What is Sumo's fault??

Ladki kya kya Kare?

Ek toh so called "Caring" family ka load...sbki demands wo puri kare jese Ki she's the man in the family...
upar se koi understand karne wala nahi.. behen ki..shadi ka tension sari responsibility ladki k sar pe n nobody gives a damn Ki kese manage kregi sumo...

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Self respect thing toh koi bhi independent working lady will have it n it will b very difficult to accept financial help n dat too from groom's family Jo pehle se hi beizatti karne k mauke dhund rhi h...

where is sumo wrong in her stand?

Above all no body gives a damn that she LOST the ONLY love of her Life ...SHRAVAN </3

Pehle hi sumo is heartbroken n people r blaming her self respect Jaap as d culprit of everything!! Such Shallow mindedness!!

n abt Shravan...I'll need to make another post on his stupidity.

Anyways Shravan...Pyar kiya toh Trust bhi kar!!

Love u Cvs for dis awesome Show.

Nothing - she is want to show that is Mahan simple

people dont see she trying hard .. she understands emotions but is also practical .. she is the one looking at the actual figures .. one person she rushes to discuss her troubles is the one person she is supposed to stay away from ..

Ya when everyone is talking about shravans pain I think sumo is in more pain

Exactly what I think, topic maker. She's being pushed from all sides.

Taking my cue from Amri's comment, let me start by saying: I'm Team ShraMan all the way...

Originally posted by: an_chau

Taking my cue from Amri's comment, let me start by saying: I'm Team ShraMan all the way...

Not Team Sumo, not Team Shravan. There are days when I strongly want to pick a side, but in the end, I don't. Because these two are meant to be together, so if there has to be a team, it has to be Team ShraMan! J

So if the question is: "Ladki kya kya kare?" I'd say, "Baat Karein!" Give voice to her feelings and her troubles. She can't just wish the problems away, can she? She cannot expect that if she chooses to turn a blind eye or a deaf ear to Kamini's complaints or Mami's expectations, she can go on with her life as usual - No she can't. And that's part of growing up and taking responsibilities. There are multiple POVs that you have to consider, and then place them in the context of real concerns - in this case, money - and then DISCUSS it like a grown-up with other grown-ups! Problems-Potential Solutions...

What is she doing instead? Sumo is listening to people's demands, and ASSURING them that everything will be done their way. And then, the girl turns around and nixes everything. If she doesn't share the money issue with her family, they will be forever under the impression that all's well. She's finding it difficult to arrange money for everything, but she's just one person! If the entire family gathers around the problem, there will be that many sticks to beat it down with.

I agree all of Kamini's demands are ridiculous and should be shot down at the first opportunity. But Sumo is not doing that, is she? Not in front of Kamini, and not even at home. She's only trashing them in her own thoughts. But she does not operate in vacuum - there are other people around whose lives are being/will be impacted by her decisions. So she needs to speak to them about it, right?

About the self-respect angle, I have no problems with her perspective there. Of course, she can't take help from Ramnath (in all his evil glory) or even Shravan (god bless him J)...

If Sumo is wrong, it's only in her handling of the shaadi scenario. The poor, poor girl has been pushed into a very tight corner, has hardly any choices. And she's being awfully brave about it; if Shravan knew the whole story, he'd be so proud of his girl... BUT she can't tell him... However, she can tell her family about the money troubles, and she should. Because she needs their help in tackling this bear...

Originally posted by: Ashi345678

Ladki kya kya Kare?

Ek toh so called "Caring" family ka load...sbki demands wo puri kare jese Ki she's the man in the family...
upar se koi understand karne wala nahi.. behen ki..shadi ka tension sari responsibility ladki k sar pe n nobody gives a damn Ki kese manage kregi sumo...

About
Self respect thing toh koi bhi independent working lady will have it n it will b very difficult to accept financial help n dat too from groom's family Jo pehle se hi beizatti karne k mauke dhund rhi h...

where is sumo wrong in her stand?

Above all no body gives a damn that she LOST the ONLY love of her Life ...SHRAVAN </3

Pehle hi sumo is heartbroken n people r blaming her self respect Jaap as d culprit of everything!! Such Shallow mindedness!!

n abt Shravan...I'll need to make another post on his stupidity.

Anyways Shravan...Pyar kiya toh Trust bhi kar!!

Love u Cvs for dis awesome Show.