why blaming kamala?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: deepsoul

on first point kamala trust her becoz she can't even imagine that paki cheat her becoz she stand beside her n on second point yes she want to inform vithal n wanted to surprise kapli that she go n on third point may be possible that she thinks that they can come on time but they where late so plzz stop blaming kamala is mother of kalpi n mother can't be wrong n i always blame pakki for all this crap 😡😡😡

She isn't dudh piti bacchi, to not understand how stubborn has Paaki turned into, including the days of her birthday... I find it totally sad, that Kamla has totally ignored Kalpi in front of her, and keeps on remembering her when she is not around...😲👎🏼 Useless..! Even for yesterday's situation... If we see Kamla versus Paaki, Kamla acts like.. meri paaki beti, meri kalpi ke liye kuch karna chahti hai, and POOKI🤬 knew it very well, that Kalpi was not at all interested in seeing Raghav... she only wanted Kamla.. Hence did she really expect, Kalpi would dance in joy on seeing Raghav as her surprise??? I mean REALLY KAMLA??? Ooops, Kamla never had time to see .. Kalpi isn't at all interested in Raghav...
Her brains knew ki celebration would almost be over!, yet she thought she would reach..👏👏👏👏 Impossible.. I still blame Kamla... for acting like a Kid to Mother Paaki..

We may try to defend Kamala but in given situation, she is wrong by giving into Paakhis tantrums/demands.

A mother should feel the kids pain, here...she should know Kalpi has been neglected under many circumstances and the look Kalpi gives is enough for any mother to see the pain her eyes which Kamla fails to notice.

Kamla has a lot of dreams for Kalpi and sometimes I feel by the time Kalpi achives those dreams, she would have gone far away from her mother emotionally. Kamla and Kalpi will not get back those missed opportunities and may have "I missd out" moments in future because thats gone forever and impossible to reproduce it.

If she loves them equally she should treat them equally as well, you cannot spoil one kid and neglect another one and force your dreams into that child and make her feel low. Kamla and Kalpi always talks about the future while Kamla and Paaki lives out the present time.

Originally posted by: noodle2808

But she wasn't "forced" to go - there was no majboori. She should have just stood firm and said no, but as per usual she favors Paki.

I agree - They are showing Paki to be like her parents - whatever she wants she will do anything to get that, disregard everyone's feelings to get what she wants. 😡 So selfish and so like her parents

Originally posted by: dumppurvi

I blame both Kamla and Pakhi and I believe some Mothers can be wrong. Some Mothers like Kamla prefer one child over the other, it happens in real life.

However, I put more blame on Kamla, because she is an adult and she must learn to control the situation so no child is hurt, mainly her own Kalpi. If she had taught Pakhi from day one to know her "boundaries," we would not have to see this day, that Kalpi is emotionally scarred due to her childhood and the salt is continuously thrown in those wounds.

We all know Pakhi is super selfish, and even when she is pretending to understand, she finds some way to interrupt the family and their bonding time. Kamla enables Pakhi natural selfish tendencies by giving in to her always without thinking. I know Kamla is not the brightest bulb(not referring to her illiteracy), but she can do better than that, she is an adult.

u say that mother can be yes mother can be wrong but mother like neetu not kamala always teach to be good n she crystal clear as raghav said so she got use by paki that's it

Originally posted by: noodle2808

But she wasn't "forced" to go - there was no majboori. She should have just stood firm and said no, but as per usual she favors Paki.

yes she don't have any majboori but yes she is mother n love all her children equal as raghav so she thought they come but they could not do it as simple as

Originally posted by: blackdollphin

I still think somewhere Kamla is at fault... I knw she loves Kalpi very much... but she is under Pakhi's influence... In my opinion, Kamla's only fault is that she can't think beyond or gives up before Pakhi's needa and wnts

as kapli point of view she can be wrong but as mother point of view she is not wrong

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

She isn't dudh piti bacchi, to not understand how stubborn has Paaki turned into, including the days of her birthday... I find it totally sad, that Kamla has totally ignored Kalpi in front of her, and keeps on remembering her when she is not around...😲👎🏼 Useless..! Even for yesterday's situation... If we see Kamla versus Paaki, Kamla acts like.. meri paaki beti, meri kalpi ke liye kuch karna chahti hai, and POOKI🤬 knew it very well, that Kalpi was not at all interested in seeing Raghav... she only wanted Kamla.. Hence did she really expect, Kalpi would dance in joy on seeing Raghav as her surprise??? I mean REALLY KAMLA??? Ooops, Kamla never had time to see .. Kalpi isn't at all interested in Raghav...
Her brains knew ki celebration would almost be over!, yet she thought she would reach..👏 Impossible.. I still blame Kamla... for acting like a Kid to Mother Paaki..

kalpi birthday situation is different that time puki life is in danger n kamala is crystal clear so she can't see anyone die so she go n yes kamala also wanted meet raghav becoz he is like child to her n wanted to be do special for kalpi so she I don't think this is big mistake

Originally posted by: Aahaana

We may try to defend Kamala but in given situation, she is wrong by giving into Paakhis tantrums/demands.

A mother should feel the kids pain, here...she should know Kalpi has been neglected under many circumstances and the look Kalpi gives is enough for any mother to see the pain her eyes which Kamla fails to notice.

Kamla has a lot of dreams for Kalpi and sometimes I feel by the time Kalpi achives those dreams, she would have gone far away from her mother emotionally. Kamla and Kalpi will not get back those missed opportunities and may have "I missd out" moments in future because thats gone forever and impossible to reproduce it.

If she loves them equally she should treat them equally as well, you cannot spoil one kid and neglect another one and force your dreams into that child and make her feel low. Kamla and Kalpi always talks about the future while Kamla and Paaki lives out the present time.

I don't why everyone is blaming kamala n thinking that she can't see kalpi tears she is mother with pure heart she can't think that anyone can be wrong so whatever she did with pure heart

Originally posted by: deepsoul

I don't why everyone is blaming kamala n thinking that she can't see kalpi tears she is mother with pure heart she can't think that anyone can be wrong so whatever she did with pure heart

If she saw the tears, she would have done something about it and not made Kalpi feel left out in the first place. I am not doubting her love for Kalpi but its different to actually pine for someone when they are not there and totally ignoring them when they are infront us...she has always given preference to Paakhi and her wishes over Kalpi. To please one kid, she did unjustice to another kid and thats something she will have to think about in the long term. How come only Viital can sense Kalpis tears ? So somewhere out there, Kamla is not aware of the pain she is causing Kalpi.

Originally posted by: Aahaana

If she saw the tears, she would have done something about it and not made Kalpi feel left out in the first place. I am not doubting her love for Kalpi but its different to actually pine for someone when they are not there and totally ignoring them when they are infront us...she has always given preference to Paakhi and her wishes over Kalpi. To please one kid, she did unjustice to another kid and thats something she will have to think about in the long term. How come only Viital can sense Kalpis tears ? So somewhere out there, Kamla is not aware of the pain she is causing Kalpi.

kamala is less of time thats why she doesn't give her time kapli n all this happens