:
Haldi:
Marriage:
Welcome to the Magical World of Mr&Mrs Singhania
What is marriage?? Marriage is unification of two hearts and souls that make a glorious union, enduring all the ordeals with love & understanding!! Marriage is more than a mere legal certificate or fulfillment of rituals...it is a commitment; a promise to abide by the loved one in all ups and downs...which is fulfilled through societal customs. It's a promise to be true in good and bad times; sickness and health; joy and sorrow; to love, cherish and obey each other till death parts them.
Saath Phere Or Sapth Padhi is a ritual which marks seven oaths couple make to each other, learning to love and living together is the greatest challenge of marital life. Saat Phere acquires more significance and the couple prays for the peace and well-being of the entire universe, exchange the vows of love, duty, respect, fidelity and a fruitful union forever
Bountiful of nourishment:
With the first phera, the couple invokes the gods for the plenitude of pure and nourishing food and a life that is noble and respectful.
Fulfillment of spiritual obligations:
Couple take oath for the fulfillment of spiritual obligations. Gods are invoked for blessing the couple with spiritual strength to stay together in joy & sorrow fulfilling the duties together
Love , family & noble children:
RagNa romance is not a mere physical act...its union of body, heart, mind & soul. Mere touch sends tremors through their bodies and sensations bursting forth, lashing out with pleasure...awakening something deep inside, a thirst that has taken over the very core of existence !! The emotional surge, the feeling of being desired, loved consumes them to death. In her, he found peace, joy, happiness and bliss. RagNa romance is pure, gentle, warm, sweet and tantalizing, a act to satiate their thirst souls uniting them forever
I finally found the one, to be with every night
'Cause whatever I do,
It's just got to be you
My life has just begun
I finally found someone
Oath for fruitful life, Economic well being, success and prosperity:
The couple prays for bountiful seasons and seeks that they may go through the seasons together sharing riches, prosperity and constrains equally being each others rock and support system.
Together in pain & sorrow:
The couple prays for bountiful seasons and seeks that they may go through these seasons together, just as they would share their joys and sorrows.
Emotional Bonding:
The attainment of happiness and harmony through mutual love and trust and a long joyous life together.
RagNa started filling the emotional vacuum in each other's life...they share an invisible emotional bond that keeps them connected. Kalpana, loves being a mother hen to the Macho Man...Yet a Vulnerable Kid. She taught him to express his emotions, to accept and reciprocate affections and to acknowledge the emotional need. And Raghav, made her feel wanted, desired, loved and secure. They both share an emotional bond not just a legal tie, which is not easily broken !!
Courtship, understanding, & companionship:
Couple pray for a life of understanding, loyalty, unity and companionship not only for themselves but also for the peace of the universe. Over the time RagNa has grown as couple sharing joy, happiness, pain, sorrow, friendship, trust, understanding, romance & faith along with undying love and unabashed, unhinged scorching passion for each other
RagNa relationship is unfathomable combination of understanding and misunderstanding. Their insecurities, fears, deepest desires and the inability to let go off ego and judgemental approach towards each other. But with time, they discovered love, friendship, understanding and impeccable trust in their relationship. Raghav unleashed her desires awakening the woman inside her filling the void in her life with his love. Kalpana became Raghav's saviour, succor and anchor obliterating his deep hidden insecurities, fears and emptiness ...his only reason to think life as something beautiful and cherished.
RagNa are indeed imperfect, strikingly different BUT all those imperfections make them a PERFECT couple, two imperfect halves into perfect WHOLE !!
Anupamaa
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
