For those who r constantly bashing shravan... I can't tolerate this.. - Page 3

Originally posted by: zindgidilse

@bold...this same thing shravan has said to suman that these things are different...😆yet people blames sumo👏

Originally posted by: zindgidilse

thank you for this post...otherwise main comment nhi karti😆

just like you i m also not sumo fan...BUT neither i m shravan fan😆 i m neutral viewer so the much i feel for shravan..the same amount i feel for suman...and NAMIK and nikita's acting is nothing to do with it.😃

this post proves that shravan's fan will go to any extent to prove him right/empathize with him...just like zameen se khod khod ke justifications layenge shravan ke actions ko justify karne ke liye (don't tell me you are not justifying him coz your post clearly says that you are justifying his every action...ab justification ko aap naam de rhe hai ki TAALI KABHI EK HAATH SE NAHI BAJTI 😛 toh isme koi kar hi kya sakta hai😆) and this post is coming when shravan is not even bashed half to half comparing to when sumo was bashed during preekar marriage...so what will happen in this forum when people will equally bash shravan 🤣

i can give answers to all the points you have mentioned in your post but i won't coz it will be of no use when someone don't want to understand or want to ignore or can see/justify only one side of story😆see i m not blaming you😃

your this line " He has helped her in each and every tough times of her life " <--- this is what sumo think as EHSAAN when someone reminds her that what a person has done for her to help her...this is what a girl like sumo thinks who is all burdened and constantly reminded by all the time in her life with all the EHSAAN people has done to her.

you did mention what had led TEDHA SHRAVAN...but you didn't mention that what led a girl like sumo who constantly stay in a shell of her self respect...now lets talk in your language...Just put ur self In HER place u can understand her (i know you will definitely fail coz understanding shravan is very easy but understanding suman is not so easy task)... Don't just judge her by her self respect jaap rather think about the circumstances which made her a self respect jaap or not accepting any EHSAAN woman..

and if shravan have patience then sumo have hope...😉

about talking to her nicely regarding their wedding arrangements keeping in mind ramnath then its of no use coz it was all pre-planned from shravan's side ...(i m not blaming shravan rather stating that preplanning was a fact😛) [ now you will say that HE WAS RIGHT that he pre planned it coz he knew how suman is and her self respect jaap...yes i know that...infact we all know that but you can't deny that he again tried to test sumo...WOW...this is called nicely talking and requesting😉]

as you said ..sumo is dominating and wanted everything in her way.😆..so what shravan did was not dominating regarding court marriage? if sumo was thinking about her family so shravan was also thinking about his family ..if sumo has trashed his family wish for the grand wedding so shravan has also trashed her dreams for the wedding by doing court marriage...so HISAAB BARABAR..so both are right at their respective places.

i m not saying who is bad and who is good.😆

about shravan's hurt was visible in his eyes while he was talking about suman and aditya's marriage...toh kisi (shravan) ka dard dikh jata hai aur kisi (suman) ka nhi dikhta😆..main bhi off topic nhi ja rhi.😉

about shravan has only his dad as his apna..so if we think about suman...toh uske paas toh puri family hote hue bhi koi apna nahi tha jise woh apna keh sake..😳

about shravan loves sumo...yes no doubts he loves her...about shravan trust his dad and not doubting him..also no doubt in this😛..tabhi toh sumo ne ramnath ki sachchai ke baare mein shravan ko batana chod diya coz she knew its of no use coz he trusts and loves his dad..😆

no you didn't hurt any sumo fan here coz there is no sumo fan.🤣

about girls here making suman MAHAAN😆...YOU ARE VERY VERY VERY WRONG HERE🤣..here girls are empathize with shravan more than suman...majority of the girls are with shravan..girls here don't make her MAHAAN rather they blames her for being MAHAAN..fresh example of this MAHAANTA was during preekar marriage when girls here blamed her for being MAHAAN...and who can forget the name calling sumo got from girls here...at the time of preekar marriage, girls here called her dumb/foolish/idiot/mad and SLY/DOUBLE STANDARD and the same girls were busy in sympathizing with shravan...😎this is what a girl thinks about a girl😳🤣

finally someone understood as why preekar marrige track was dragged.😆

pls don think i m with suman or shravan...coz i m with ShraMan.😳

redemption jab hoga tab dekha jayega😆...and now i can agree with you that both are at fault.😉

i m also saying neither sumo is MAHAAN nor shravan.😛

so you are shravan fan...hmm...but i m not sorry if you are hurt by my comment coz i can't compromise with it.🤣

Originally posted by: spnfan

I like both shraman and nimik equally...

No one here.bashed shravan and majority of the members are shravan fans and the.rest are shraman fans like me.. There is only negligible amount of Sumo fans who defent her every actions and even they dont blindly support sumo the way others support shravan...

Even when shravan disrespected their friendship and lied to adi there were numerous posts.supporting hos actions... What shravan did was planned but most pf the things sumo did was unplanned and impulsively... She lacks judgement.of her actions...

Even when.shravan bad mouthed the entire female gender there were people who supported him and justified his actions.. Even though I understand were he.comes.from but will never blindly justify it...

Shraman both are at fault and if there is justification for their actions then both are equally right at their place.. If one's childhood can be used as a justification for their act as an adult then sumo also had every right to be rude to everyone but she chose to fight... Shravan is more emotionally vulnerable than sumo and more expressive so has more chances of going to the dark side..

Originally posted by: spnfan

Shraman both are at fault and if there is justification for their actions then both are equally right at their place.. If one's childhood can be used as a justification for their act as an adult then sumo also had every right to be rude to everyone but she chose to fight... Shravan is more emotionally vulnerable than sumo and more expressive so has more chances of going to the dark side..

Originally posted by: nith125

I try to stay away from Sumo bashing/ Shravan bashing posts. It never makes sense to me. I love what you have written and I agree completely, both are human and both are flawed.

#TeamShraMan 👍🏼

Originally posted by: ...MonaCo...

I think what Shravan meant was about the feeling of abandonment. He meant to say that atleast sumo knows her parents were with her till the end while his mother abandoned him. It's not an easy thing. Let me tell you one thing the issue with human beings is that we all think our pain is worse than the other. Everyone feels they have gone through a lot. Shravan feels he has gone through more, Suman feels she has gone through more. The only reason I applaud the topic maker for this post is because it chronologically lists what Shravan went through. The writers have shown more of Shravan's pain... Sumo's backstory was packed in two episodes and not eloquently justified. So it's easy to feel for Shravan than Sumo. They should have spent equal time in establishing their stories. Shravan's misogyny is OTT as is Sumo's obstinate nature. Blame it on poor writing not our bechara ShraMan...

Originally posted by: PprEDKV

Okk.. I said that I love this show for psychology.. I mentioned. I m not debating about who is right .. Both have ego.. And I m not supporting shravan I said again n again in my post.. And I m not blaming sumo.. I told she is very good.. And pls read perfectly I wrote that it was showed in starting about why her behavior was rude in childhood.. So I know why her behavior is like that. My perspective is for shravan

I was just justifying that his actions I m not blaming sumo and ya most of girls r really bashing shravan... I saw that's why I wrote this post.. But anyway leave that point ...

.. I m also ShraMan fan... I m shravan fan bcoz my anger is somehow like him and I also didn't get more bhav from my friends in childhood bcoz I was padaku and everyone think I m dumb .. Behind sumo's behavior also she has a past and shravan behavior also has a past...

After posting it I realized that why I posted it bcoz it will be of no use. The person who would understand will understand only by himself/herself .. No one can make a person realize anything...

It's better that I redeem myself for posting this.. It's worthless...

I M SORRY... . Everyone has different perspective for judgment...

Anyway we r EDKVian ..

And ShraManIan ... I love everyone in this forum.. Everyone is good.the thing is everyone is different... We expect many things from even strangers... Like I expected to make all the forum wasis understand my point and u expected to understand ur point...

So without expecting anything I want to love u all as we have one thing in common is that we EDKV fans.. Cheers .. And hugs 🤗to u ritu... Yes I know ur name 😊 as u r a famous writer...

Love to all of u.. Shravan fans, sumo fans and all ShraMan fans...

Bcoz this is the last day I decided fro being in my social networks.. Bcoz Exams on head ...

I love u all ...