Virat Vadhera - A son and a to be husband...

Habits Seldom Change, but the stage is set for Virat Vadhera to change his habits and accommodate his wife into his world and make it beautiful for them together..

Virat and Maanvi have every ingredient necessary for a couple to lead their life together, their love, friendship, trust, understanding, care, concern we have seen every bit of it which speaks leaps and bounds... And without a doubt we can say how beautifully they compliment each other emotionally and physically ...

but today, the scene with Vanshika aunty was quite poignant, when a guy is about to get married..It's the habits which Vanshika aunty was trying to talk about, which made me write this up...

-Apart from love and understanding, marriage also needs adjustment between the wife and husband, for they have come from different backgrounds and upbringing and the adjustments could be anything from sharing the closet space to sleeping on which side of the bed, or setting the temperature of the room or anything .. these are all habits which will take some to adjust, Girls, generally, are easy to adjust and mould themselves into boy's likes and dislikes..

-Vanshika aunty tells him to change his habits and be more responsible (huh... guys and video games - ufff) Virat doesn't feel the need to change as he knows Maanvi knows everything about him being a bit laid back and all..
generally a girl is given advice on changing her habits when she goes to her in-laws... here Vansihika aunty was telling Virat at least to change his habits for the girl, who is leaving her every relation behind , her home, her name, her lifestyle. her friends only to complete his life and give a new direction to his life.. was beautiful, Awww i love this mom-son jodi so much...

-The basis for a marriage or for husband and wife to get into each other completely is with a little bit of change, in habits, from either of them... with regards to the day-to-day things..

- Virat assures her that he would change his habits.. and the guy does anything for his love.. do I even need to repeat this.

Virat Vadhera - a son:

I don't know but this particular scene , made me mushy mushy, the scene made an instant connection for me... may be because I am, myself, a mom of two boys.(ohh they are just toddlers..😊 )

-ahhh I can, with 100% assurance say, how Virat couldn't find the buttons which are right there..because that is how pampered boys are.

-Vanshika aunty, like any other saas, wants to sit back and relax after her DIL comes,.,. but Virat says it is impossible for his mom to get rid of his duties, because he will her bachcha even if he has bachcha..(very beautiful and cute scene.. dil kush ho gaya) .and how true.. a kid is always a kid to a MOM... Even a prince of a kingdom is a son to a mom .. wherever you are .. you are a Mom's son..

-Virat asks her if she would take care of him even after he has kids.. Viru boy, Is that even a question to ask.. Mom will take care of kids all her life.. even if you are a dadaji .. and if your mom is alive .. she cares for you .. so rest assured .. she will always be there for him..-Virat is getting married and getting his wife, doesn't mean Vanshika aunty's role will end with taking care of her son... he is still her son and will always be and she will care for him and his wife so do they... ..

-I always see glimpses of Vanshika aunty in Virat, their emotional bonding reflects the influence of his mom on Virat... which comes out beautifully.. after all Vanshika aunty is such a sweetheart with the a kind and beautiful heart.. Virat has imbibed everything from his mom .. since his childhood.

I liked how Vanshika wanted Virat to change his habits to Accommodate maanvi into his life.. And also loved how Virat was like, "Mom, its maanvi m getting married to"... Its good to see a mom advice her son to change his habits to her DIL's ...

I liked the next scene the most.. Where Virat tells his mom tat she has to care for him his whole life... I felt like Virat was assuring his mom to not feel insecure... That now he is getting married does not mean that he does not need his mom, but needs her his whole life... Its normal how mothers feel insecure when their sons get married... And i really liked the way how Virat was making his mom feel wanted... love this mom-son duo...

I always love to see their scene, always touching and sweet to watch their bond.

Virat-Vanshika is one of the major reasons why i would always remember this show..I haven't followed too many shows although,but in all those that i have followed, i can easily say that this is the best mom-son duo i have seen on TV.

Today's scene wasn't never-seen-before but yeah it definitely comes under rare scenes..

Virat-Vanshika bond is refreshing from quite a lot of onscreen mom-son bonds in the sense that it has shades..

There is comfort,there is a good understanding,there is some friendly bonding and at the same time there is respect as well.. They bond up not like the typical reel mom son duo, but like the real ones.. and its not just in dialogues,it looks natural as well..we have a son who whines even at 26 when his Mom gets him a glass of milk, we have a mom who lectures his son on bad habits and the son understands it but still doesnt behave like goody-two-shoes and says it on her face ki aap bhaashan suna rahi ho..lol..

We have a mom who guides his son,from asking him to move on from a broken relationship to asking him to confess to a girl who is a cancer patient..we see a son convincing his mum to support his chachu... when she doesnt stand up for his love life openly,the son literally complaints ki aapne mera saath kyun nahi diya...all this potrayed in a very subtle natural simple way..

we have a son holding his mum from the back, in a very casual family scene(when M reads newspaper article about viren's award), we see some natural cuddling, some affectionate hugging as well... and it is potrayed in natural situations too, not just in heavy duty scenes..

so in total, it feels too real...easy going but heartwarming at the same time...which leaves me yearning for Virat Vanshika scenes and I dont think I am exaggerating if I say that these days, natural relationships are infact rare on Indian tv..everything is dramatised..

As for todays scene,loved it totally..meaning wise U have said it all, nothing more to add..Kushal and Indu Mam share a very nice chemistry which adds to the scene..could see Kushal in the line where he says ki mujhe mile nahi toh phir Mai thak toh fir Mai bore ho gaya toh phir Mai video game khelne lag gaya...sorry... (back to playing game) lol.