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Posted: 11 years ago
#31
age should not be a factor as love has no age or time...with that being said yes it is true kamla has big dreams for kalpi..but they are not her dreams they are he mother's dreams and kamla was the one who went to raghav for help because she could not stand kalpi working as a servant. it matters not if kalpi's accomplish her dreams with raghav help or not..as in this life if someone is helping you you should not be so proud to reject the help...in kalpi's case she was not qualify to get the job and raghav helped her and push her forward...so leaving his company to work for another is not going to make her anything special...for she has gained that experience from rahav and she could accomplish so much more with him. kamla needs kalpi to live her life and find her own dreams...who knows raghav could stay home with the kids and kalpi go to work and runs his company I am just saying...because that is where his peace of mind would be...there is so much this story could offer...it would have been nice to see the following:
1 kamla and vitthal accepting raghv
2 raghav pushing kalpi to do her exams
3 kalpi finally realising her dreams
4 raghav accepting the fact she will work after marriage etc
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Age definitely shouldn't matter in love. I hope this doesn't become a reason Kamla rejects R for Kalpi. Kalpi is much more mature than Pakhi.😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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my opinion differs from you i dnt think so that age will be an issue in India it is very common thing that in arrange marriages boy is much elder than girl as people think that he will be mature to handle and understand her
second thing its about love researches prove that girls are always attracted towards a man who is much elder than her just like girls loves sharukh and salman and other actor
and in case of ragan its soul connection and age never comes in between and if cv's will show this then it will be illogical
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I dont think age will b that much of an issue
Firstly in arranged marriages age diff is likely to b more... plus its not like raghav is 44 n kalpi is 22... my parents generation age gap used to b 6-12 yrs...so dats not a very big prob

Plus kamla nvr brought age as an issue when pakhi disclosed that she was in love with raghav...so now with kalpi too raghav's age shudnt b a prob

Vitthal and kamla think its sammy...n they know sammy is raghav's frnd/classmate...so sammy is very close in age with raghav...so if they nvr brought upafe factor till now... I dont think they will bring it up in future...

As for raghav's age being mentioned again and again is to remind us of d urgency rags will now feel to get married...also it is to remind us that despite being matured he is b r having like a love sick teenager coz of his newly found feelings ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think age should be the issue when one knows explicitly about the person in personal. Kamla-Vithal are very well aware of the fact how Raghav has been. Even though he has spent less time with them but they have an idea of knowing his true demeanor as to be very generous like his dad. Kamla may not even had any issue if Paaki never had express her feelings for Raghav. I only see Paaki as a major factor to reduce Kamla's choice to approve Raghav baba. She posed to be fair, she believed to be equal, but will kamla truly pass her test when she might have to stand between the girls and pick which side she will be on?

To me, RagNa seems perfect. Their age is as of normal difference. They shared the most beautiful thing called love. They have so much respect and care for each other. Their love has more worth than any of the conditions society will throw upon them. If they are smart enough, then they shall ignore what the world says and do what their heart says. Follow your lead and destiny shall follow you back!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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First what a beautiful post...enjoyed reading it so much because I agreed with you about the whole Kalpi/Kamla/Vittal scene and their relationship. I thought it was so well done. Nothing was OTT (barring kamla's outburst) but realistic. I connected so much with Kalpi today because as a girl I really depend on my parents judgement and choice too. Parents know their child more than themselves. So you always want your parents approval and support in whatever you do and Kalpi put it out there so clearly and beautifully.

I don't think age will be the factor but rather they will stick to the basic theme of the show about rich and poor. The status difference will be the issue for Kamla whereas Vittal won't be as upset but try to make kalpi understand but eventually give in knowing how much he respects the Singhanias and knows Raghav takes after his father. I think they are displaying the age factor recently because they are developing Raghavs character and showing how much he has changed since Kalpi and giving us more of a insight as too how he lost out on his own childhood, teenage years, even young adulthood.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think so age will be a issue for Kamala when she can agree pookhi for rags then why not kalpi. I feel c.v.'s trying to show rags happiness feeling young after falling in love that's coz rags character is shown always serious & suddenly to portray him like a lover boy should be justified .
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Manoshono

I don't think age should be the issue when one knows explicitly about the person in personal. Kamla-Vithal are very well aware of the fact how Raghav has been. Even though he has spent less time with them but they have an idea of knowing his true demeanor as to be very generous like his dad. Kamla may not even had any issue if Paaki never had express her feelings for Raghav. I only see Paaki as a major factor to reduce Kamla's choice to approve Raghav baba. She posed to be fair, she believed to be equal, but will kamla truly pass her test when she might have to stand between the girls and pick which side she will be on?

To me, RagNa seems perfect. Their age is as of normal difference. They shared the most beautiful thing called love. They have so much respect and care for each other. Their love has more worth than any of the conditions society will throw upon them. If they are smart enough, then they shall ignore what the world says and do what their heart says. Follow your lead and destiny shall follow you back!



@bold...I think that is what we are waiting too see the most since the beginning..this Kamla maa I tell youLol... But I wonder if they will take the Pen incident route or the drowning incident.. Either way Kalpi will be the one to get hurt and I just cannot see that. I am so attached to this character..she is such a beautiful soul and her mother has never seen that and this time I just really want her to and give her own daughter what she truly deserves and realize her worth and not just see her as this opportunity to showoff to people and complete her dream.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39
wow such great replies ...thank u guys ...i really loved reading u all


i too hope and think age will not be the direct case.

But yes kamla and vithal ,specially kamla will make sure from raghav that he gives kalpi time to prove her worth , complete her education and be able to stand on her own feet before they both marry so that kalpi raghav and kamla vithal all can feel the pride .


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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ innocent jules :)...on my previous forum ,we use to call our fellow memebers with ji subtitle when we wanted to emphasise his her importance or when we had no counter answer to their reply ...u do give me feel of my old friends on my previous forum thats why sometimes add ji subtitle to u ...ask @infoman aka nandy on this ...she is one of my fellow forum member from my previous crush :)

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