Shravan did so much for Sumo but... - Page 3

Originally posted by: malikakas

Love the 'lovers masquerading as friends' bit... so true. Its like they were in a surrogate relationship. And yes you are absolutely correct... the two leaps of faith for the relationship were taken by Sumo. But both times Shravan was considering opening up, he's reconsidered for some reason or another. He needs to be sure he's ready for the risk before he takes the leap.

I honestly don't understand the complaint that Sumo is choosing family over Shravan. Especially when they made it abundantly clear that Shravan would pick Ramnath over Sumo. He's done it in the past and clearly stated he would do it again.

Originally posted by: AppleBlossom

Yes! When Shravan finally takes the leap (or is allowed to by the writers, because this time, he was thwarted by no fault of his), he will be in it for life. I see the story moving forward towards removing all the weeds in their paths before they get together, because once they do, there will be no going back.

I genuinely don't begrudge Shravan or Suman anything in regards to how they are with each other. They are two very nicely etched characters and their motivations and reactions to things in life make perfect sense in my head. I have a lot of issues with how things are being handled in this PreeKar track but none of them are about Shravan or Suman's behavior towards each other. It makes perfect sense to me.

Originally posted by: AppleBlossom

It is really, really unfair to say that Sumo has never done anything for Shravan. Sumo is a very giving lover (given that these two have always behaved like lovers masquerading as friends). The two leap of faiths that lurched their relationship forward were both taken by Suman.

Sumo has never taken monetary help from anyone. Aditya has only found her a place for rent, he isn't offering to pay it. There is a difference. Sumo had no issue with taking Shravan's non-monetary help before the PCT issue. She even said out loud that she knew Shravan was fighting the Khosla case for her. She had no issues allowing that..

It's just that she is cornered from all sides right now. People think she is blindly choosing her family over Shravan but they completely fail to see that the father of the man she loves flat out told her that he doesn't want her for his son. The same father that Shravan has, in Sumo's eyes, constantly chosen over her. Does it make sense for her to try to pursue this relationship post the Nirmala incident? In her head, Shravan would not even consider the idea of his father being in the wrong, especially if the only proof she has is her words (is she wrong, btw?). So, what choice does she have?

As for her being rude, part of it is wanting to push him away, and part of it is her taking the frustration of her situation out at the only person she considers hers. I wonder if people who have such an issue with Suman's 'insults' remember how Shravan treated her when he couldn't face his own feelings. They lash out at each other, it is a thing they do. It is also a facet of their love. They are each other's people. If she is taking him for granted right now, she is has been taken granted for by Shravan plenty times in the past.

I saw this post last night .. I really had nothing to add as it is true shravan has helped her but she hasn't been demonstrative of her care and concern . But then i thought that has been the dynamics of their relation since long back
Shravan doesn't need help , he needs to heal

He helped her with various things and she healed him from sense of abandonment and hurt by her fun and carefreeness ..
Why did he wanted to be friends with a girl who didn't acknowledge him in school . Bcoz she gave him an escape from his home which was breaking . Last time when she refused to heal he was left with open wound for 10 years

After he came back they had resumed their roles . He helped her with the case , her accident and she gave him sense of belonging , fun and joy .. That is the reason he smiles so much more with sumo . She healed him with her patience, understanding and loyalty . That's the reason why she didn't tell him she made the daal. So that he could heal from bitterness.
Sumo tried to heal by bring in his mother but alas it didn't work

Now after PCT sumo learned to help herself which in turn helped to become stronger .. Now shravan has to learn heal himself to move ahead instead of hurting his wound over and over again so that he too can become stronger .