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Posted: 9 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: dlavanya



She is using aditya to make shravan jealous. There is no doubt there. She said she doesnt want to take his help on his face and he respected it and stayed out. Just blurted that nanus wishes to ramu( just a help for thr distressed family. Not to impress sumo.)he actually felt suno is going to be upset for that..

Anyways sumo clearly 100 percent knows that aditya is interested in her. She realized that aditya is making shravan jealous after the dress trial scene. She intentionally accepted adityas help for getting a/cs. Asked him to come along (only to make shravan jealous. There is no need for him to come aong the super woman that she is). She could have just asked for the contacts and took care of it herself.


Got your point there👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: spnfan

If you dont.have an answer just simply say so... 😆


Please.dont go.. This.forum.will be.so sunna if ypu are out.🥳


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Oh for gods sake. Please change your mentality that he is only helping her because she is pretty. Even Shravan finds her beautiful and they've even had a super close, touchy-touchy dance.. so what do you call that? Even at the dance, Adi saved the day while Shravan just abandoned her on the stage to be humiliated.

If lust is driving Adi's actions, then he could've tried other ways to get to her, like we see in other shows. He doesn't need to secretly pay for a dress and go through the trouble of getting PCT started just for her to notice him. That makes absolutely zero sense! If he wanted to show off, there are other ways of doing it.

If Adi has ulterior motives, then thats that... but so far, his characterization does not prove in any shape or form that he is thinking of her in a bad way. If scanning her body in one scene was lust, then Arnav must've lusted over Khushi atleast twice in every episode. 🤣

Just because you know someone from childhood, doesn't mean they have a right over you. I don't know what this show is trying to prove from that angle because you meet new friends in life, and some are more loyal than others -- regardless of age.

Actions build trust, not how many days you've known each other.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#73
The way I see it, Aditya has a thing for Suman. He is taken with her looks and then maybe her personality. He has known her for what 2 weeks? Max 3? Shravan and even Pushkar have known her for 13 years?

In this case, Aditya is doing all this because he wants to help Suman. He is over stepping, but that seems to be his nature. I dont think he is a bad guy, but a bit out of control. He tends to "railroad" people. Just like that Pushkar Bachelor party incident. It seems he thinks he knows what's good for other people.

Shravan and even Pushkar told him a few times that Suman will not take anyone's help but clearly that seems to have no effect on him and despite that he has taken it upon himself to buy PCT land and give it to Suman through "False pretenses". I think this is very wrong. What he has done is do the same thing Shravan tried to do (Give her back PCT) but in such a way that she will feel OK about taking it. I.E Lying!


The fact is, Adi WANTS Suman to take PCT, coz clearly that will help her. Up to that point he is right. But HOW he chose to help her was clearly wrong. My most favorite line from the Bible is "You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free!". So therefore I don't believe Lies are the answer to anything. Everyone is in the predicament they are in right now in this story because of "Lies".


Ramnath has lied to Shravan about his Mum. Has lied to him about Suman as well. The ENTIRE premise of all the difficulties that ShraMan are now in, has it's root in the lies of Ramnath. Therefore one cannot pretend that the lies of Aditya are any better. What he has done is very manipulative. In the dress case, and also the PCT case. To get Suman to do as he wishes or take his help without "Knowing" she is taking his help, this is his way. What he told her before of getting investors and then getting a bigger place? THAT I agreed with! Because that was actually a way for her to expand. What he said to her then."Dont refuse an offer that you have EARNED because of your wrong thinking that it is help?" Totally agree with. But this? No I dont agree with this! Whatever he has brought on himself is his own doing. If his heart breaks in this scenario. (I think his heart will be bruised or maybe ego? But this is not true love, so his heart wont break). But whatever comes to him will be entirely of his own making.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: dlavanya


I am new to edkv and i am just watching it to give it a chance. Again i have only watched the recent episodes. Want to throw in my 2 cents
I see this discussion has come to 1 against many...
So aditya is interested in sumo - fine
He is trying to find what bothera her and trying to help her in anyway possible - fine
Sumo told him she doesn't appreciate help and he backed off temporarily- fine
But he still tried to help by telling ramu abt nanus wish and succeeded - great
He apologized to sumo for trying to help and she said thanks and in return he said she will have to let him help in one matter- she said ok

Facts
Shravan told sumo very clearly that aditya is interested in sumo romantically
Shravan knows that sumo will reject adityas help if he gives her pct back

So lets discuss futher, given the facts above

Suman- is it ok to use aditya to make shravan jealous when she knows that aditya is interested in her.. Is that humane ???

Shravan- he knows that sumo willnot accept the pct papers from aditya. Is it ok on his part to hand him the papers with obly the intention of seeing him utterly fail???

I can totally understand if his intention was to help and provide some needed relief to sumo in any way possible. Even if it is through aditya and aditya getting the credit. If he really cares about her , he should not worry abt how his help reached her. But looks like once he gets to know that sumo accepted adityas help he is going to box box break mirror whatever.

So i really doubt if he really genuinely loves sumo or is it sone kind of ego/obsession.


You've brought some great insights in this post.. thank you for that!

I believe the same thing as you said in bold... Shravan is waay more concerned about his image, than her need. The land is important to Suman, and if Adi is the medium to deliver it to her... then what's wrong in that!?

True help is selfless... when you expect nothing in return. But, Shravan wants to deliver it from his side..because he has some sort of 'haq' over her. lol

He is only passing it to Adi because he knows Suman's reaction. Even his decision to help her has a wrong thought behind it...!

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Posted: 9 years ago
#75
I would like to add one simple thing to this post. If you just consider the fact that Aditya doesn't know anything about Shraman, he found a girl he "likes" and is trying to woo, his character isn't so wrong. I am sure even in day to day life when boys try to woo girls they like, they might say a few white lies. I am not justifying lying, I'm just saying it happens in the real world. How many people do you know, who have tried to change themselves or said that they like some stuff they didn't just to impress someone? I am sure all of us know some of these people.
To add to the above, if this was a show in which Shravan didn't exist and Aditya was the lead doing so and so for the lead actress, I assume many of you would go far ahead and say things like, "Aww he is so cute he's just trying to help her.. And win her heart" instead of "he is a scumbag who doesn't deserve one worth of respect" kind of stuff that this post echoes.

No offense to anyone, just another pov.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

The way I see it, Aditya has a thing for Suman. He is taken with her looks and then maybe her personality. He has known her for what 2 weeks? Max 3? Shravan and even Pushkar have known her for 13 years?

In this case, Aditya is doing all this because he wants to help Suman. He is over stepping, but that seems to be his nature. I dont think he is a bad guy, but a bit out of control. He tends to "railroad" people. Just like that Pushkar Bachelor party incident. It seems he thinks he knows what's good for other people.

Shravan and even Pushkar told him a few times that Suman will not take anyone's help but clearly that seems to have no effect on him and despite that he has taken it upon himself to buy PCT land and give it to Suman through "False pretenses". I think this is very wrong. What he has done is do the same thing Shravan tried to do (Give her back PCT) but in such a way that she will feel OK about taking it. I.E Lying!


The fact is, Adi WANTS Suman to take PCT, coz clearly that will help her. Up to that point he is right. But HOW he chose to help her was clearly wrong. My most favorite line from the Bible is "You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free!". So therefore I don't believe Lies are the answer to anything. Everyone is in the predicament they are in right now in this story because of "Lies".


Ramnath has lied to Shravan about his Mum. Has lied to him about Suman as well. The ENTIRE premise of all the difficulties that ShraMan are now in, has it's root in the lies of Ramnath. Therefore one cannot pretend that the lies of Aditya are any better. What he has done is very manipulative. In the dress case, and also the PCT case. To get Suman to do as he wishes or take his help without "Knowing" she is taking his help, this is his way. What he told her before of getting investors and then getting a bigger place? THAT I agreed with! Because that was actually a way for her to expand. What he said to her then."Dont refuse an offer that you have EARNED because of your wrong thinking that it is help?" Totally agree with. But this? No I dont agree with this! Whatever he has brought on himself is his own doing. If his heart breaks in this scenario. (I think his heart will be bruised or maybe ego? But this is not true love, so his heart wont break). But whatever comes to him will be entirely of his own making.


I'm not saying he did not lie, or that it is right to lie. Yes, it was manipulative -- but did it break her? Did the help break her self-esteem? Did he make her feel lower than him? Did he make her realize day after day that she is unable to keep others happy due to her ego?

You are saying that Ramnath's lies are the root of all problems.. I agree.. but in some shows, characters actually have a mind of their own where they can differentiate between right and wrong themselves. He is shown to be a grown man, who is still unable to interpret his childhood friend.. who he claims to have a haq on, but at the same time.. dislikes her personality... so what exactly does he love her for? 😕😕

Aditya is all wrong because he is a newer friend, and lies, and apparently lusts over her... but its okay if Shravan does those things because he is a longtime friend? 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#77
Not feeling bad at all for aditya chipku... Mujhe bilkul bi bora nahi lagega if his heart is broken in to not million but billion or trillion of pieces... Though his feelings are genuine but the way he is trying to help her is not right... Aditya issliye help kar raha hai ki woh sumo ko impress kar ke shaadi kar sake...he is so selfish
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Posted: 9 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: You-Know-Who

I would like to add one simple thing to this post. If you just consider the fact that Aditya doesn't know anything about Shraman, he found a girl he "likes" and is trying to woo, his character isn't so wrong. I am sure even in day to day life when boys try to woo girls they like, they might say a few white lies. I am not justifying lying, I'm just saying it happens in the real world. How many people do you know, who have tried to change themselves or said that they like some stuff they didn't just to impress someone? I am sure all of us know some of these people.

To add to the above, if this was a show in which Shravan didn't exist and Aditya was the lead doing so and so for the lead actress, I assume many of you would go far ahead and say things like, "Aww he is so cute he's just trying to help her.. And win her heart" instead of "he is a scumbag who doesn't deserve one worth of respect" kind of stuff that this post echoes.

No offense to anyone, just another pov.

🤗 beautifully said my friend.
It's all about perspective and you've said it absolutely right. 👏 The story deviates from the main leads for a few seconds, and the entire fan base gets violent towards the CVs and whatnot.

I wish others could understand this message too.. nazariya badalo, aur enjoy karo! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: Pravas007

Not feeling bad at all for aditya chipku... Mujhe bilkul bi bora nahi lagega if his heart is broken in to not million but billion or trillion of pieces... Though his feelings are genuine but the way he is trying to help her is not right... Aditya issliye help kar raha hai ki woh sumo ko impress kar ke shaadi kar sake...he is so selfish



How do you win a girl like Sumo.. whose life is immersed in problems and problems? Well... you try to sort out those problems so she can think about moving ahead in life. 😛 There would be no need for lying if she didn't have such high ideals and values...😆 This is exactly what Shravan dislikes in her.. and continuously shames her for it. Adi has never shamed her for being who she is... and this is what makes her selfish!!!! She will always value Shravan's insults... but its ok right... cus she is used to it.😆 She will obviously feel disrespected though, if someone talks to her properly and respects her etc etc...because obvi someone who treats you nice always has ulterior motives. 😆 🤔 apparently.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bad or not i dont know par haam gussa jarur jo bhi shraman ke bich aayega.hame tho gussa ayega.

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