Hi everyone! I am priya. I have been reading many posts in the thread and it is a really nice change to see people appreciating the show for Jeeman. Recently there have been many posts bashing Jeevika and needless to say i am very frustrated. It is like banging your head against a brick wall... Some people just wouldnt understand, would they? Anyways to a better note, I wrote a topic titled ' Jeevika : Villain or simply a Concerned Mother', which is well basically a post to defend jeevika. ill just cut and paste it here. Please do give your views :)
I think many people have pointed out the fact that no one is perfect. Everyone has their flaws. And so does Jeevika! Right now, i imagine her world is upside down... Yes she is being selfish, she is being overpossesive, she is being KMH (kabab mein haddi) for virman... But look at it from a different angle. Her behna, her mannu, her child is out of the nest now. She has always been sheltered, protected by Jeevika and getting a proposal from a boy is a clear indication that M is growing up. And then the overpossesiveness strikes. Virat may be her devar, but how does Jeevika know he is good for manvi? He wont hurt her, he really loves her, its not a mere infatuation like it was with maya? If you remember, Viren had to gain respect in manvi's eyes as well before she finally accepted him as her jiju. He proved that he loved jeevika and more importantly the care and love for viren from jeevika's side was enought to convince manvi. But manvi is still the child, she looks up to jeevika and if she sees J happy, she's happy. She wont question if jeevika is right or wrong. Jeevika is the elder one. She has a responsibility, she has to check and ensure that what manvi is doing is right. Yes often she does make mistakes, fails sometimes, but that is parvarish. How may times have we complained that our parents dont understand us?
She is the parent, she has to be extra careful with her child. Children make mistakes, they often tread on the wrong path and how does Jeevika know what feelings manvi has for virat? Even manvi does not know that yet! J would have been the first one to encourage and make mannu realise her love for virat had virat proved his worth first! I am not bashing virat, on the contrary i really like his character, however has he really proven his love yet? Love is not just about confessing! Love should have intensity, depth which virat's love for mannu definitely has but has J seen it? Has he ever proven it, there has neither been the situation or the maturity required... Virat has to stand on his own two feet, overcome the pain and sacrifice in love which i hope the cancer track will be succesful in. So I am back to square 1. Even though Virat is J's devar, she knows and likes him, she is not aware of the depth of his love... To her this plan of the VV brothers may hurt manvi and leave her mannu, her child permanently scarred. And she will not let anyone do that, be that her devar or her own husband. Till now, Jeevika's insecurities were being portrayed as comic. We havent seen her ferocious side yet. And the precap is avery good sign according to me for her character to emerge out as a stronger one.
VV brothers had not accounted the feirceness of the Jeeman bond in their plans, yes they had taken in account of manvi's nature and the fact she will never go against jeevika, but they hadnt planned on Jeevika's fierceness, her willingness to take a stand, fight tooth and nail, do anything and everything to ensure her sister does not get hurt or suffer, and most of all they hadnt accounted her turning against them. No one really has seen the wrath of jeevika have they? Well we are going to see it it in hopefully about a months time. , If not wrath, then atleast a heavy emotional outburst. Against cancer, and well against viren and virat as well , and swamini too hopefully in future :)
What do you think about the precap and the upcoming track? Thoughts??
Edited by priya1804 - 13 years ago