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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manoshono

Every poorer feel inferiority complex sometime in their life. It's just that our mind leads us to think what's lacking in our lives. Some people in that criteria have the ability to prove themselves that they can also be one of them and some just can't. Life have different teachings for certain people. Kalpana is self-respected woman and she will not let herself come out that easily. One thing that can help is that the test that she passed but manipulated by neetu will give her a boost in her position.

On the other hand, I feel Raghav has still a long way to go to make her his own. I feel really bad for him today 😒
He did all the effort to be with her and save her from the negatives effects around but what he got is another heartbreak from Kalpi. His feelings are just being played around by Kalpi.

Kalpi too needs to see his side and be with him. He really has no one except Kalpi as this point of time


No.. I dnt think that every poor has inferiority complex as Kamla doesn't have any.
It looks like Kalpi has shut doors of her hurt for some unknown reason. She is seeing only one side of the coin and that is the status difference between them.. Ok!! She is poor by money but she has love whereas he is poorer in later department.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ameilia

I agree to what u are saying but i think that Kalpi wants to accomplish and be successful on her own.

She has insecurities and a sense of not belonging.She doesnt want anyone to give her anything,she wants to work and strive for it.
I dnt like her reasons for rejecting Raghav but she doesnt want his help clearly states that she wants to have her own name,make her own identity.What she doesnt realise is that Raghav has always pushed her and helped her see her capabilities.His method may be harsh but his end game is for her benefit and for her to reach her goals.
He pushes her in the right direction,falls for her,she wants to become successful but she doesnt want him behind her to catch her if or when she falls.
Being poor makes her feel insecure and Raghav being rich and high in society makes her feel that she doesnt belong in his world.She feels she doesnt have a right to it.

Exactly! This will going to be one difficult phase for RagNa. I don't know how they will going to take this after today. Raghav has always been there to make her accomplish things. He has been rude for a reason. The intentions behind his rough behavior was to always lead her to be successful. She still doesn't see this and will not going to see until she herself realize what he has done for her unknowingly.
Edited by Manoshono - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well she is absolutely justified at her stand

and agree with u she is suffering from that inferiority complex coz at every step on her life she is made to feel it be it neetu or that corrupt policeman

paaki and raghav r good human but they can never undsstand what kalpi goes through when she tries to be with them and how she is looked on suspisiously about her intentions.

if raghav is really in love with kalpi then he will have to address her fears and deal with it else he has many girls to think of and kalpi wont mind
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ameilia

I agree to what u are saying but i think that Kalpi wants to accomplish and be successful on her own.

She has insecurities and a sense of not belonging.She doesnt want anyone to give her anything,she wants to work and strive for it.
I dnt like her reasons for rejecting Raghav but she doesnt want his help clearly states that she wants to have her own name,make her own identity.What she doesnt realise is that Raghav has always pushed her and helped her see her capabilities.His method may be harsh but his end game is for her benefit and for her to reach her goals.
He pushes her in the right direction,falls for her,she wants to become successful but she doesnt want him behind her to catch her if or when she falls.
Being poor makes her feel insecure and Raghav being rich and high in society makes her feel that she doesnt belong in his world.She feels she doesnt have a right to it.


@Bold : I would have been more than happy if Kalpi would have mentioned all those things in her rejection speech. I know she is insecure and wants to make her own identity. But that different world things was too much. If she feel too left out than why her aim is to join their world..Will she cut off all her ties with this chawl people?? The answer is simply no. when she can mend this bridge between these two worlds than why can't Raghav??
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No.. I dnt think that every poor has inferiority complex as Kamla doesn't have any.
It looks like Kalpi has shut doors of her hurt for some unknown reason. She is seeing only one side of the coin and that is the status difference between them.. Ok!! She is poor by money but she has love whereas he is poorer in later department.

Kamla might had one. She is the kind of woman which makes her action speaks more than her words. But have you really seen her facial expressions whenever someone Talks about the differences? Yes you can tell she does have the same complex but she tends to hide it so her children won't feel that they too need to give up in life. Kamla is like a lesson that teaches her children to become Superior. That is why she always encourages them to do the right things and fight for their rights whenever something turns unfair.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manoshono

Kamla might had one. She is the kind of woman which makes her action speaks more than her words. But have you really seen her facial expressions whenever someone Talks about the differences? Yes you can tell she does have the same complex but she tends to hide it so her children won't feel that they too need to give up in life. Kamla is like a lesson that teaches her children to become something in life. That us why she always encourage them to do the right things and fight for their rights whenever something turns unfair.


I hope Kamla becomes the one who make her realize that financial status doesn't matter in love. I wish Kamla becomes the one to make her understand that she is not less than anyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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most poor girl may think if something wrong happens between them .rich guy wont have any problem but she had to suffer later.might kalpi will insecure about this.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think cvs are taking inspirations from our easy confession post😆😆
But i think she is right to some extent,, there is a huge diff between both and only love can not fill that gap. She is the girl with practical to her life and therefore she is not accepting this easy way to get comfort. In short Raghav will make her fulfil her aai's dreams by supporting her every time and for now he is going to make definite achaar😆😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShanUlas

well she is absolutely justified at her stand

and agree with u she is suffering from that inferiority complex coz at every step on her life she is made to feel it be it neetu or that corrupt policeman

paaki and raghav r good human but they can never undsstand what kalpi goes through when she tries to be with them and how she is looked on suspisiously about her intentions.

if raghav is really in love with kalpi then he will have to address her fears and deal with it else he has many girls to think of and kalpi wont mind


But Kalpi wasn't the one with this complex from the start... She was the one confident girl who defeated Pakhi in swimming competition and challenged her for exams as well. The one who gave presentation without any fear. All of a sudden she is scared coz of her status.😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kalpi doesnt want to depend on Raghav for anything. She is very independent gal and like to reach that status without any other support. She believes in hardwork. That's what my understanding is

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