Is Kalpi suffering from inferiority complex??

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ButterflyChaser

@ButterflyChaser

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Mehfooza
most poor girl may think if something wrong happens between them .rich guy wont have any problem but she had to suffer later.might kalpi will insecure about this.

That would have been a better reason. She would have said that I won't fit in your life coz our life styles are different. Our dreams are different. Even our priorities are different. I won't be able to fulfill all ur expectations.

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ameilia

@ameilia

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: fairylover

@Bold : I would have been more than happy if Kalpi would have mentioned all those things in her rejection speech. I know she is insecure and wants to make her own identity. But that different world things was too much. If she feel too left out than why her aim is to join their world..Will she cut off all her ties with this chawl people?? The answer is simply no. when she can mend this bridge between these two worlds than why can't Raghav??

that is what confuses me about her.She wants to become successful but she doesnt believe she belongs there.What can Raghav do when he doesnt have any fault but Kalpi always find a reason to reject him by using his status against him.This is a girl who is afraid to live but can only dream.Dreams casn only become reality if one believes they stand a chance.I guess Kalpi is scared to believe that this man can want her.She has seen the cruel ways of the world but cant reason with the fact that she has become someone else's world so she runs to the nearest exit.

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HoneySweety

@HoneySweety

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

feeling bad for Rags after watching epi what r cvs trying to show us indirectly Rakhi 😭

Edited by HoneySweety - 11 years ago

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dakshaavi

@dakshaavi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Kalpana is a strong self respected girl but when ever she see the difference between raghav ,Pakhi & herself she feels complex about her life or the kind of privilege these people get for being rich and she realise only being ritual doesn't always help.

Raghav has always push kalpi to know her strength and i am sure this time too he will instigate her to achieve and make her own identity .today it's was a reality check for both . Raghav realise that only by helping her will not make difference in her mentality but she has to make her own position . His next step towards her will be that.

I want him to find out about kalpi's exam papers manipulated by neetu.

Pakhi will sure get that tai to chawl thinking Kamala MA will help .

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Darlyne

@Darlyne

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Kalpi is not open to welcome new opportunity!!! If she loves or marries to Raghav, her life will change for better, and also she will be able help her family and chwal people much better by doing good things for them or explaining the importance of education and not to become victims of rich people where they work for money. When these poor people work at rich people they have to bare with their insults and wrong doing. In earlier CV showed that Neetu always did wrong to Kamala and Kalpi. Looks like Raghav truly loves her. He will stand by her in future. If she is worried about the social differences, I think that is more on Raghav side. But he is not worried about it.. Kalpi is stuck with her narrow minded thinking and would like to stay in misery, because she used to. Nowadays I do not see her confidence...

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Infofan

@Infofan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

@ Nice post.

@ Darlyne, Dakshaavi, Amelia, you raise great points. 👍🏼

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SHANA

@ShanUlas

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: fairylover

But Kalpi wasn't the one with this complex from the start... She was the one confident girl who defeated Pakhi in swimming competition and challenged her for exams as well. The one who gave presentation without any fear. All of a sudden she is scared coz of her status.😡

but her high spirits were marred , failure in exam has broken her ...she is frustrated that she did good still she failed...she is frustrated that she is educated still she is not being eyal status ...she is frustrated that she is not able to do anything for her parents ...she is frustrated that paaki and raghav can help coz they have powers and belong to high socity

she still needs to learn that she is too young right now and she has to be in system to fight with the system ...she has to take raghav help to uplift herself and her people ...we all have to take help from someone directly or indireclty ...nothing can be done alone

Edited by ShanUlas - 11 years ago

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deepsoul

@deepsoul

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Actually kalpi wanted to prove herself without any help yes she wanted become rich wanted a status but not like marrying someone rich person if she marry then what everyone says" amir ladke ko FASA liya! " all that

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404703

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: fairylover

But much more than this.. she had seen her mother. Her mother has always taught her not to fell small and inferior. She is no less than rich kids. Her mother had given her all the opportunities which Pakhi had. Why can't she think about it??

ideal thought may give u courage to face the world but they can't change the situation...and she realized it today...the difference may not matter to her till now but today she has seen wht treatment a poor person without financial backing gets...and it had hurt her badly...

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Baljodh

@Haisisterz

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

I agree! And maybe, If kamla maa will find out that Kalpi loves Raghav,But can't confess because of the differences which are forcing to stop her from confessing her love, Then maybe she'll let her understand that If we love someone truly, We don't see whether he's rich or poor..

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