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Hi I am Smita..New here.

I think for any relationship to work long time head and heart have to merge.

You have to accept your partner the way they are and live with them with some accomodations and compromises.

Kamini and Lalaji have acted as if things are all ok. Shrav can talk to Lalaji to know about Kaminis true colors

Coming back to Shraman . CVS have sketched their characters in a certain way and I would like to give respect to that

Shravan - Extremely sensitive, needs mental support .Holds on to the past, extremely honest ,trusts his dad completeley. He is dependent on SUmo and also extremely insecure about her due to his previous experience. Sumos honesty, courage and her outspoken nature is what attracts him to her

He wants her to care for him and needs one signal that she will be with him forever.In his insecurities and due to his father he is holding on only to the negatives in the relationship. Emotionally he is scared and that makes him angry

Sumo- Orphaned but strong and has made a mark. Needs SHravan to be with her but is not dependent on him emotionally. SHe loves him for the fact that hes with her and the way he is.

He has been there for her unconditionally and she trusts him blindly

Evne the little ways he MIGHT have broken her trust is erased in her mind as she never dwells on the negative and moves on. She has this self respect Chip to protect herself from all the hurt that the world has hurled on her. SHe is an orphan and am sure she has undergone a lot of things.

These two love each other and dream to be with each other.

Current situation

He wants her to prove that she NOT Nirmala. Self respect comes in the way. HE needs to understand her SELF RESPECT is due to the ehsaan her family has done. She does not think they needed to take care of her but they did.ITs very much unlike his mother.

She needs to realise LOVE is above EHSAAN and so her self respect wont come in the way

How this happens I dont know ...This is a sshow so it will happen.In real life it may or may not

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Aquarist1

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Posted: 9 years ago

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I so agree with everything you said. I also think he is extremely sensitive because his conditions in the past have made him like this. He gets emotional even in the smallest things. That personally makes him cute lol

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Hi smitha...welcome to the forum...i loved how u described shravan and sumo...i respect that...

i am thinking this way...shravan never think abt sumo has some attitude...but in recent situatins and her beahavior with shravan made him think like that...same time ramu showing some examples and comparing her with nirmala...he never think she has some ego...he respect her self respect ...ya during pct track he knows she has self respect knowing that he listened ramanth and gave pct land papers...he is wrong at that situation..now after accident and coffee date their equation changed...they r now realized they r in love and can't live without each other...

sumo don't know how to avoid shravan so messed up everything...she wants to stay away from him but at the same time she is behaving weird and rude r harsh whatever...they both r upset...what sumo needs to understand is shravan don't know abt ramnath so at least she tries to expalin why she is behaving like this...for her her family is most important so she can't take any step towards their realtionship then it would have been better...but for shravan after his dad sumo is his life...in future if he knows abt his father sumo is in upper hand...

i hope cv's will correct it...atleast they can give some explanation for sumo behaviour...

shravan wants to help sumo because he knows abt kamini how selfish she is..sumo also knows that...but she is not thinking this way she brings money and status between her and shravan..how fair it is(ring buying)...he never showed statues for sumo...he just wants to help her thinking she is his best friend...if ur friend suddenly start avoiding u wll get defo get mad...that's what he is doing..i think precap sharavan and pushkar convo is that only...

sumo please think abt it it's ur sis marriage..i know u have taken ur resposibitlity but u have to think abt kamini too(i am not supporting kamini)...tiwari's r ready for destination wedding(1 crore) now hey r thinking abt spending money..i know she has taken responsibility of money it doesn't mean u will bring thing each and every dialogue only with shravan and ur not ready to take money r help because of self respect..

ok..sumo u have to discuss this money thing with ur family..they will help u..please don't bring money matter to shravan because he will defo help u because he loves u..

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Hi smitha...welcome to the forum...i loved how u described shravan and sumo...i respect that...

i am thinking this way...shravan never think abt sumo has some attitude...but recent her beahavior with shravan made him think like that...same time ramu showing examples and comparing her with nirmala...he never think she has some ego...he respect that..ya during pct track he knows she has self respect knowing thta he listened ramanth and gave pct land papers...he is wrong at that situation..now after accident and coffee date their equation changed...they r now realized they r in love can't live without each other...

sumo don't know how to avoid shravan so messed up everything...she wants to stay away from him but at the same time she is beahving weird and rude r harsh whatever...they both r upset...what sumo needs to understand is shravan don't know abt ramnath so atleast she tries to expalin why she is behaving like this...for her her family is most important so she can't take any step towards their realtionship then it would have been better...

i hope cv's will correct it...atleast they can give some expalnation for sumo behaviour...

shravan wants to help sumo because he knows abt kamini how selfish is she..sumo also knows that...but she is not thinking this way she brings money and status between her and shravan..how fair it is...he never showed statues for sumo...he just wants to help her thinking she is his best friend...if ur friend suddenly start avoiding u wll get defo get mad...

sumo please think abt it's ur sis marriage..i know u have taken ur resposibitlity but u have to think abt kamini too(i am not supporting kamini)...tiwari's r ready for destination wedding(1 crore) now hey r thinking abt spending money..i know she has taken responsibility of money it den't mean u will bring thing each and every dialogue only with shravan and ur not ready to take money because of self respect..

ok..sumo u have to discuss this money thing with ur family..they will help u..please don't bring money matter to shravan because he will defo help u because he loves u..

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How can she think about taking money from him ? SHe has told Ramu she wont sell her love. This will prove she has sold

If she tells him abt Ramnath do you think he will believe it?

Dont get me wrong I am not against Shravan but Sumo has a reason to behave like this at this point. What she did 10 year back was arrogance now its majboori

WHy she is taking it on herself ? TO pay back her debt to her family

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Originally posted by: sriarshi
Hi smitha...welcome to the forum...i loved how u described shravan and sumo...i respect that...

i am thinking this way...shravan never think abt sumo has some attitude...but recent her beahavior with shravan made him think like that...same time ramu showing examples and comparing her with nirmala...he never think she has some ego...he respect that..ya during pct track he knows she has self respect knowing thta he listened ramanth and gave pct land papers...he is wrong at that situation..now after accident and coffee date their equation changed...they r now realized they r in love can't live without each other...

sumo don't know how to avoid shravan so messed up everything...she wants to stay away from him but at the same time she is beahving weird and rude r harsh whatever...they both r upset...what sumo needs to understand is shravan don't know abt ramnath so atleast she tries to expalin why she is behaving like this...for her her family is most important so she can't take any step towards their realtionship then it would have been better...

i hope cv's will correct it...atleast they can give some expalnation for sumo behaviour...

shravan wants to help sumo because he knows abt kamini how selfish is she..sumo also knows that...but she is not thinking this way she brings money and status between her and shravan..how fair it is...he never showed statues for sumo...he just wants to help her thinking she is his best friend...if ur friend suddenly start avoiding u wll get defo get mad...

sumo please think abt it's ur sis marriage..i know u have taken ur resposibitlity but u have to think abt kamini too(i am not supporting kamini)...tiwari's r ready for destination wedding(1 crore) now hey r thinking abt spending money..i know she has taken responsibility of money it den't mean u will bring thing each and every dialogue only with shravan and ur not ready to take money because of self respect..

ok..sumo u have to discuss this money thing with ur family..they will help u..please don't bring money matter to shravan because he will defo help u because he loves u..

Totally agree with u 😊

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How can she think about taking money from him ? SHe has told Ramu she wont sell her love. This will prove she has sold

If she tells him abt Ramnath do you think he will believe it?

Dont get me wrong I am not against Shravan but Sumo has a reason to behave like this at this point. What she did 10 year back was arrogance now its majboori

WHy she is taking it on herself ? TO pay back her debt to her family

i was not telling to take money from shravan...i was just telling her don't bring money matter with shravan if ur not ready to take help from him...if u saw ring buying scene was that necessary to tell him they r not rich like themm...shravan was giving her suggestion...if ur ok..take it...tell him they have to spend lot of money in future so now buying ring with this much expenses mamaji can't afford it something like that..it was not necessary to tell him like that..i know taking help from shrravan is wrong...but when he is giving her suggestions also u beahave harsh how can u feel?? if ur friend and goes to buy something but ur upset with ur friend if she taunt u like that u will get upset na...here shravan loves sumo so he definately hurts...waht is huting him most is he don't abt the reason forher behaviour...

i'm not telling her to deal shravan in a different way ...he don't believe abt his father if she tells abt him...i know...but can't u see that how much ur friend is in pain?? here ramanth is selfish whatever his love for his son made him like that whatever his ego he was spoiling his life...sumo knows that..atleast as a friend she should care abt him not living like that...she was also thinking abt her family...no one cares abt shravan

i am not defending shravan r sumo..i am exapling cureent sceario..wat i felt abt this week...i like shraman..edkv forever and ever...i want them together...but one thing cv's r not justifying sumo beahvior towards shravan...i have to wait and watch for next week how it turns out..hope shraman realizes their mistakes...

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Originally posted by: Nitu789
Totally agree with u 😊

thank u 😊

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How can she think about taking money from him ? SHe has told Ramu she wont sell her love. This will prove she has sold

If she tells him abt Ramnath do you think he will believe it?

Dont get me wrong I am not against Shravan but Sumo has a reason to behave like this at this point. What she did 10 year back was arrogance now its majboori

WHy she is taking it on herself ? TO pay back her debt to her family

i was not telling to take money from shravan...i was just telling her don't bring money matter with shravan if ur not ready to take help from him...if u saw ring buying scene was that necessary to tell him they r not rich like themm...shravan was giving her suggestion...if ur ok..take it...tell him they have to spend lot of money in future so now buying ring with this much expenses mamaji can't afford it something like that..it was not necessary to tell him like that..i know taking help from shrravan is wrong...but when he is giving her suggestions also u beahave harsh how can u feel?? if ur friend and goes to buy something but ur upset with ur friend if she taunt u like that u will get upset na...here shravan loves sumo so he definately hurts...waht is huting him most is he don't abt the reason fro her behaviour...

i'm not telling her to deal shravan in a different way ...he don't believe abt his father if she tells abt him...i know...but can u see that how much ur friend is in pain?? here ramanth is selfish whatever his love for his son made him like that whatever his ego he was spoiling his life...sumo knowas that..atleast as a friend she should care abt him not living like that...

i am not defending shravan r sumo..i like shraman..i want them together...but one thing cv's r not justifying sumo beahvior towards shravan...i have to wait and watch for next week how it turns out..hope shramn realizes their mistakes...

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I am not defending anyone dear.. I agree she could do that as well. But Sumo comes with her own baggage 😆 Impulsive, not the deep thinker like Shravan . Speaks without thinking and now shes completely lost .She has lost that one person who can help her as she cannot tell him her problems because she cant stop with one thing if she confides in him

Hes more lost than her poor guy with this manipulative father and his chachi and him not being able to help her.

But I hope he finds out just like she did. If this is the world they are going to live in forever they need to handle this and for that they now need an external push.. maybe Push will wake up.preethi tho is a gone case

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I am not defending anyone dear.. I agree she could do that as well. But Sumo comes with her own baggage 😆 Impulsive, not the deep thinker like Shravan . Speaks without thinking and now shes completely lost .She has lost that one person who can help her as she cannot tell him her problems because she cant stop with one thing if she confides in him

Hes more lost than her poor guy with this manipulative father and his chachi and him not being able to help her.

But I hope he finds out just like she did. If this is the world they are going to live in forever they need to handle this and for that they now need an external push.. maybe Push will wake up.preethi tho is a gone case

i respect ur view dear...agree with u...i just posted my view...no offense to ur post r for ur views...everyone hear have that right to express their views...please don't take it like if u feel like i am not respected ur view...thanks for the post...just commented to increase some activity r discussion...past few days forum is so inactive..so please don't mind it dear...i know ur not defending sumo...here all r shraman fans...just posted my view ...hope u understand

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Originally posted by: sriarshi
I am not defending anyone dear.. I agree she could do that as well. But Sumo comes with her own baggage 😆 Impulsive, not the deep thinker like Shravan . Speaks without thinking and now shes completely lost .She has lost that one person who can help her as she cannot tell him her problems because she cant stop with one thing if she confides in him
Hes more lost than her poor guy with this manipulative father and his chachi and him not being able to help her.
But I hope he finds out just like she did. If this is the world they are going to live in forever they need to handle this and for that they now need an external push.. maybe Push will wake up.preethi tho is a gone case

i respect ur view dear...agree with u...i just posted my view...no offense to ur post r for ur views...everyone hear have that right to express their views...please don't take it like if u feel like i am not respected ur view...thanks for the post...just commented to increase some activity r discussion...past few days forum is so inactive..so please don't mind it dear...i know ur not defending sumo...here all r shraman fans...just posted my view ...hope u understand

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