Raj- Sakshi VS Dev- Durga

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Why is Raj sympathized for being a victim of a forced marriage whereas Dev too was blackmailed to marry Durga ?

Raj is a criminal but Dev is an innocent person.

Raj had a crime to hide but Dev only wants to find his friend.

Raj had plans to eliminate Sakshi as soon as he finds the tape but Dev is clueless even if Nitya loves him and will he be able to let Durga go out of his life.

If we talk about love, even Dev is suffering a forced marriage.We all know Nitya is Dev but Dev has no clue about it. So , there is no reason why Dev's pain can be taken for granted. Lets say he comes to know that Nitya and Durga are same person and yet refuse to take this girl for she is not really NItya anymore.Nitya was straightforward whereas Durga we have to agree is pretty much a manipulative person. We have keep this option open for this man also. He has the right to decide if he will love Nitya as Durga.

Sakshi blackmailed Raj and married him.Raj knows she was Mrs. Rehmat Khan before marrying him but Dayal not only blackmailed but also let Durga forge her identity to marry Dev.

So my question is :

Why DevGa marriage is morally correct and Raj- Saksh marriage is morally incorrect? What decides the legality of a blackmail ? The motive ?

Your views please:

Please note : 1. It is not a bashing post or a negative post

2. Please stick to the objective of the topic.

3. NO personal comments, bashing, calling names please.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Debby poora serial sar ke uppar jhaa rahe yaar... Kuch samjme nahi aaraha hai...😕
I feel pity on Raj as he lost his love

I Dev is lucky unknowingly married his love interest...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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MOna the question is not who is lucky and who is unlucky in love. The questions is when both the marriages are based on a blackmail, why DevGa marriage is a celebration and RaKshi marriage is immoral ?
In simple words, why are not sorry for Dev when we are sorry for Raj ?

With logic of luck even Rajnath is lucky to have Sakshi because Raima would never help him in his business or cover up his and his son's crimes. We have to admit whatever Goenkas are today Sakshi has an important role to play.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good points.

Fact is that notion of "love" that people have. Thanks to inducement of makers.

Raj is not a great man or victim. He could have killed Sakshi too. Why did he stick around? He claimed to be in love with someone else but fed off both Sakshi and Raima. He two timed them. Sympathy for him is amusing to me.

People think Dev and Durga are meant to be together and Durga is Nitya only so no problem with lies, blackmail and pressure. Though fact is that marrying for seflish reasons and marrying under duress is wrong. No matter what.

The mention of love contorts perception of certain section of viewers.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sakshi has saved Raj's a** many times! He is not vigilant. But she is. He toh comes and says humein kya karna chahiye or cannot see threats the way she does. He did not even realise what she was trying to convey to him at CBI office. He can now pretend to be frustrated but he has relied many times on Sakshi to cover up crimes.

He enjoyed both women. In different ways. I do not feel sorry for him.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't feel sorry for Rajnath. He doesn't loves Raima..He can only love himself. Shaurya can put his father behind the bar to save himself and Rajnath is a baap of him so even he can't love anyone. Raima was for his entertainment only.
And yes i feel sorry for Dev but don't forget that it's a fake marriage..so if he can't accept nitya as durga then he can walk out.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It does surprise me that there are people out their who are sympathetic towards Raj . why , Coz raj lost his dear love raima . But will we ever think beyond it , pls for god's sake he allowed himself to be bullied by sakshi who at that time was a nobody . His crime would have been highly heinous . But inspite of all his bitterness toward sakshi , he still had kids wit her 😲 He played with both the women and in the end makes all kinds of coochie cooo promises to raima . He is still stuck with sakshi only due to shaurya . Raj tolerates all her taunts just due to a tape she has ? If he was so madly in love with another women , why didn't he shoot sakshi ? And still he wants sympathies , now that's what goes above my head .
Lets not even discuss on devga marriage as there were ways to make it look like a real wedding not just deal-based or whatever . I do not feel sorry for dev too as he had absolutely the choice to walk out , but no he fell for the word Nitya . even if devga are united for a good motive, i cant help feeling disgusted at the turn of the events .

TRP's give the moral and legal credit to devga as durga is satisfying them going out of way maintaining patni dharm ,bahu dharm and what not . A section of audience always look at end results and not what brings the result.

Good or bad , blackmail due to any reasons is utterly despising . I dont see any reason to celebrate either of the couple here .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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What u expect here lots of people wanted shaurya should be forgiven and needs second chance 🤬
yes feel sorry for Dev & force marriage never allowed he have full right to be walkout after knowing truth also.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Both Dev and Raj could have opted out of the marriage yet took a decision to go ahead with their respective marriages as they assessed the risks to be too great had they walked away. Ultimately they both are responsible for their decisions regardless of the circumstances, so no sympathy for both.
Certainly both men were being very practical in the way they managed the situation. Raj in particular has managed to make the most of a bad situation and has been happily cruising along with two women by his side until affair revelation /Raima got shot.

If both husbands cannot become true 'jeevan saathis' to their wives and are depriving them of what matrimony is expected to offer, then the morality of this marriage may become an issue. Unless the couple arrive at a mutually agreed arrangement.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I do not sympathize with either Rajnath or Dev because both of them married for their selfish reasons.

Both were adults and had the choice to make a sensible decision both both chose to use their partners to get something for themselves in the end.

Rajnath of course is worse out of the two because he did it to hide some heinous crime
while Dev did it for his selfish need to find the love he thinks he lost.

Rajnath has burnt the candle at both ends and has gotten away with it for a long time
and now he is at that fork in his life once again whether to chose his so called love or
commit another crime which started this cycle for him in the first place.

Dev when he is proven innocent and finds out Durga is actually Nitya will have to decide if Durga/ Nitya is really worth the trouble he went through to get information for his childhood friend /love.

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