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Posted: 9 years ago
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Completely appreciate your view point, but would just say that the conversations about whether Adi is better for Sumo or not are redundant. Shravan loves Sumo and she loves him and that's the bottom line. If Shravan has hurt her, she has not spared his feelings either, infact they hurt each other becoz they have feelings for and haq on each other. Shravan wants an assurance that Sumo's self respect will not take her away from him and Sumo needs Shravan's assurance that he loves her. A lot of ppl are saying that Shravan does not understand her self respect, but if only she would have explained things to him(like she did in the Khosla case), I'm sure he would have understood. Also Sumo is right now not getting the depth of Shravan's insecurities and that's the same as Shravan nor understanding about her self respect. And remember Adi is very new to the scene, he's not seen Sumo's insecurities and yes her ego, so right now it's all ok for him to accept her as it is. Shravan and Sumo are right now caught up in a game of other people's making but I'm sure they will soon take destiny in their own hands. But I don't think for one moment that Adi understands Sumo more than Shravan. I love how Sumo and Shravan are together and even though they are caught up in a misunderstandings web at the moment, passing thru this will make sure that their insecurities and temparements never hinder their love again. Thoughtful post btw
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Is there anything to feel bad? 😆
Girl is not some chocolate or tophy which all children should get.

Pyaar nahin hain to nahin hain. Dil ke saath zabardasti nahin hoti.

Not like he's living in dark. When sumo has made it clear and still he's getting emotionally invested in her, there's nothing to feel bad. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#83
Bravo ! You make a post supporting Aditya in a forum that is driven by Shraman chemistry . Aditya is quite a charming personality, he lies but most of it I think has been with a good intention. I hope his character stays the same and they do not make him negative. On the other hand, I don't think Suman has given him any signals indicating she is interested in him. In the last two episodes , her behavior does not quialfy as flirting IMO. Plus she has made it clear that she is not interested in him, calling him paraya. As for shravan' s behavior I think Suman has been disrespectful to him as well. So they deserve each other ( and I am not complaining, they look perfect together ) .
And I don't understand why anyone should get offended if you feel sorry for Aditya.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just wanted 2 comment a few points i knw...U r telling the gal ends up marrying the rude guy like a typical indian serial...First u get it clear dat ur not watching gul khans shw..Seriously Shravan is the most sorted out characters in dis serial...As of now he is just not seeing the bigger picture behind him...I dbt blame him 4r dat...Comparing Adi nd Shravan is baseless in the 1st place...Aditya the sweeter one like ur telling has a diff upbringing...He might have helped ppl in his life all the way..He glorifies his mothers advice...And now he thinks hes dng it for Sumo...But still he has seen Suman and not Sumo...And Sumo has been clearly potrayed as a person who does not want 2 accept any help nd do things of her own...And commenting Shravan does not do anything for Sumo...Honestly Shravan has his flaws...He is just a grown up man but his thoughts nd actions are always connected 2 his past...He is a person who needs 2 be supported...xplained...has 2 be tld wat is rite nd wrong...which clearly Sumo is not doing but backing off...Him trusting his fathers words nd listening 2 him is not wrong either...He is only person i cud tell is there 4r Shravan truly...The Cvs are just trying 2 bring out the upbringing of both...Though Sumo tells she might die 4r Shravan but i guess its the other way round..SHRAVAN MALHOTRA is the person who could do anything 4r the ppl he loves even when the whole world is against him...He is a person with the golden heart...And now all he needs is space...a person 2 support nd xplain him...a person 2 bring him out of his insecurities...which will happen in the future...And Adi being nice i dnt think he wud be or not if he is gonna b rejected...Maybe he wud learn life is not always getting it in your ways. .He might learn wats it means to be heartbroken...when somebody u love leaves u...He might be able to see through wat others feel...He can see Sheavan sorrow bd his feelings...He can bcom a better person knowing life...But again its in cvs hands 2 shw him as a positive or negative one...
DATS MY FEW POINTS!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl

Is there anything to feel bad? 😆

Girl is not some chocolate or tophy which all children should get.

Pyaar nahin hain to nahin hain. Dil ke saath zabardasti nahin hoti.

Not like he's living in dark. When sumo has made it clear and still he's getting emotionally invested in her, there's nothing to feel bad. 😆


I don't think you truly understood my post :P

I feel bad for him because he is swinging between 2 very egotistic and selfish characters. I don't feel bad that he got rejected. I am glad he got rejected because he deserves better. 😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yatraa

Just wanted 2 comment a few points i knw...U r telling the gal ends up marrying the rude guy like a typical indian serial...First u get it clear dat ur not watching gul khans shw..Seriously Shravan is the most sorted out characters in dis serial...As of now he is just not seeing the bigger picture behind him...I dbt blame him 4r dat...Comparing Adi nd Shravan is baseless in the 1st place...Aditya the sweeter one like ur telling has a diff upbringing...He might have helped ppl in his life all the way..He glorifies his mothers advice...And now he thinks hes dng it for Sumo...But still he has seen Suman and not Sumo...And Sumo has been clearly potrayed as a person who does not want 2 accept any help nd do things of her own...And commenting Shravan does not do anything for Sumo...Honestly Shravan has his flaws...He is just a grown up man but his thoughts nd actions are always connected 2 his past...He is a person who needs 2 be supported...xplained...has 2 be tld wat is rite nd wrong...which clearly Sumo is not doing but backing off...Him trusting his fathers words nd listening 2 him is not wrong either...He is only person i cud tell is there 4r Shravan truly...The Cvs are just trying 2 bring out the upbringing of both...Though Sumo tells she might die 4r Shravan but i guess its the other way round..SHRAVAN MALHOTRA is the person who could do anything 4r the ppl he loves even when the whole world is against him...He is a person with the golden heart...And now all he needs is space...a person 2 support nd xplain him...a person 2 bring him out of his insecurities...which will happen in the future...And Adi being nice i dnt think he wud be or not if he is gonna b rejected...Maybe he wud learn life is not always getting it in your ways. .He might learn wats it means to be heartbroken...when somebody u love leaves u...He might be able to see through wat others feel...He can see Sheavan sorrow bd his feelings...He can bcom a better person knowing life...But again its in cvs hands 2 shw him as a positive or negative one...

DATS MY FEW POINTS!!!


A lot of people in this forum actually are supporting of a hate marriage.. so this is nothing new. In Gul Khan shows, characters have way better write-ups than this show first of all. In this show, CVs have left no stone unturned to diminish sense in both main characters... there is no trust, no communication... where is the damn love?

One day, Shravan loves Sumo..the next day he is hating her... then the third day he is feeling jealousy..but on the fourth day he realizes...waaait a second... she is actually really selfish..and goes back to square one. 😆 Aditya is moving this show to next stage...his actions will one day make Shravan take a better initiative towards Sumo. So the mere fact that the many on this forum hate Adi...is beyond me.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mohabbateinn


A lot of people in this forum actually are supporting of a hate marriage.. so this is nothing new. In Gul Khan shows, characters have way better write-ups than this show first of all. In this show, CVs have left no stone unturned to diminish sense in both main characters... there is no trust, no communication... where is the damn love?

One day, Shravan loves Sumo..the next day he is hating her... then the third day he is feeling jealousy..but on the fourth day he realizes...waaait a second... she is actually really selfish..and goes back to square one. 😆 Aditya is moving this show to next stage...his actions will one day make Shravan take a better initiative towards Sumo. So the mere fact that the many on this forum hate Adi...is beyond me.

All most everybody wants a marriage...So they cud atleast be in the sme room nd fight...i dnt blame anybody...the cvs have turned the story its characters like dis...nd im not comparing Guls shw..Her male leads r shwn rude 2 the female leads. ..But i just wnt 2 make it clear Shravan is not dat type of a guy...He just has a bitter past nd his own sorrows.. but he has never been the rude one...its just in few moments he cud not get his act correct..Abt Shravans confused state i dnt blame him again...He is trying 2 give his life a chance..He wants 2 live life nd he is not the person who returned 4rm london.. but he is all alone...Dat is why i mentioned he needs support...encouragement...xplanation..Had he smeone now 2 shw him the right path u cud never find a person like him...Aditya might make Shravan claim Sumo...but its nly Sumo nd his parents who can bring him out of his insecurities...his past...his views...nd make him a better person..
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Posted: 9 years ago
#88
Honestly, i have no sympathy for him, he is trying to build a relationship by continuously lying to the girl,he says he loves,so,he would have been heartbroken anyway even if shravan wasn't between them,and now he is going to send proposal for her through his mother without asking her once,whether she is ok with it. IMO he himself is responsible for his upcoming heartbreak.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Okay everyone cleared their points , but I would like to say "Cheap" is a very strong word to use here .
Suman never used anyone , she is just making Shravan Jealous using Aditya's name Not Aditya , there is alot of difference between this .
She didn't flirt with him to make Shravan jealous, also she didn't appreciate Aditya before Shravan in Aditya's presence to give him high hopes.Suman has already cleared Aditya his limits & showed his place .
She asked him to accompany to AC dealers that too when Aditya already said that he will take her to AC dealers & yesterday too she didn't call him for hammer.Suman nowhere used Aditya till now to make Shravan jealous .
And I don't feel sorry for Aditya , Shravan is treating him like crap ? Why ? Coz Aditya jabardasthi sab ke matters mein ghuske chala jatha hai , Shravan doesn't like this & also Shravan many times told him not to involve in others personal matters , even then Aditya keeps on involving, then it's absolutely Aditya's fault & Also pushkar warned Aditya to be away from offering help to Suman, but still he does that, After telling & warning him so many times , if Aditya doesn't get the point then there is no need to feel sorry for him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: KostinsQueen

Okay everyone cleared their points , but I would like to say "Cheap" is a very strong word to use here .

Suman never used anyone , she is just making Shravan Jealous using Aditya's name Not Aditya , there is alot of difference between this .
She didn't flirt with him to make Shravan jealous, also she didn't appreciate Aditya before Shravan in Aditya's presence to give him high hopes.Suman has already cleared Aditya his limits & showed his place .
She asked him to accompany to AC dealers that too when Aditya already said that he will take her to AC dealers & yesterday too she didn't call him for hammer.Suman nowhere used Aditya till now to make Shravan jealous .
And I don't feel sorry for Aditya , Shravan is treating him like crap ? Why ? Coz Aditya jabardasthi sab ke matters mein ghuske chala jatha hai , Shravan doesn't like this & also Shravan many times told him not to involve in others personal matters , even then Aditya keeps on involving, then it's absolutely Aditya's fault & Also pushkar warned Aditya to be away from offering help to Suman, but still he does that, After telling & warning him so many times , if Aditya doesn't get the point then there is no need to feel sorry for him.


One more point she also told him that this is the help she has taken and she has completed her promise😊

I only feel sorry for my sharman😳
Edited by spshastr - 9 years ago

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