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Originally posted by: edabella
I agree w/your post ChinnaKanni & u have said everything in regards to how Paakhi will get hurt so I won't add onto this.šš¼ This was one the reasons as to why I explained why I was for Raakhi in the Raakhi thread. I feel both Paakhi & Kalpi are able to help our dear Raghav come out of his shell but the CV's overall have not shown that much in this aspect so far other than him falling for Kalpi but I wouldn't expect him to confess his feelings to her anytime soon.
People feel that Paakhi gets everything she wants but I don't know about this. She never wanted her dad, bro, & her mom to bettray her but hey did betray her. All though she seems like she has pretty much given up on Neetu, there were most probably times when she was younger especially more deep down inside that she wished could get more love & attention from her. My mom didn't raise me w/much affection & this is partly why I feel I had emotional issues growing up. I kind of know how she feels & my grandma was kinda like how Kamla is to Paakhi. If I cried, my mom wouldn't console but my grandma would. I honestly feel like my life would have been definately more pleasant if & been more emotional issues fee if I were raised differently & like Neetu & Sahil w/Prem well my parents really spoil my brother at times who like Prem is the only son in the family. I am the eldest by the way & have a younger sister as wellš. Anyways, me, my sister & other members of the family have seriously worried about how he will turn out in futureš. He gets his away A LOT a lot of the time but I still love him. He also usually doesn't openly show affection towards me like the way Prem is to Paakhi.The only thing that lacks in Kalpi's life in terms of her family is the lack of affection & attention she gets from her mom. W/Paakhi on the other hand, there is relationship issues w/everyone in her family except her grandma. It's sad that if Raghav gets revenge on the Kapoors through her & leads her on, he will end up in the same category as her bro & her dad. The category that's called the men who have betrayed Paakhiš. Most of her family has betrayed her & her mother neglected her, no wonder why she made such a tantrum in her room w/the door locked that day. In her eyes, she might see Raghav like her knight in shining armor who will sweep her off her feet & rescue her from this wretched family. Honestly, I feel like Raghav himself in a way needs saving. Prem needs to be saved as well & one of the perfect ways that will ignite the start of him getting saved is if he falls for Kalpi & Neetu does something bad to her or attempts to do something bad to her at this time. Then Neetu will get a taste of her own medicine. After all when Prem gets mad, he can get really get mad. I honestly don't have much remorse for this woman. She has failed in raising both her kids & Kamla is part of the reason for her failure.No offense but on this show, I prefer more dark romance. I may get chappals thrown at me at this point in the show for saying this but I am still for Paakhi ending up w/Raghav w/both of them being in love w/each other of course.Now I am not gonna get into chemistry between them since I blame the CV's for this matter. Just because we haven't seen much sweet, heated stuff post him resuming from falling off the cliff doesn't mean the CV's are not gonna show us any of these type of scenes between then in the future.Can't Paakhi be the dark horse rather than a vampy female when it comes to Raghav? I feel the CV's really need to be more on the careful side w/her. Besides, I feel that both Raghav & Paakhi haven't opened up to each other much so far on the show but there's more of a chance Raghav would fall for her if this happened, especially if she doesn't throw herself at him. In my eyes, so far she is not a psycho. A psycho would would behave even more worse & crazy than has behave so far on the show. Especially after following a few Indian serials &I still watch the American soap opera, "General Hospital" for example, I know what a psycho character is & Paakhi definately isn't one in my opinion.
I understand your sympathy for Pakhi. I really do. All your points in her case are valid.
I like dark romances as well but not in this case. My issue with Prem is that, CVs have not developed him to a character strong enough for Kalpi.
You can blame CVs for that but thats how they always shaped Prem's character, don't you think?
He's cute in his own way but not one I would respect too much.
Raghav has his share of flaws as well. Using an innocent girl's feelings is not exactly hot. Raghav though, would really care for him. I can see Raghav rectify his mistakes but for Prem his basic nature is like that.
Prem though lacks strength of character. For example, instead of working hard to win, he puts others down. For a capable, ambitious and nice girl like Kalpi, I don't see him as a match because he's selfish. Here we can blame his mother's upbringing for that. She pampered chocopie too much and now he's this way.
Thats my honest opinion. Don't mean to disrespect yours.š
Ganesh Kartikeya
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