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Posted: 11 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: SahanaG

Hello, new here 😊 started watching the show from Alibaugh segment and FF'd from Raghav's entry.

I like Raghav if only he can show more expressions other than being stoic. He was good in beginning episodes but has gone totally brooding since Kalpi started working in his office- poor chap 😆

@wanderer @kshows_fangirl...200% agree. kamalamma's overly love towards Paakhi is tiring, poor Kalpi has to struggle so much to get her amma's love.

Raghav's obsession and revenge plan is all right but getting Pakhi involved is a downer. Raghav won't stop this until his plan back fires & hurts Kalpi badly, sadly by then he would have hurt Pakhi & himself too in the process

Hi Sahana! I'm Shreya. Hope you have a nice time in this forum!😊
Raghav's expressions? I think maybe he is just trying too hard to not bring his feelings to the surface---that's why the stoic expression! But eventually, I am very much interested in seeing more expressions of Raghav.
I do not like the whole using-a-girl for revenge thing and had stopped watching several shows for that reason. Its just that I somehow sympathize with Raghav more and have hope that he'll rectify this. Also, Pakhi cannot claim she hadn't got the signs that Raghav doesn't loves her. Its just that she chooses to see what she wants to see!
But I am totally in agreement with the fact that this plan will backfire on Kalpi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Shona_Mayur

Really well written post 👏

Agreed. I was very disappointed in those moments of the episode. I felt really bad for Paaki. Imagine that a girl goes out with a guy (who was the one who asked her out in the first place). She tries her best to look nice. She strikes conversations and keeps it interesting. He asks her to dance, giving her the kind of flirty smile that he doesn't usually give her. He gives her all the signals, and initiates the kiss by closing his eyes, and then BAM! He is gone. She is left confused, so she follows him, only to find him hugging another girl, and saying soothing words to her. She doesn't know of any other things that happened in that context. She only sees that and is left heart-broken because she thought that she did something wrong when he left her on the date. He already had someone else.

This is the scenario that happened to her. I felt so bad for her. That was just a very bad move on Raghav's part. He shouldn't have asked her out. I know that it was his attempts to execute his plans but it's a stupid plan anyways! Why use her that way? You know her feelings for you (though I personally think that it's just a crush), yet you still use her? Is that the reason you don't feel? Because you think that feelings make you weak and give the other person control over you. Sort of like what you're doing? Tsk tak.


My opinions on this are the same. I hope that he doesn't go so far that I can't even sympathize with him.

Glad you think my post was nice Shona because I was upset when I'd written this.😃
Yes, that's where I felt bad for Pakhi. She also has a lot of trust in Raghav and strangely, that doesn't bring out his guilt. She is having a crush but usually crushes are something we get over. However, Raghav is encouraging it and giving wrong signs. There are suspicious signs in front of Pakhi as well which point out that he's not interested but I'm sure she will not see that.
Most of the time I do not sympathize with guys using girls for revenge(sometimes for things as little as a slap!😆). In Raghav's case, I am actually very much interested in the revenge track against the Kapoors but I don't want him to mess pakhi emotionally.
@Bold: thats one of the reasons he doesn't want to develop feelings. He also doesn't want the pain of losing a dear one again.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

I was thinking that being daughter of kapoor's does nt mk pakhi culprit . .c z a nyc grl nd if raghv does anythng wrng (he is doing) wid pakhi dn iwil nt b able to rerspect him . . .hw cn he play wid emotns f a grl. . . .wht if prem does sm wid kalpi?? Pakhi realy lvs him nd its nt ri8 to use sm1 4 his revenge. . .he z a big busines tycon he cn ruin der busines i wil nt hav any prob but pls dnt ruin their daughter r her emo

Agree with you. No girl really deserves her emotions to be played with, even if its Pakhi.
The thing with Raghav is he wants to hurt the Kapoor's emotionally and not just professionally.
But I think Raghav will rectify it eventually. Till that time we will have to see him play Pakhi. :(
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Posted: 11 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: gina24


yup he thinks he doesn't have anything now that kapoors can use against him but he is forgetting kalpi and something big and bad will happen to kalpi which will open his eyes now the problem is even kalpi will blame him for her miseries and might back out from him

Exactly. It will not take Prem long to figure out that Kalpi is his weakness. After all he had already reached Raghav through Kamla before.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: Shona_Mayur


I am scared of that as well. I have this really bad feeling that Prem may be the one to end up with Kalpi first. I really hope that it doesn't go like other shows and actually end up with Raghav and Kalpi together, fighting to odds against her. Prem can be there in the sidelines, maybe becoming their friend later on (am I hoping for too much? Yup!)

Agree with both of you. Kalpi can be his strength as well, he's not realizing this.
Neetu will target Kalpi(like she already has before) as soon as she realizes that Kalpi is a danger to Rakhi.
Kalpi and Prem should not go to too far because in no way is Prem a proper match for Kalpi. This way they mostly mess up the storyline. Kalpi's story is not only about marriage like other shows. She's an independent girl and i am looking forward to how she becomes successful(marriage to rich guys should come later on!)
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Posted: 11 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: gina24

Prem being positive even in future is highly unlikely as well as prem kalpi getting together if they do get together EMA will be no better than ekta's serial

Hmm. Its hard to picture Prem positive. He will not turn goody in any case. His basic nature won't change.
EMA shouldn't turn into a show where each person has two-three marriages for no proper reason!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kshows_fangirl

What is even more saddening is the fact that Kalpi's mother might want her own dream to come true..Sometimes I even wonder when we get those glimpses of love from Kamla Ma for Kalpi, she always manages to steer the conversation towards how Kalpi needs to be strong to fulfill her dream to become a memsaahb?!!!

Umm...Hello, silly mother!! Have you ever asked what Kalpi wants to be?!! For once, have you ever talked to her without the intention of reminding her that she needs to fulfill your dream!!

Ironically, both the mothers love, care for Pakhi more! Ofcourse, Pakshi's mother love her own daughter as well, but even Kamla Ma loves Pakhi over Kalpi...What a painful, suffocating childhood Kalpi has had?😭Every time I think about it, it manage to break my heart little by little...💔

Is Kamla that blind towards her own daughter, Kalpi? Or is it that she intentionally ignores, and doesn't want to give love to Kalpi thinking that Kalpi might get weak in fulfilling Kamla's own dream!

It will be the first time I am seeing that a mother's love might make her daughter weak!.

I personally believe that Pakhi knows that she is the reason for Kalpi's lack of Kamla's love..she knows it, b/c if you go to back to the starting episodes when they were trying to save the chawl there was one scene when Kamla was going to make something for Kalpi, but Pakhi's expression clearly changed to one of dislike..she absolutely hates it when Kamla's attention is not on her! She only wants Kamla to herself!!

This is why I never feel a bit of pity or even sadness for Pakhi! There are glimpses to her character that shows you she can be evil and manipulative as her own mother, in getting what she wants be it by hook or by crook!

Lastly, I wonder when will Kalpi's emotions would come lose?!

As they say, "Silent waters run deep"! It aptly fits Kalpi perfectly!



Kamla is the most silliest mother of the century! She is only talking about her dreams and aspirations, but never asked Kalpi wht she wanted to do in life. And she's scared to show her love for her daughter because it would make her weak...????? What kind of logic is this, Kamla? By not showing her love, she is making her weak and not the other way around.

Just one point I would like to disagree with you on. From when did Neetu care about Paakhi. And I mean genuinely. And her love was only there when it was convenient for her. Right now, she's not bust with her kitty parties, so that's why she is showing some concern. Also, now that she knows Raghav took Pakhi out for a date, she's only about he 100 crores. So Paakhi ignoring Neetu is quite reasonable. She knows she only loves her per her convenience. Where was her love when she left her daughter with Kama to go out and enjoy wih her friends.

As in saying that Paakhi knows tht she is the reason fir Kalpi not getting Kamla's love, maybe you are right. However, I'm not completely sure. She hates Kamala giving Kalpi attention because she is insecure. She's afraid that she will lose Kamla because her real mom doesn't care for her. And Kalpi is insecure too, but thts purely Kamlas fault

Btw Shreya di, this was an excellent post! It's nice to know that I'm not the only one who feels bad for Paakhi. Tht Raghav should get a taste of his own medeckne when Kalpi rejects him at first and he gets heartbroken. Thts probably the best punishment. But ofcourse, Kalpi will understand tht she love Raghav too

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Posted: 11 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: gina24

Prem being positive even in future is highly unlikely as well as prem kalpi getting together if they do get together EMA will be no better than ekta's serial


I hope it doesn't turn out as one of her shows. Because that would break my heart 😭 (Of course, before that, he needs to clean up his acts first)
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Posted: 11 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: -Wanderer-

Glad you think my post was nice Shona because I was upset when I'd written this.😃
Yes, that's where I felt bad for Pakhi. She also has a lot of trust in Raghav and strangely, that doesn't bring out his guilt. She is having a crush but usually crushes are something we get over. However, Raghav is encouraging it and giving wrong signs. There are suspicious signs in front of Pakhi as well which point out that he's not interested but I'm sure she will not see that.
Most of the time I do not sympathize with guys using girls for revenge(sometimes for things as little as a slap!😆). In Raghav's case, I am actually very much interested in the revenge track against the Kapoors but I don't want him to mess pakhi emotionally.
@Bold: thats one of the reasons he doesn't want to develop feelings. He also doesn't want the pain of losing a dear one again.


Your posts are always a treat to read. They give us a different insight in the show!
Even I was confused when Paaki was saying so many good things about Raghav. She was genuine in her thoughts about him. Didn't that shake his resolves even a bit? Maybe it did but he didn't want her to know? I really hope that he knows that he will hurt really innocent people in this game! I am sure too that she won't see the signs where he doesn't show interest in her, because that's just how our brain works. We like to see things that go with out thoughts, and ignore the things that doesn't. She wants to believe that he likes her (and he is encouraging that too), so she would never actually look at the things contradicting that. And I do agree, I am a bit of feminist so I don't like the fact that guys think it appropriate to do that. Plus, guy or girl, it's ethically WRONG! I wouldn't want that happening to either gender.

@bold - I am scared of that. She is sweet at the moment. I don't want her to turn negative!

He also needs to realize that the pain is worth it sometimes, because if you seriously haven't lived for someone else, you really haven't lived because you haven't felt that happiness that comes with the care and affection you give to that person.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Wanderer-

Agree with both of you. Kalpi can be his strength as well, he's not realizing this.
Neetu will target Kalpi(like she already has before) as soon as she realizes that Kalpi is a danger to Rakhi.
Kalpi and Prem should not go to too far because in no way is Prem a proper match for Kalpi. This way they mostly mess up the storyline. Kalpi's story is not only about marriage like other shows. She's an independent girl and i am looking forward to how she becomes successful(marriage to rich guys should come later on!)


I seriously hate Neetu! She just gets away with everything. I want the Exam fiasco to come out and for everyone to know that Kalpi didn't bribe anyone for her position. Yeah even I believe that the prem we have now is really not that deserving. Honestly, you know how people want Prem to come close to Kalpi and make Raghav jealous? I seriously don't want that! It's dangerous route because it won't be hard for Prem to fall for Kalpi.

This is the reason I like this show. It's not about marriage. It's about a girl's dream and independence. So, I am hoping that Creatives dont' forget that! Lol.

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