why blaming kamala?? - Page 3

both pakhi and kamla are at fault... yes kamla, did say that she doesnt want to go , since today is a special day for her daughter kalpi ... but she also should have stayed true to her words and clearly rejected pakhi about it... she doesnt have to say yes and fulfill each and every wish of pakhi... or they both could have said that they are going to see raghav to kalpi, vittal, pakya or any person there... but without telling anybody, leaving like that isnt at all right.

Originally posted by: pieryrose

both pakhi and kamla are at fault... yes kamla, did say that she doesnt want to go , since today is a special day for her daughter kalpi ... but she also should have stayed true to her words and clearly rejected pakhi about it... she doesnt have to say yes and fulfill each and every wish of pakhi... or they both could have said that they are going to see raghav to kalpi, vittal, pakya or any person there... but without telling anybody, leaving like that isnt at all right.

she wanted to inform vithal n pakiya but paki said to him that they come fast thats why she go sometimes its happen we come to others word n do it this so its doesn't mean that they have any fault in it

Kamla has big part in spoiling Pakhi. She could have helped her become a more patient and less self absorbed person but did the exact opposite. So if Pakhi is bad guy here then Kamla helped create who she is today so even then kamla is still the bad guy.

Originally posted by: deepsoul

u say that mother can be yes mother can be wrong but mother like neetu not kamala always teach to be good n she crystal clear as raghav said so she got use by paki that's it

I was saying both are wrong. I definitely put blame on Pakhi too, just that I feel Kamla is much older and should be more firmer towards Pakhi and not give into her all the time, especially where it involves Kalpi. Kamla is not doing the right thing at all. Remember she made Kalpi give up the pen Raghav had given her and she never cared how it affected Kalpi, all she cared about was Pakhi's happiness.

Originally posted by: pieryrose

both pakhi and kamla are at fault... yes kamla, did say that she doesnt want to go , since today is a special day for her daughter kalpi ... but she also should have stayed true to her words and clearly rejected pakhi about it... she doesnt have to say yes and fulfill each and every wish of pakhi... or they both could have said that they are going to see raghav to kalpi, vittal, pakya or any person there... but without telling anybody, leaving like that isnt at all right.

Exactly! Kamla cannot be excused all the time because Pakhi is forceful, she gives in all the time, not even sometimes.

Kamla sees Kalpi sadness and tears many times, I see her look at her, but she still gives into Pakhi. She expects Kalpi to understand and assumes she loves her. Kamla needs to understand that love is not words and worse mental words, love is action.