Guilty As Charged - paakhi - Page 4

Originally posted by: dumppurvi

I think the reason Raghav felt Kalpi loved him, is because she made everything he said bothered her and it was obvious. Also, she showed care towards him all the time, even if she was thinking how annoying he was. I can understand why he would assume she loved him. When he asked her how she felt, she entertained his pursuits, her response did not speak to "No, I don't love you."

Paakhi on the other hand, from day one was pursuing Raghav even though he gave her countless rejections and insults and she still was in her dream world. Yes, he led her on at one point, and it fueled the fire, but even if he did not lead her on, she was already on her path of disillusion.

Raghav did not respond to her declaration of love, what else does a woman need? He has avoided the "the subject," since. After the party, he was trying to explain to her and she jumped to her own conclusions again, I can't see how what Paakhi is doing is not a danger to herself and truly anyone else's fault.

Just my Point of View

Originally posted by: edabella

I never disliked Paakhi & I understand how she feels at times & I don't know about when she was a kid but I started seriously following this show since last month & I honestly don't understand the CV's of this show. Like even if they are onto Raakhi happening in the future of the show why show Paakhi like the way they have been showing her in the past few episodes. Today, I felt mixed feelings w/her. The CV's seem to want to indulge in what's going on in her mind during the past few episodes. At least before she was not saying things like mentioning to Kamla may about Raghav's shirt size, lying about her car breaking down (this really got to me by the way), & purposely crashing into Raghav like how she did today. For me, all this is kinda distasteful. Like we understand that Paakhi has a big crush on Raghav. It's not like we don't get this point already & if the CV's really wanna please Paakhi, Raaki, & Ragna fans at the same time which is definitely harder said than done than they should stay away from Paakhi doin' the things I mentioned above. This is the same girl who went against her family to help the chawl people from demolishment, the same girl who who took blame regarding exam issue when Kalpi got into trouble. This was the same girl who saw Vittal lying on the ground bleeding in front of her house & rushed to his aid. This is also the same girl who celebrated Holi at the chawl. It seems like the only thing the CV's are interested in showing when it comes to Paakhi nowdays is her goo goo gaa gaaness w/her crush on Raghav. Shrini is fab as Paakhi but I suggest the writers go back to showing more depth w/the character like the examples I mentioned above.

I think one of the main reasons as to to why the forum feels more negatively at present is because this forum has become really Ragnaish & some of the people who are not for Ragna either ditched this forum for reasons I won't get into or they do post on this forum but they just don't post that much on it or they're out there but just have never participated on this forum like my grandma for example who prefers Sammy + Kalpi over Ragna😆. I've been rooting for Pralpi since pre-Alibaug trip for example. Maybe the CV's are trying to please both the Ragna & Raakhi fans & maybe they will please the Pralpi fans later. The Ragnaish thing I mentioned at the beginning of this post, sorry but this is one of the reasons as to why I don't feel comfortable posting on this forum as much as I used to. Like I saw a post recently saying how could someone even imagine Prem & Kalpi together as though it's some disgusting thing. In regards to the dream today well honestly even if we were workin' in Raghav's office I am pretty sure we would have dreams about Raghav or Sammy or both of them, especially if we didn't know that Raghav likes Kalpi😆.

I am just gonna let this out now. The CV's are saving Prem goin' back to having a big role on this show for later but honestly, I get this feeling that he isn't just gonna be used as spice for Ragna's love story. How much spice is he gonna add, well we don't know. In fact, I am predicting Pralpi is gonna eventually happen, I just don't know when. I just find this show so freakin' fishy w/the way the CV's have been using our Chockopie since post the leap- since the characters became adults. On top of it I can see him changing for the better. To fellow forum members, I apologize if I have hurt anyone's feelings w/this post but this is my POV.

Originally posted by: KLDiva

<font size="3">Poor Pakhi - I do feel sorry for her as she does have a BIG crush on ragahav and since this is her Pehla Pyar, she is going to be in for a big disappointment. She will probbaly hate Kalpi more than Raghav as she will feel that Kalpi is the obstacle standing between her and the love of her life. How will she react is something that we have to wait and see.</font>

Originally posted by: myera

Purvi..you're such a darling to argue..I so enjoy it., even in my previous post u were there...sportive n ur comments comfort me so much I must say.
He wasnt verbal towards her yaar..he has been so very sweet n heroic towards her..raghav is n will forever be paakhis sharukh khan, his sweetness , calm n composed behavior towards her downplayed his ignorance.
And this girl took things in her own stride.
I agree to ur point of view regarding raghav n kalpi...actually I have a lot of confusions n unanswered ques regarding their love process...but its okay as they say if they are meant to be then they are...so I ve self processed that chalo teekhe ye log pyaar karte he ek dusre se.

Originally posted by: dumppurvi

I must say debating has been really good and you do have very insightful posts, you think outside the box a lot.😃Oh my name is really Hilly, short for Hillary. The name Purvi is a long story but not my name.😆

I am amazed at how Paakhi's reactions to Raghav has been the same, when he was rude and when he started being nice. Time will tell. Well I don't hate her, as there is no point in that, just that I see few faults in her, that needs correcting. I am hoping she will mature soon.

Raghav and Kalpi's love process actually started from childhood according to the cvs. I liked them from that time, Raghav supported Kalpi from that time, in her school work, when Prem framed her as a thief and Raghav exposed him. He gave her a pen and was not pleased when Paakhi insisted on getting it. So, they always had some sort of bond, from that time, t I can see how the love developed slowly. As adults, even though Raghav was behaving tough and saying crazy things, he was constantly helping Kalpi, with the bill at the restaurant, when goons were trying to misbehave with her, giving her the job because he could not bare to see her working as a waitress.

The love certainly did not happen over night, it was over a period of time.

From childhood, Raghav never even looked at Paakhi. However, somehow Paakhi was jealous that Raghav gave Kalpi the pen. She said to herself on that day, "Why did Raghav give Kalpi that pen and not me"

I think these are symbolisms for the basis of the show, what is happening now and what is to come. Paakhi wanted the pen given by Raghav to Kalpi, Raghav did not want her to have it.

Now Paakhi wants Raghav, but he does not want her. The only thing is that Paakhi does not know about the competition Kalpi. When Kalpi hugged Raghav in the storeroom, she did look hurt though.

So, this is not going to be a smooth road, there is nothing stopping Paakhi from behaving the same way she did in childhood with the pen. I am just hoping Kamla supports her bio daughter from start until waiting till it gets out of hand.

Originally posted by: pippa

I'm not a die-hard fan of any couple..I take the story as it goes. Honestly, I think Pakhi is the only truly believable character in the show. I too agree with the TM that this is how a young lady in the first flush of love, throws caution to the winds and dreams about her beloved and wants to believe in things she imagine to be true.

I don't quite understand what the fuss is about over the dream sequence. It her dream, for God's sake, not his.

I actually liked the presentation...it had sizzle and the chemistry was great. This is how a young girl dreams about her crush. I 've been there myself many a time in my younger days!😆

Originally posted by: myera

Exactly...paakhi is so true...well we both have things in common..even I like the story as it goes..after all we all know the story...its just how the story teller presents to us.