Is Kalpi suffering from inferiority complex??

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ButterflyChaser

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Posted: 12 years ago

Why is Kalpi ignoring Raghav coz of their status difference.. Isn't she the one who feels that poor has all the rights to live the way they want.. Isn't her mom the one who said that there is no difference between Kalpi and other employees in her office??

Kamla always make her understand that their is no rich poor difference and she too has all the rights which this rich people has thn why she always feel inferior to them. She wasn't even ready to go to the party.

Even now she felt that there are two worlds which can't have bridge... I don't understand why?? She had always dreamt to be richer than Kapoors than why she feels that she doesn't belong to their world?? Once she become rich, will she break all her ties with chawl people as she will belong to the other world and their can't be bridge between chawl and her society.

I am okay if she wants to reject him for hi behavior but i really don't appreciate the reason she is giving. When Raghav can try to become a part of his world than why can't she try?? She should at least give him a chance. Uhh.. m annoyed with her reasoning.

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Posted: 12 years ago

yes...i think the same...

she has lack of confidence...but its not her fault actually...frm her birth, she has seen the difference between herself and paakhi, thn in the university's results, thn office and now the policeman's behaviour...all actually showd her, her status...make her realized it very hard...

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OmkaraKiParvati

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ye ladki paagal ho gayi hai... Starting me Raghav ko badi badi lecture deti thi kii Gareeb bhi sapne dekh sate hai and all tht aur ab kya hua ?? Un lecturon ka TAI TAI PHISS ho gaya... Agar usko sapne ko achieve karna hai tho pehle usko apni destiny ko accept karna padega,...

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_BleuNoir_

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Posted: 12 years ago

it was abut relatn yr... zindagi bhr ki commitmnt mang rha hai vo kalpi se.. to achi bat hai raghav ko kalpi k darr k bare m pta hona chaiye... kalpi ameer se nhi darti bt vo 1 relatn ki bat kr rha h,.. to kalpi is ryt at his positn... real m koi bi yhi kraga .. vo fake sapne m nhi rhna chahti.. gr aage kch prblm hogi to raghav ko koi dikkat nhi hogi bt kalpi k upr aasmaan tut jaega

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ButterflyChaser

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: manikka
yes...i think the same...

she has lack of confidence...but its not her fault actually...frm her birth, she has seen the difference between herself and paakhi, thn in the university's results, thn office and now the policeman's behaviour...all actually showd her, her status...make her realized it very hard...

But much more than this.. she had seen her mother. Her mother has always taught her not to fell small and inferior. She is no less than rich kids. Her mother had given her all the opportunities which Pakhi had. Why can't she think about it??

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ButterflyChaser

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: veeranu
Ye ladki paagal ho gayi hai... Starting me Raghav ko badi badi lecture deti thi kii Gareeb bhi sapne dekh sate hai and all tht aur ab kya hua ?? Un lecturon ka TAI TAI PHISS ho gaya... Agar usko sapne ko achieve karna hai tho pehle usko apni destiny ko accept karna padega,...

Exactly!! Starting m Kalpi hamesha prove karne m lagi rhti thi that she is not less than anyone else.. And suddenly she realized k she can't fit into their world. Fir q jati thi Pakhi ki building k baahar?? Q dekhti hai bade2 dreams when she feels that she can't be a part of that dreams.

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Manoshono

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Posted: 12 years ago

Every poorer feel inferiority complex sometime in their life. It's just that our mind leads us to think what's lacking in our lives. Some people in that criteria have the ability to prove themselves and some just can't. Life has different teachings for certain people. Kalpana is self-respected woman and she will not let herself come out that easily. One thing that can help is that the test that she passed but manipulated by neetu will give her a boost in her position.

On the other hand, I feel Raghav has still a long way to go to make her his own. I feel really bad for him today 😒
He did all the effort to be with her and save her from the negative effects around but what he got is another heartbreak from Kalpi. His feelings are just being played around by her.

Kalpi too needs to see his side and be with him. He really has no one except Kalpi at this point of time

Edited by Manoshono - 12 years ago

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ButterflyChaser

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: meenu7
it was abut relatn yr... zindagi bhr ki commitmnt mang rha hai vo kalpi se.. to achi bat hai raghav ko kalpi k darr k bare m pta hona chaiye... kalpi ameer se nhi darti bt vo 1 relatn ki bat kr rha h,.. to kalpi is ryt at his positn... real m koi bi yhi kraga .. vo fake sapne m nhi rhna chahti.. gr aage kch prblm hogi to raghav ko koi dikkat nhi hogi bt kalpi k upr aasmaan tut jaega

Yar I have no issues with her rejection.. but I have problem with her reason. Inspite of giving this lecture on different world.. She should have told him that her dreams are different. She wants to achieve success first and not ready for any commitment.

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ameilia

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree to what u are saying but i think that Kalpi wants to accomplish and be successful on her own.

She has insecurities and a sense of not belonging.She doesnt want anyone to give her anything,she wants to work and strive for it.

I dnt like her reasons for rejecting Raghav but she doesnt want his help clearly states that she wants to have her own name,make her own identity.What she doesnt realise is that Raghav has always pushed her and helped her see her capabilities.His method may be harsh but his end game is for her benefit and for her to reach her goals.

He pushes her in the right direction,falls for her,she wants to become successful but she doesnt want him behind her to catch her if or when she falls.

Being poor makes her feel insecure and Raghav being rich and high in society makes her feel that she doesnt belong in his world.She feels she doesnt have a right to it.