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First of all I m not at all on shravan 's side. I also feel very very bad for sumo and when I see shravan speaking these things I also think like beating him and sometimes I think that sumo should leave shravan forever he doesn't deserves her love..
But today a thought came to my mind nd I think that I should share this to all those bashing shravan and want only shravan to feel guilty about ruining their relationship and telling harsh words to sumo. I also want him to feel guilty infact VERY MUCH GUILTY
So here are my thoughts for him
TAALLI KABHI EK HAATH SE NAHI BAJTI ... Shravan is wrong but at the same sumo WAS also wrong... Here are the points which lead to tedha shravan and it's quite obvious these things turn any person to TEDHA
1. While waiting at the coffee shop He Waite for 5 hrs and called her but she replied that she can't come bcoz she had some work which was very rude in tone and he said ab ajao but she denied... He was hurt at that time bcoz she take him too granted.. I know she didn't went bcoz that creepy Ramhoe but she was knowing that he is waiting for her so she should at least call him and tell that I will not come I have some work but she didn't do that also.. At that time also HE LET IT GO. What would we do if r waiting for our best friend if he/she didn't came and just simply reply that I had some work.. We will feel rejected and think that how typical person is this... Right?
2. When she went to have coffee with Aditya and at that time he feel that she doesn't have time to drink coffee with me but have time for other.. He again felt that he is so granted for her.. At that time also HE LET GO... What will we do if our best friend have time for others but not for us? ...
4. At the time of selecting venue for Sangeet they both went to the venue when shravan said "Tum mere liye itna bhi Nahi kar Sakti?" And sumo replied Nahi meri self respect SE zyada kuch imp Nahi he .. I know that she said in her mind that "tumhare liye to me apne Jan bhi dedu " but what was the need to tell mere liye self respect SE zyada kuch imp Nahi he? She should say that shravan I can't do this for u bcoz we can't afford no it would degrade our family's respect as we would take ur help as the responsibility is from girls side.. This hurts him inside very much but then also he LET IT GO. What would we do if our best friend tell us like this?... We would also get hurt and get upset that we r not imp for them
5. When shravan was telling to sumo that aditya's intentions r not good... She replied him very rudely that I didn't bother to hear as I m not bothering to hear in current episodes whatever shravan says.. But she compared him with Aditya that he also helps her every time for which he replied Tum muje usse compare bhi Kese kar sakti ho.. He was right ... I know sumo can't let shravan believe that she believed him and will keep herself from Aditya but she shouldn't have taken this comparison point.. At that time also HE LET IT GO... what will we do if our best friend compare us with Kal ka aya friend? Of course we will feel that Kal Ka aya friend itna imp ho Gaya aur Hume neglect kiya ..
6. One week I have not watched those hatred episodes so can't write on it... I know at that time shravan behaved rudely with her For his chachi but remember guys he was right he was not his Chachi's puppet but every brother has expectations that his brother's marriage should be awesome...
7. When he asked sumo for pct... I know obviously she should not take pct from him... But he felt that she doesn't need anyone's help... But when he saw Aditya sumo in car he felt that she took help from Aditya but not from me... He again felt that he is granted for her.. At that time also he LET GO... AGAIN what would we do in this situation?... Imagine...
8. The PCT Kand in which his faith was from his hair to the nails of his toes that sumo will not accept it from Aditya BUT we all know... At that time he was hurt like ki kisine usse uthakar gattar me phek diya ho.. Obviously yar... ''''.. And I was very upset with sumo that she didn't even tried to understand a bit that why he did all these even when she heard about Aditya.. And this silly girl was thinking that shravan had sent him... Uff '''.. Girl first decide that u want shravan 's help or not.. That was too silly yaar really,... Again what would we do in this situation?...
9. Last- Marriage... Everybody knows this... He CANNOT LET GO this time...
And those who r thinking why shravan felt cheated after hearing sumo's marriage news bcoz sumo never told him that she loves him
let me tell u he didn't only fell cheated after hearing sumo's marriage news he felt cheated also at that time when sumo accepted pct from Aditya... He didn't felt cheated that sumo will marry Aditya and not him. He didn't felt Cheated like boyfriend or husband feel cheated when his girlfriend or wife ran away with other boy... NO.. He felt Cheated as a best friend... He has helped her in each and every tough times of her life but she choose other person and didn't even bother to give him a little bhav and just kept him telling harsh words and taking him granted all time...
So guys these all things led to TEDHA SHRAVAN and not only marriage news led him to this weird behavior... Just put ur self In his place u can understand him... Don't just judge him by current episodes think about previous episodes... Guys SHRAVAN MALHOTRA had so much patience that he LET GO all the above 6 points.. That's his character.. And I really really appreciate it., If I would have been in his place I would definitely not have such patience..
For their marriage also he tried to convince her softly but she didn't even bother to understand what he is saying.. She didn't even let him finish his talk.., he was right. His family and his father wanted a good wedding.. Who will not fulfill their family's wishes.. Sumo is still somehow dominating she wanted everything in her way only.. If she is that much modern than she should not say like ladki wale kharcha uthaye..and the option she gave was worthless.. She should at least try to think his point but what about thinking she didn't let him finish his sentence.. Well I m not saying sumo is bad.. She is very good.. The point is only she is not MAHAAN.. I was not feeling bad for sumo.. Shravan also has ego and equally she also has ego in the name of self respect..
In yesterday's episode also his hurt was seen from his eyes while he was talking about that sumo was going to marry ADITYA.. that hurt was seen I his eyes.. How much hurt he was while sumo was marrying Aditya.. That hurt can be seen bcoz of Namik acting 👏.. Sorry off topic Nahi jaungi..
And yaa everyone telling that he is papa's puppet... Plz understand him.. His papa is the only person who has not betrayed him and leaved him alone.. No matter how this Ramhoe is.. Shravan is not knowing how is father is. Like we were not knowing that he is hoe till 9th June.. And those who r telling that he is not using his brain then let me tell u that Ramhoe is his FATHER.. nobody will ever doubt on their father. Right? Is there anyone who will ever use logic for their father? In starting episode only shravan said to CHachi in the party that RISHTO ME LOGIC NAHI HOTA... This show how much emotional he is.. come on yar his father is only person in his life who he seems APNA.. He loves sumo but obviously he will trust on a person who had raised him... And yar there is nothing related to his being lawyer in not using brain. In parents relationships no lawyer no doctor no engineer will ever doubt..
And for hating women .. The reason u know very well is this Kand Devi nirmala.. And ya somehow sumo in her past when she insulted him.. This fitted in his subconscious mind.. He started trusting sumo by forgetting all this and made her special but he again got rejected .. I m not blaming sumo.. Sorry if I hunted any sumo fan.. She had done bcoz Ramhoe but sometimes she was too silly and taken him for granted.
I know all the fans are female.. But being a feminist that doesn't mean we should make women MAHAAN by that so called sacrificing thing.. I know sumo has made sacrifices many more but shravan has also not got everything.. He has not sacrificed that doesn't mean he is .. Whatever u all think..
Now I got why PreeKar marriage was so long and dragged... Hats off to CVs yar... This is called a show,.. A realistic and psychological show... I started watching it bcoz I felt its psychological bcoz they showed sumo's character in earlier episodes that why she was like this weird in her childhood. I understood that this TV show is psychological... I was very angry with CVs that why they dragged this PreeKar Shadi so much but now I understand it that bcoz all these things in Shadi led to TEDHA shravan and NOT ONLY Aditya sumo marriage news...
Really now I can proudly say that I LOVE EDKV..
pls don't think that I m with shravan what he did was very wrong he should be redeemed but at the same time sumo's silliness was also there for which she should also feel somehow guilty I don't only want shravan to feel guilty but also want sumo to feel guilty for not understanding him properly... Really this is the first show in the history of Indian TV that leads are NOT MAHAAN... Both are at fault and both should realize their mistakes..
I wish CVs highlights these things in the show..
Thank u CVs for giving us such good story and realistic show.. Thank you so much...
And ya thanks
U for giving NAMIK and Nikita as the leads
I hope everyone understand and don't throw chappals to me for this longer post
but I think it was needed bcoz we can't blame only one person and as ,last of the fans are girls that doesn't mean that we should hate shravan for his behavior and make sumo MAHAAN .. Remember nobody is MAHAAN here nor sumo and neither shravan..
Thanking u
A proud EDKVian
PS - sorry for the long post but it was very much needed bcoz everyone was bashing shravan and sympathetic towards sumo... That's why I have posted this.. Pls don't hate him bcoz the intensity in his love is very rare in today's boys... And ya sorry if i hurted any sumo fan I m not a sumo fan I m shravan fan but I m not making him MAHAAN..
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